He getts off the phone after 5 minutes. and never really talks to me.
2006-12-03 01:34:12 · 13 answers · asked by sprit_girl2u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's not enough information to make a good decision. Communication between the two of you is the most important thing in your relationship.
If you are struggling with trust issues and lack of communication, it might be best for you to move on and find someone that truly makes you happy.
Good luck!
2006-12-03 01:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Miranda M 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Most guys can't stand being on the phone longer than a couple of minutes. They simply don't know what to say. They feel that if you have important things to say, that you will see them in person.
My guy has always been this way. We have been together a little over 3 years. You just need to save chitchat for your girlfriends. He is a "guy" & would rather be sitting around watching sports or something!! Be casual about it. If he's there for you when you have something important to say, then there is nothing to worry about.
2006-12-03 09:39:44 · answer #2 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he gets off the phone after 5 minutes doesn't mean hes cheating on you. maybe he just does not like talking on the phone and has nothing to say over the phone. ask him then if you are really wondering. you might be getting upset over nothing.
2006-12-03 09:38:14 · answer #3 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most men or guys dont like to talk on the phone .how old are you? are you still in school?if so does he walk with you in the halls does he come over your house do you go and do things together
just because he dont talk on the phone doesnt mean he is cheating and if you have no other signs of cheating dont worry about it he just dont like to chat on the phone there is alot of men who are like that some women aswell not many but they are out there dont worry bout it until your have more to worry about
2006-12-03 09:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by harleygirled 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you have to learn like I did [the hard way]. Watch his actions: does he hang up when you walk into the room, is he whispering, is it ALL calls or only certain calls. When you and he talk over the phone is it also quick? Or did I misunderstand your details.....is the 5-minute call with you or someone else??
2006-12-03 09:42:57 · answer #5 · answered by Houston Hopeful 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just come out and ask him, but do this when you're with him. If he says no, then ask him if he still wants to be with you. If he doesn't change then perhaps he's just lost interest in you.
2006-12-03 09:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask heam obout and if he goise like he doisent now and sais no i dont have 1 then you should meke shore that he dont have 1 and ask 1 of heas frends and if he thas have 1 then brok up with heam.
2006-12-03 09:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Natasha O.C.:) 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
may b guy don like talk through the phone may be he like to see you face to face. or may be ....... you should ask him out to check out .
2006-12-03 10:00:38 · answer #8 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey may be busy or he might be cheating, you might never know.
2006-12-03 09:36:42 · answer #9 · answered by DanceForJoy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you see him often? i know that i get pissed if my girlfriend calls me after just being with her.
2006-12-03 09:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by iron chef bryan 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋