I was in love with a girl in my teenage in 1994.
Her name was Neetu.
This was just a one sided love.
I proposed her by phone when i was in 2nd year of my B.E. graduation.
She avoided me bcoz she was in love with her neighbour.
She also got married to him after 2 years.
Now she is staying at bangalore with her husband and she has 3 year old daughter.
I am 30 and still unmarried due to her memories.
Sometimes i think about bad ideas of making her widow.
What should i do ?
2006-12-06 00:20:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey munna, i know a girl with da same name neetu...is she from jaypur or rajasthn ?
anyways, you must forget the past n you should invest your time for something creative rather than that stupid girl.
she was stupid so she left you.
dont care n do your best for making us laugh.
hehehe.
2006-12-06 02:59:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How crazy can a qualified engineer get? You sure that she will jump into your arms if she is widowed? And that too by you? Till now you have remained unloved by her. If your plan succeeds, you would be hated by her as long as she lives. And you would probably end precious years behind bars or possibly meet a more unfortunate end for all your pains.
Kick such negative thoughts out of your mind. Accept the fact that she is not for you. Move on in life and find someone who really loves you. That is expected from an educated, sensible and rational human being.
2006-12-06 04:30:11 · answer #2 · answered by Modest 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I accept that Love is very crazy but at the same time u have to live your life better get married soon.If u relly loved her then better let her lead a happy life with her love.
All the best.Try some counselling
2006-12-06 00:45:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It sounds like you have an obsession with her. You need to realize that people that we fantasize about are seldom like that once we get to know them.
Find yourself a girlfriend. This requires effort. Give girls a chance. You are expecting them to measure up to the fantasy of this girl not the reality. So keep that in mind. There will be a lovely girl for you but not if you continually place this other one on a pedestal. She is human and she does human things. She is not perfect. Please think about this.
2006-12-06 00:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by JAM 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well can understand your problem.....but you have to make yourself clear that she was never made for you....if you love her truly than you should be convinced that she is happy in her married life....why you want to be a troublesome for her life......i think you can forget her but your forcing yourself to love her....dont worry you will find a gal who is made for u n who will worth your love
2006-12-06 00:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Grow up and get a life.
2006-12-06 00:25:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
thats called infatuation...if you really loved her ...you would do whatever it takes to make her happy even if its means letting her go..
2006-12-06 06:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by Raymond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like you chose to relish her memory you can choose to move on.
2006-12-06 00:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by punkin 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you need to move on mate. Seriously.
2006-12-06 00:22:32 · answer #9 · answered by gerrifriend 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Thinking of murder? Hmm... I say therapy would be a good investment..... yes..defenitly therapy.
2006-12-06 00:27:32 · answer #10 · answered by Money 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋