I'm always falling for the ones that break my heart. Now everytime i find a guy I'm afraid of haveing to go through this all over again. I want to know i can trust them but I feel like I'm always being used. Then again, I dont want to not trust a guy and find out he was the right one.
2006-12-03 03:01:54 · 18 answers · asked by SAMANTHA B 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My own experience, quit looking for the right guy and let the right one find you. It is easier to let the good guys come to you, it also seems to make them easier to recognize.
2006-12-03 03:08:29 · answer #1 · answered by a h 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Trust has to be built in time. The love or dating game can and does hurt at times. Try to look at the type of guys you pick? What are the similarities? Getting back in the "game" is tough sometimes. Take things slow and don't give so much of yourself so fast. Being friends first always seems to make a relationship work better. And, finding the right guys is not something one finds. Mr. right will come along when you least expect it or not looking. When we stop looking for love it seems to make it's way to us. Have fun with your friends and try not to focus so much on being with a guy. He will come in time when you and him are both ready. I know that dosen't sound like what you want to hear but, my age I've learned through experience just like you. Good luck and have some fun with your friends mr. right could just walk right by you when you least expect it.
2006-12-03 11:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by Rosa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't find him, let him find you...for the meantime, don't be afraid to trust someone but be cautious on who u trust. Don't give up on love, it will happen at the right place and the right time.
2006-12-03 11:13:44 · answer #3 · answered by curiousfemale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off the guy will find you. The Bible says a man that finds a wife finds a good thing. Set your standards and stick with them. When you meet a guy and he dont meet your standards move around. Relationships come woth happiness and sometimes you just have to take chances but DONT GET YOUR FEELINGS INVOVLED.
2006-12-03 11:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by LADYJ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First talk to him for a while. Get to know him and see what he's like. If it seems like all he wants to do is use you, theres your answer. Find out from other people what he's like and see the kind of things hes done in his past relationships. Don't rush into anything, just wait.
2006-12-03 11:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i be the same way. i want the right person.but i keep getting thugs.just sit back and wait for someone to come to u.befor u start a relationship,u should always be friends fisrt.if he's what u been looking for.start a relationship.if not.move on.there are plenty of boys your type in the world.don't fall to fast in love.wait until he's in love with u first.then do yo thang.kennysha a.k.a. jasmin.
2006-12-03 11:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not a bout finding the right guy. You have to find yourself first. There is a reason why you are choosing men that use you.
You allow them to use you.
Don't date for while...get into yourself...learn who you are, what you like. Don't look for Mr. Right! He will come along when you focus on you.
2006-12-03 11:15:40 · answer #7 · answered by Author Al 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Right place.
A guy you met at the bar or a guy you met at the library?
I think second one is more likely to be a great guy.
2006-12-03 11:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by nihil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kinda hard to say what you should do, but just keep at it. He's out there, the challenging part is finding him. Safeguard your heart though.
2006-12-03 11:12:25 · answer #9 · answered by heathboy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I absolutely know what you mean as I feel the same.... but every guy deserves to have a clean record at the beginning...good luck to you :)
2006-12-03 11:06:49 · answer #10 · answered by heart_angela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋