2006-12-06 00:11:05 · 47 answers · asked by Ram 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I LOVE MY PARENTS.
2006-12-09 06:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well our parents played a big role bringing us into thsi world and caring for us while we grew up. They deserve to be honoured, even the Bible tells us that "honor you father and mother, this is the first command with a promise", the Bible also talks about "a man leaving his parent to cleave to his wife". So our parent and our love are all important but in your own case reason with your parents and know why they don't want your love, if they have a misconception about your love then gently and maturely correct them, there maybe something they are seeing about your so called "love"that you can't see because you are blinded by infactuation or love. Sometimes we tend to make mistake that only our parents can correct, there are people out there who don't have parents and are exposed to all sort of dangers. You have, so take advantage of yours before it's too late.
By the way, you didn't mention if you are already married to this love or not
2006-12-06 00:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having trouble understanding what on earth could put you in a situation that you had to choose. Parents are usually looking out for their kids best interest. I could never imagine choosing against my parents, life without them would be empty even if you are not close. If your love is forcing the issue I have a problem with that. Maybe everyone should sit down and talk it out. Good luck.
2006-12-06 00:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Barry W 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the people understand others, this sort of situation shud not arise at all. In any case, u have to decide as to what life means to u, ur parents or the love. In any case, ur parents will pop off at some point of time by which time u will not have any choice of having ur loved one with u. The choice is clearly love unless ur parents have some logic against it. If so, u have to examine the matter objectively before coming to final decision.
2006-12-06 00:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends who is asking. If your parents are putting you on the spot choose love. If your love is making you pick one over the other, choose the parents. I am going through this right now with my fiance's family.
The first time I met his mom was on Christmas Eve, we had been dating 7 months and living together (we live on the West coast, they are on the east coast) She told him he had to choose between going to Christmas dinner at my family's house at 2pm or his family dinner at 8pm. I thought we would do both but in her opinion it was one house over the other.
So if your problem is anything like this. NO QUESTIONS ASKED get rid of the person that is making you choose!
2006-12-06 17:39:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Choose your love. Your parents have taken care of you as they gave birth to you. After bringing you up and educating you they have taken the back seat in your life. Your love and your family are your future. So dont look back. Parents will accept your love if they love you.
2006-12-07 18:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a very serious and sad dilemma, I can tell, as my parents made me choose twice about the same guy, first time 1999 and second time a year later, both times I decided for him, and after almost 10 years of relationship I know I made the right choice, we will get married next year, and I can only say, screw you, parents, who chase away a child of yours, I am grateful to my future husband for all he has gone through with me and I am absolutely sure that nothing can ever break us apart, not even stupid people who cannot cherish their own child's luck
greets Anne
2006-12-06 02:35:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there..
i think it all depends on how much u love you're parents and how much they mean to u.
i have kinda been at the same stage as you there was once a time in my life that i had to chose one and i chose my parents because i believed in fate.
couples are made already in heaven here on earth is only were it happens. . .
so if u really love her then set her free ,if she comes back then shes truly yours. if not!! then i guess it wasn't meant to be..
i know love isn't a game and its not so easy to let go but then u have to be wise and use you're brain more then the heart.
think twice b4 u take a step, u may hurt you're love ones by making a decision.
2006-12-06 00:22:49 · answer #8 · answered by maryan j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Certainely Love. Because Parents forgive later. But lose love once is lost for ever. So, better is choose love first and try to be more affectionate to the parents also make your love to be close to your parents. Why not, they are my loving Mummy and Pappa only. Woh hamein maaf karega.
2006-12-06 00:18:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does this question mean parents do not love? you have to decide whose love is important for you - whether parents' or your girlfriend. One should always be indebted to the parents since they brought you in this world that is why there is this question which you are facing.Parents' love is forever but girlfriend/wife's love lose its intensity over the period. This can be realized iff one becomes a parent.
2006-12-06 00:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by Titu66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, because of two reasons (1) Parents have lived their life, enjoyed it well. I have lived with parents for so many years loving them, Parents are two Father and Mother, they can live together but (2) Me and My Love are Alone, we can't live without each other. We haven't lived together, we haven't seen any good days.
Therefore, I will live with my love because I love my love very much and I am Sad without my Love, nothing can replace my love.
2006-12-06 01:46:54 · answer #11 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋