No, this is not refering to me (i am older) Referring to someone i know. Was just wanting your opinions on this. Be as lunt as you want.
2006-12-03 00:27:44 · 18 answers · asked by Katsika 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy is emotionally immature and cannot find women his own age.
I'm sure the girl is flattered, but she needs to step back and really ponder this relationship.
2006-12-03 02:27:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Legal issues aside (I guess they aren't an issue where you are writing from, otherwise, you might have hinted at it), I can well imagine some more mature men being highly attractive to some young girls. After all, their maturity also has a lot of advantages. Maybe the girl feels that the man is able to show her things in life she really wants to experience. I have known girls like that, and there is nothing wrong wih them at all. At 17, people are very much adult. And as for the man, who knows, he may be drawn to her for more than the obvious reasons. It doesn't take a pervert to like a 17-year old girl. Apart from the fact that a lot of European models are barely 14, 17-year-olds these days are very assertive and grown-up, and he may not even realize she isn't older. I once accidentally had a blind date with a 13-year old, can you imagine the implications? She seemed like 25 to me, which is what I was. So, maybe find out what he knows first, maybe he thinks she's 30?
2006-12-03 18:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Tahini Classic 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is a pedophile! His maturity level is very questionable. What could a 36 yr old and a 17 yr old possibly have in common? Not even sex, could be a common ground. This man is more than likely looking for someone to control and the younger the better. I don't think state laws would protect this girl since she is over 16, but you could keep a close eye out for signs of abuse and be ready to help her out.
This man has something very wrong with him if he is searching for acceptance from a very young girl.
2006-12-03 08:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by stacey h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you look at it obviously it looks odd. The guy is like her father already. There are so many guys out there that you or she haven't met yet and she chooses a guy who is 36 years old. But if you want to make sure if you or she is doing the right thing you should ask God for signs. He is The Best.
2006-12-03 08:31:56 · answer #4 · answered by kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont have a problem with the age gap i do with the 17 yo that is too young for a variety of reasons --- she has not had enough life experince to cope with someone 36 --- and for legal reasons
2006-12-03 08:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my state 17 will get you 20----Years in jail and you can be famous and have your pic and name and address on a state funded web site with the title of SEX OFFENDER
2006-12-03 08:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by railcar_exp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pervert city
2006-12-03 08:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever floats your boat. It won't last so I see it as a fling for both parties involved.
2006-12-03 08:38:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's too much. It's also against the law, if they're having a sexual relationship.
That guy is disgusting!!!
2006-12-03 08:46:18 · answer #9 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could the girl wait for a few more years before she gets serious??
2006-12-03 08:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋