ok, i'll be honest, i've never been in love, thats why i ask a lot of questions on it, but is there ever such a love like the ones you find in romance novels??? is there any chance things happen like that??? if so, how often? it makes me wonder if love like that ever truly exists cos if it did, i wonder why they'd write about it so much... sorry for all my weirds questions...
2006-12-03 00:46:01 · 13 answers · asked by Gaz K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I believe in true love. I believe a truly strong enduring love develops over time. First there is the physical attraction, then there is the getting to know each other (good points and bad - and we all have both), - then there are the "tests" - I don't mean the tests that people put each other through, but the "tests of life". Events happen, those that really love each other support each other through both the good times and the bad times. True love endures all things.
2006-12-06 02:41:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 34 years old and if there is the true love you speak of i have not seen it i think the reason they write that stuff in the books is so you can dream to have a love like that or wish the the love you have was like that. dont get me wrong there are people out there who really love but its never like the books we read or the movies we watch but i hope you do find the true love your looking for but dont get to attached to the novel love or you will be hurt more than you think because reality is there is no prince on the white horse
2006-12-03 08:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest love is what you make it really, its an amazing thing when you find it. For me no relationship that i have had has ever been like a romance in a book but i think that it can happen if you lucky enough!
2006-12-03 14:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by Emma W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love you're looking for does exist....however, you have to be realistic. It's good to have high standards but if you expect love to be like the perfect romance novel, you're going to be a bit disappointed.
Love has highs and lows....the highs can be really high and that's where it's like a romance novel.
2006-12-03 08:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that sometimes the romance novels are a pale imitation of real life --- but it has to be worked at ---- both parties have to commit to make it work out or else in time it will just fade away
2006-12-03 08:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with the Lancer. It is not always like the novels, but you have chances time to time to live like as if it is. And when it is that moment, you know it is the "high" time. Try to breath those moments deepy and for that you'll need to remember for a glance.
2006-12-03 08:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is there that is for sure.. but romance in novels is completly different from real life.. yes we all wish if it did happen like in the novels.
2006-12-03 09:07:33 · answer #7 · answered by julia1975 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that only happen if the bf is a romantic guy that he plan all things u wanted like in novel or in the movie (example like in pretty woman). if it really happen what you fantasies , man i must say you r one lucky gal, god treat you like a princess.
2006-12-03 08:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is .. no there isn't .
it depends on every single case ..and on how does one look at the case .
love you are looking for is not that of romance novels ..
I think you have to live it ..to (make) it ..to ( creat ) it ..
2006-12-03 10:23:43 · answer #9 · answered by horras 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Things can happen like that if you want them to happen like that, but mostly those are fantasies and not reality.
2006-12-03 08:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by Nattiedred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋