this is the situation i am not a perv or anything its just my husband has problems and i am still fairly young and horny.i dont want to cheat and masturbation is just so played out. what am i to do?
2006-12-06 02:16:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Masturbate, but don't cheat!!! Seek medical attention for your husband, go to a councelor, a sex shop, ect...try new things!!! Don't think you are a bad person for having sexual desires with your HUSBAND. You are a normal healthy sexual active being that seeks and desires things...Just masturbate whenever you can and try to stop thinking about the act in itself, that always helps me whenever I know I can't actually do it. Good Luck and don't worry your husbands problem is most likely mental it will start working pretty soon I asure you!!!
2006-12-06 02:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if you can bring toys into the bedroom. That way, the pressure gets taken off him and you get satisfied. Just be sure to introduce the topic in a gentle way. He might be very self-concious of the fact that he can't satisfy you.
Good luck!
2006-12-06 02:19:40 · answer #2 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-04 23:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your husband about your feelings.
If not I would try that, even with him having problems I would think he enjoy would helping you out. Most guys I know would love for their other half to want sex more.
2006-12-06 02:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know there are always two ways of doing things,
one there is the obvious choice of giving in to your urges,
two is getting to the source of your problem only then can you have a more permanent answer.
2006-12-06 02:31:06 · answer #5 · answered by steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Other than cheating there is not much you can do besides maybe have a girl on the side if your bisexual. I can relate to your horniness lol. Send me an email if you like.
2006-12-06 02:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
masturbation is played out? Since when? You just need to get the right toys.
2006-12-06 02:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by bornalib 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hard. I dated a guy once who couldnt get me satisfied (i think that's what you mean). You have to try and fix his problem, otherwise it's not fair to you. Sex isnt the only good part of marriage, but it's definitetly a huge part. I couldnt handle not being able to have good sex w/ my husband, especially being young. hmm good luck
2006-12-06 02:22:14 · answer #8 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have an idea or 2
2006-12-06 02:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with "bornalib" , masturbation is never played out.
2006-12-06 02:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋