Agree/Disagree?
And why?
2006-12-03 03:07:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Friends, I TOTALLY AGREE! Good question!!!!
EXACTLY!!!!!!! From experience, I used to go on looks, and that's VERY DECEIVING! I had alot of SAD experiences with relationshipes going NOWHERE! Now that I have "grown up" in EVERY sense of the word, you have got the FORMULA, as posted----------- One has to know a person PROPERLY in order to FALL in love with him/her! There's no inbetween!
If a person just goes on looks, you can SET yourself UP for some MAJOR hurts and self-esteem and EGO problems, as well! (self destructing in a big way!)
Have learned alot through experience! Thanks for the great posted question!
Hope you get more rresponses!
Keep up the good work DUDE! :-)
2006-12-03 03:19:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disagree, hasn't anyone ever fallen in "love at first sight". I beleive this is possible. The proof of the matter lyes in the fact that most people fall in love before they really know each other, actually you really never know your partner completely. It's not to say that it's based on just thier looks, but the instant chemistry between two people.
2006-12-03 03:19:22 · answer #2 · answered by erasictrenton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
falling IN love w/ someone takes little or no time. it's the equivalent of an infatuation. you can fall IN love w/ someone's looks, easily. but don't get that mixed up w/ loving someone. loving someone takes time and a lot of trust. you'd have to really like someone first before you can love him. love should be unconditional, which is pretty much why parents might not like what their kids do at times, but they never stop loving them. put it to you this way, if say you're dating a hotty and you find yourself missing her when she isn't around but then she gets into a terrible accident that f's up her looks, and you find you don't even feel like visiting her in the hospital anymore, then chances are, you were only smitten w/ her looks and have no feelings of love for her whatsoever. on the other hand, if you're dating this girl and she gets into an accident that renders her disabled and you STILL want to be w/ her and it hurts you to see her in pain, then chances are you love her emensly. hope this helps.
2006-12-03 03:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally agree. Looks are only superficial. It's what's inside that makes most people fall in love.
2006-12-03 03:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, im agreed. Most of time we do fall in love with someone that we knew after for awhile without seeing him/her. The love started when they care for us. The way that him/her talk or handle things in difficult makes us more trust them and there the love start.
2006-12-03 03:12:37 · answer #5 · answered by ironlady42 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Agree.
Appearance is what catches the eye but personality is what brings you close enough to fall in love...
Inner beauty always always always outshines outer beauty.
Take, for example, my crush.
I can't say he's very attractive, because... well, he's not really, but i love his personality; how he's always jokey and makes fun of me, but in a really friendly way. we have so much fun together.
I would much rather be with him than a really attractive guy who has nothing to talk about except himself.
hope this helps!
2006-12-03 03:10:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree you can't fall in love by just looks. You have to know them.
2006-12-03 03:12:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AGREE! I know someone, who told someone, who told me that this girl was going to do whatever it took to marry a Dr. Well, she did, and I'm sure her looks had everything to do with it because she is a beautiful girl ON THE OUTSIDE! Do you understand what I'm saying. This Dr. was deceived and now paying VERY dearly. Get to know this person very well, meet their friends and family. That will give you a lot of information about they type of person he/she really is.
Hope this helps!!!!
2006-12-03 03:14:08 · answer #8 · answered by oracle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree, although at time you can seem to make a connection with a person, it does not mean your in love it means that there is a connection and at times, they may just be the friend.
2006-12-03 03:10:57 · answer #9 · answered by a h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree! Love is something deep that comes with getting to someone beyond their appearance.
2006-12-03 03:10:14 · answer #10 · answered by "karma" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋