2006-12-06 02:11:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure. It is complacency. It happens all the time. It is hard to go on with the same person when you feel like you have talked about everything and know everything about the other person. It is also hard to spice things up. You have two choices: 1. Work on it and change your life together or 2. Move on to new "waters". But I will warn this, new "waters" are only new for so long. I have learned it the hard way. You could do role playing (act like two completely different people) or counseling or take a break. Or something until one works.
2006-12-06 02:18:05 · answer #1 · answered by workless 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible. I dated a girl for 4 years and saw her almost everyday even if it was only for a short time. We began to have no life outside of each other and slowly turned from a loving relationship where we had planned on getting married into a friendship. Our intimacy began to slow down and we turned into different people. This may not happen to you, but make sure you keep a life outside of each other, it will give you a chance to miss each other and make seeing each other even better. Hope this helps.
2006-12-06 02:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Lee M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi I'm with my boyfriend and have been for nearly three years. We've found that sometimes its good to have a break, maybe for a day in between seeing each other all the time. We welcome holidays from one another, not because we're bored of each other but because its nice to have a break and its even more fun when we're excited to see each other after the holiday apart! Perhaps its because we're dating and not married, when we marry we'll have a different mindset. Hope this helps!
2006-12-06 02:15:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!!!! Relationships are work and the same old thing every day will drive anyone to boredom! Just try keeping it fresh, do things alone from time to time, and think of fun things to do together than break up the "routine".... Love really is forever, but relationships go through various stages, it's the commitment of love that keeps two people together to overcome the little things like "boredom". Good Luck!
2006-12-06 02:14:44 · answer #4 · answered by favrd1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if it's boredom, but I think you have to miss someone and u really appreciate the time that u do get to spend with them. When u see each other everyday there is no time to miss them because they are always there. My bf and I only see each other twice a week, because of distance, but we miss each other so much that the time we do get together is always special and real quality time. I would try to spend more time apart so that the time together is not taken for granted.
2006-12-06 02:21:46 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do think people get bored with each other. Its as if everything in your life becomes routine, dull. Unfortuneately, what usually comes next, is taking each other for granted. So SPICE it up, do something unexpected, keep the spark lit, and have fun. Learn to enjoy each other again. Good Luck
2006-12-06 02:14:33 · answer #6 · answered by MommaSchmitt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they really love each other, that should not be a problem because they need each other. Now the routine may be a problem. Find new ways to be together, to spend time together. That way, yoy will never feel like you are doing the same thing everytime.
Peace
2006-12-06 02:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Zolex1981 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i cant lie, it could happend. HoWver is up to you two to not let it die. Tips on that, try to go out with your friends and let her go w hers, also get a hobbie and expend some time on that. Also do fun stuff as agroup with other couples, go bike riding the two of you, go have a drink. Watch tv on the living room while she is in the bedroom. Im not saying to stop been together im just saying space on your own for the both of you could be good and think about the day you get marri, and you 'll bet w that person fo rthe rest of your life. Always try to spice up your relatiosn ship!
2006-12-06 02:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by mel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is possible...but I wouldn't say bored of each other...but more bored of the routine. They would need to spice it up a bit once in a while so it doesn't get so monotonous.
2006-12-06 02:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by gnomus12 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you could get bored of that person but it's a great way to see if you're compatible for future marriage plans. If you get bored of the person then you don't want to see them everyday for the rest of your life. So, yes they can get bored, but hopefully you don't get bored.
2006-12-06 02:13:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋