Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

2006-12-06 02:22:11 · 14 answers · asked by whitegurl 1 in Singles & Dating

we have 4 beautifull children and we have 6 years together. we cant wait to get married. we dont have much money as we have alot of expenses as you can imagine with 4 kids, rent, and everything. we realy are ready and we dont want to wait forever so with about $3,000 we want to know what we can do? is it possible to have a decent wedding on that small of a budget?

2006-12-06 02:21:54 · 16 answers · asked by A Proud Marine's Daughter 3 in Weddings

Ok, I was married for a year and a half to a wonderful person. He gave me everything I wanted,but I wasn't happy. We didn't even have sex...I didn't find him attractive in that way (a year after we got married).We started falling apart and thats when I met the man I'm with now. My husband and I got divorced. And Now I'm engaged. He makes me happy in everyway. I just have a few thoughts running through my head now that our wedding is 2 months away. See, he has had many problems with my past. He will get in these weird moods and start treating me bad and telling me stuff just to hurt me..Then he tells me he is sorry after I am crying and threatening to leave him...He is trying to be good now. But what should I do? Some of the stuff he has said to me is awful. Like comparing me to his ex, and like this for instance...I was raped at age 17. This makes him sick. He told me one day He layed there staring at me one night in bed just thinking how sick I made him b/c of it.

2006-12-06 02:21:22 · 13 answers · asked by Just here. 4 in Singles & Dating

My guy really likes red hair (not orange, a nice deep red colour)- he doesn't have a problem with my blonde, but I feel like surprising him- should I dye it red (non permanent)?

2006-12-06 02:21:18 · 22 answers · asked by jowigley 2 in Singles & Dating

should i pretend i don't know and go with the flow?

2006-12-06 02:20:34 · 23 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3 in Singles & Dating

When men see an attractive women, we think sexual thoughts. Is it the same with women?

2006-12-06 02:20:24 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you are addicted to phone sex or cyber sex and if u still love your wife and ur only doing it with some one else for the kicks and that someone is also not serious about it at all, is it still cheating?

2006-12-06 02:18:49 · 14 answers · asked by onallthetime 1 in Singles & Dating

I know its against all wedding etiquitte but one of my bridesmaids has recently become a horrible friend and has hurt my feelings. Is it possible to tell her that I've changed my mind--and how could I do it?

2006-12-06 02:18:16 · 24 answers · asked by Crystal P 4 in Weddings

I asked him how much he thinks we should spend on each other....he says $20.00 or under.......we are in college but are adults with resonable incomes....is he serious, is this normal, what is him problem as why he would chosse such a small amount. This is our first christmas.

2006-12-06 02:17:47 · 27 answers · asked by Queen459789 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 02:16:37 · 4 answers · asked by mbateman5 2 in Singles & Dating

this is the situation i am not a perv or anything its just my husband has problems and i am still fairly young and horny.i dont want to cheat and masturbation is just so played out. what am i to do?

2006-12-06 02:16:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i cant get out of the bedroom help me please?

2006-12-06 02:16:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What happend to my clothing?

2006-12-06 02:14:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so this guy in my culinary class at BOCES, and i have been flirting hard core, and yesterday he kissed me (he is a VERY good kisser) but he has a g/f and she is the sister of one of my very good friends, and that friend actual;ly told me she wanted me to do stuff w/ him so her sister and him would break up, b/c he is 16 and she is like...20 now...and my friend is glad that i let him kiss me...i mean i liked him since before he was dating HER...and he liked me before that...but i still feel kinda guilty inside b/c im the other girl...i dunno what to do...i feel like this whole thing makes me a bad person...but i'm far too infatuated to resist....

2006-12-06 02:14:56 · 28 answers · asked by So over-used 2 in Singles & Dating

In response to another question, someone mentioned that they did just that.

Would you?

2006-12-06 02:14:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

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2006-12-06 02:14:35 · 4 answers · asked by RuthW60631 1 in Singles & Dating

So please try to convince me that girls are not just as shallow as guys. I have been noticing lately that there are many girls I have met or have known for a while that complain about singleness, but their standards are wicked high. Now when I say standards I don't mean personality standards, because I have yet to meet a girl that actually looks at personality first. I am just a little tired of hearing the complaints.

2006-12-06 02:14:18 · 2 answers · asked by cnm 4 in Singles & Dating

In other words, is there anything like being good in bed?

2006-12-06 02:13:44 · 8 answers · asked by Dan Iskha 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 02:13:11 · 26 answers · asked by santhu 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 02:12:47 · 13 answers · asked by whitegurl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 02:12:22 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have several girlfriends who are alone. They are waiting for the perfect black man, rather than the perfect man. I have suggested dating outside of the race but they won't go there. They seem as if they would rather settle or share a man rather than searching for someone special. What are your thoughts?

2006-12-06 02:11:46 · 10 answers · asked by Mom2six 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 02:11:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and we both are finding ourselves REALY wanting some sex, BUT im not sure if i want to because i dont wanna ruin anything between us by having sex, cuz i like her ALOT, what do you think i should do?

2006-12-06 02:11:21 · 5 answers · asked by snoflake7771 1 in Singles & Dating

How do I get out of a marriage with a man in the Navy?

2006-12-06 02:11:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was trying to look somewhat sexy bc i knew i would see my crush, so i wore a white t-shirt, just a normal shirt with a carebear on it. but then later, i saw that it is somewhat see thru and i was wearing a white bra under it. would this be a turn-on or would you be embarrassed for me? i am bisexual. she looked at my chest and smiled. i thought it because of the carebear.

2006-12-06 02:10:59 · 6 answers · asked by rhiannon_kc 1 in Singles & Dating

I am going in for an operation and will have to spend some time in hospital. I do not want my husband and boyfriend meeting up at hospital because neither know about each other. But my concern is what do I tell my boyfriend about my absence. Should I say I am going away on holiday? How will I explain the lack of postcards, international phone calls etc.

Has anyone every had to deal with a situation like this?

2006-12-06 02:10:42 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is probably one of the craziest times for me. In December is our anniversary, not to mention Christmas too and then his birthday in January. I already got him a pair of shoes he has been eyeing (got an awesome deal on those), and a coat he's been eyeing (got a great deal on that too). Anyway I was thinking about making a book for him. Pretty much kinda like a porno mag but with me instead. Does anyone have any good ideas? You might have to email them to me b/c kids are on here. I need help!!

2006-12-06 02:09:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I suppose mine is that I am the one who accidently put a bowling ball size hole in my buddies hot tub. Sorry Clay, but I was drunk and wanted to go bowling I guess. I can hardly remember.

2006-12-06 02:08:40 · 11 answers · asked by Brevin 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-06 02:08:33 · 8 answers · asked by whitegurl 1 in Singles & Dating