I met a man the first of Sept. 2006. He right away wanted to date, talked about growing old together, stayed with me every day for about 2 months. First of Nov. he said he had to go stay at his house to take care of it and help his dad out, he comes stays all nite about 1 time a week. I've wondered if there was another woman, but never sure. He doesn't seem to be sexually attracted to me any more, he doesn't seem to be as interested in me & he gets upset with me a lot. After about a two months of us dating I over heard my son tell him that he had seen his My Space profile, so I checked it out, his status said he was in a relationship & his (what i'm here for - said- networking & friends. Today, I just went to his profile, I don't know why, I was bored I guess & now his status says: single & his: what i'm here for says: friends, dating, serious relationships & networking. This has really hurt my feelings & upset me! Please give me your opionion of why you think & what should I do?
2006-12-03 00:29:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a **** ans so doenst deserve you!
2006-12-03 00:33:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♪ Jackielynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think and ive been here many times myself is that he first used you for a place to live then when he just didnt wanna be there with you any more he made up the excuse of going to take care of the house and if he has changed his profile he is now looking for someone else to play mind games with and the only reason why he still sees you once a week is because he needs the fix until he finds the other woman then hes gone so ask him about the profile but in the mean time dont allow him to sleep with you youll only get hurt dont mean to sound unfeeling just want you to really know what your getting into
2006-12-03 00:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by ibebarbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesnt want to be in this relationship. You need to be honest with him and ask what it is that he wants with y'alls relationship. Also let him know that you've saw his profile on MySpace. Not telling him will only hurt you more. Whether or not he gets mad at you is his choice. Dont just not do anything. It'll only eat at you more and if hes not happy with you, he'll end up cheating and that'll hurt even more. So confront him about it and see what happens. The worst is, he'll want to leave. It'll be hard for you, but why would you want to be in a relationship with someone that doesnt appreciate you? I wish you the best!
2006-12-03 00:34:14 · answer #3 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was new and it excited the both of you.He got what he wanted I'm sorry to say and left at the first chance.You don't have alot invested and I think you know what your next step should be.People need spark in a relationship and it should be exciting at first, not doubt.If you doubt now you should leave because he isn't right for you.You should have nothing but passion and respect for each other.I hope you take care of yourself their is alot of people out there to offer.
2006-12-03 00:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by trevor k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes changed his profile while dating you from in relationship to single and looking it means hes bolted. or thinking of it. ask him whats the score get an answer. pretty shitty way of ending with you but ask before you jump to possibly the wrong conclusion. at the least although its no consolation you can be sure there is no other woman. it would seem your a safety net and he doesnt see a future with you. ask first, assume later.
2006-12-03 00:39:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a major loser. You are probably not the first person he has done this to and you probably won't be the last. Get him out of your life IMMEDIATELY! You don't need the heartache. You deserve someone special that only has eyes for you and that will be good to your son.
2006-12-03 00:43:58 · answer #6 · answered by sydney77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
No telling what he is doing when he's not with you. Just confront him about the MySpace profile and tell him how you feel. If he gets upset at you or tries to deny it, you're wasting your time and need to kick him to the curb.
2006-12-03 00:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by KUZIKAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart let me explain i have been on these sites for along time hes a player he was using you (dont be upset about it) it happens do not lay yourself to be taken sorry it happened
i ahve been talking to this guyt on line for almost a year and we only talk on line we have a bond with each other dont know if we will meet but its beautiful the line isnt for all be careful love yourself first then you wont have to worry
2006-12-03 00:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by PASSION 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate myspace. just last night me and my gf of 2 years got in what my be a relationship ending fight over the pictures and the comments she has posted of another guy all over her myspace. i may have been a little rash, but i needed answers before i went insane. confront him, or it will grow like a seed of anger until you can't take it anymore. don't be like me and do something you might regret.
2006-12-03 00:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by alex l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him ON MY SPACE
send a message and say hey Mr single this is the girl that you led to believe was in an exclusive relationship , you can really consider yourself single now
then of course block him, he will try to lie his way out of it
I know this from personal experience , it happened to me
swore I was the one (exclusive) and friends would see him on dating sites
2006-12-03 00:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were USED bi this lying loser... so sad so many guys do that... I would never. been used myself, so I know how it feels. it's time to move on, hun... sorry. that hurts, I know. look for better character next time and stay away from move-ins or sex so soon. good luck.
2006-12-03 00:33:17 · answer #11 · answered by azcuriousm4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋