Family & Relationships - 6 December 2006

First I must say that he and I were married at the time we started seeing each other. Now I am divorce and have moved on with "our plans". We have been together for over 2 years. His wife is gay and their marriage has been over for years. He just can't seem to say the word divorce. Well he says it to me but he can't get himself to say it to her. He says things like "when I leave" or "when I am gone". I don't believe he will be able to do it until he can say it? He should have filed 6 months ago, he says he didn't know how to handle his children and he was afraid of what he could lose in his divorce. Meanwhile, my children and I are moving on with our lives. What should I think?

2006-12-06 02:36:59 · 13 answers · asked by fearlove3 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Before she is called a whore..... Terrible double standards....

2006-12-06 02:36:44 · 21 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 02:36:06 · 2 answers · asked by the.one.and.only.love.for.him. 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm just curious because it seems like during the holidays people seem to get very emotional about the past.

2006-12-06 02:34:54 · 17 answers · asked by City slicker 5 in Singles & Dating

I actually just started my registery, china and glasses... that type of stuff that's not seasonal. I am not getting married till Nov 3 2007 so I won't put linens and towels on there until March.... I know a couple of my family and bridemaids ask if they could buy us Christmas stuff of the registery which I though was a great idea!! So today, I remembered that we need an ice bucket and to my surprise someone bought my GRAVY BOAT..... and I can't tell you how exicted I am.... I know I am silly!
But it made me think about Do you stop looking at your registery when the wedding gets closer?? or should you keep checking on it to make sure there is enought stuff on there??
Any suggestions??

2006-12-06 02:34:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ok, well, the question is self explanatory, but my bff likes this guy, but we both noticed that he stares at her every sunday. Its was funny at first, but now its not. She doesn't know why hes doing it, or what she should do. We also noticed he stares at me. So, we need a little advice. She asked me to post this.

2006-12-06 02:33:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay I have a cousin who is like my best friend.... She was with this guy who treated her like crap and he never hit her but he did push her and drag her on the floor by her hair.... He then went to jail and now that hes out they have gotten back together and she knows that he hasnt changed because he still threatens her and he told her that he was goin to kill her if she ever got involved with another guy....and I really dont want to be apart of that anymore.... I dont want her with him because he is no good...... so would I be wrong if I made her choose???

2006-12-06 02:33:48 · 19 answers · asked by babygurl2002 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

but she doesn't exist yet.

what do i do about this dilemma???

2006-12-06 02:33:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughter met a guy moved 1/2 way across the us to be with him decided to give her 3 boys to there dad i guess this guy didn`t like kids she also had a baby by another guy when she met this guy she moved to be with she called and said her baby boy 11 months old has been abused and was in neonatal intensive care me and my other 2 daughters begged borrowed and went in debt to fly to another state to be with her supposedly this boyfriend had beat my grandson he had a 7"skull fracture his brain was swollen he had damage to his esphoygus and at the time had no sight we stayed a few days with her then we returned home when he was out of the woods the dss took custody of the baby and placed him in a foster home we moved my daughter back to kansas to start classes and requirements to regain custody of her baby she started talking with this guy and moved back right before they sent him to prison she married him he told her it was an accident i can not find a way to get over this what do i do

2006-12-06 02:32:56 · 8 answers · asked by maxine101 1 in Family

when I took it by "mistake". ALL of his texts. Some to 2 chicks who are "friends" which I've kown about, but dont know personally. There were some pretty sexy things being said back & fourth with both those girls, including invites to his house and out for dates. Needless to say, I am a mess, but I'm work, so I'm trying sooo hard to keep it together. Also, his roomate asked what was up with "tha hoez" for the night, which makes me think they invited chicks over. One girl even asked what to bring for drinks! He also subscribed to some cell phone dating thing where you text people back & fourth to get #'s. We've been a couple for almost 2 months, but have been seeing each other since early August. I feel so hurt. Yes, I snooped, but only because, I saw a text from 1 girl (1 of the friends) at 3 this morning- it woke me up- I was curious & my gut told me something was wrong. I have the cell & he was FRANTICALLY calling me telling me to turn it off "so it'll go to voicemail". I did. Help!

2006-12-06 02:31:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 02:31:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know like:
"You must know karate because you have a kicking body"
"Are you tired, because you have been running through my mind all night"

okay time to give your worst that you have heard..! Just for fun!

2006-12-06 02:31:12 · 17 answers · asked by Batman has left the building 3 in Singles & Dating

There's a guy in one of my classes that I've liked for a while. We haven't talked often but when we have I noticed that his leg starts jumping. (does that mean I make him nervous?) Anyways, my question is if I should ask him out and if so how? He's shy so I know I'll have to do the asking I just don't know how to approach him.

2006-12-06 02:31:02 · 6 answers · asked by Amanda P 2 in Singles & Dating

My "friend" told me she would back off of this guy I like, But last night at our choir concert I caught her hanging all over him! Some friend!

2006-12-06 02:30:06 · 7 answers · asked by amandalicious07 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there really true love? I think nowaday people are getting very selfish. They love themselves more than anything else, so very hard to find true love now.

2006-12-06 02:29:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We havn't said I love you in about 10 yrs. My sons are 11 - 4 . We have always been like roomates who have kids together. My wife and I don't really have anything in common, and I think its always been a cultural thing. I'm white and she's Hispanic. I realize now this has always been an issue under the surface.
I had a bad accident (near fatal) about a 18 months ago helping a stranded motorists and she never cried or said how terrible - things you'd expect from your spouse . She asked how long I'd be in the hospital ! She now has a decent job w/benefits. I'm thinking of making a move while I'm still realitvly young (41) and have most of my hair and teeth. I work in healthcare and a lot of females have expressed interest in my marital status. But, where do I start ? I want to sell the house and give her the money. Neither of us could afford it on our own. I know people have worse problems but this is such a hollow existence.
Sincere advice is appreciated

2006-12-06 02:28:19 · 28 answers · asked by coin-flip 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I sleep over my friend's house, he's a guy, in the same bed, he's always all over me. I wake up his leg is over my body, he puts his head over my arm, one time, I wrapped my arm around him, and he leaned into my armpit, and cuddled up. It was obvious to me he wanted to get more comfortable. I decided to play with his hair, and he didn't flintch or anything.

This has happened over 8 times of sleeping in the same bed, yet I've never confronted him about it, or vice versa, he just gets very touchy feely, yet we play it off as if we are just sleeping.

Does this mean he is gay?

2006-12-06 02:27:47 · 29 answers · asked by JonathanDAvis 1 in Singles & Dating

theres the atention..see i know this guy ( kinda) ..wel not really iv been goin to this weekly thing for 2 or 3 weeks now an i just cant stop thinkin bout him..when im not there im thinking about him a good lot of tym an when im there..im just happy hes right there beside me..(he wasnt at the start but he is sumhow now)..i think he lykes me too..iv smiled at him an hes smiled bak..but just in general any advice i havnt even tlked to this gy yet..i duno how to start conversation ..if i had conversation i would

2006-12-06 02:27:19 · 19 answers · asked by cutegrl g 1 in Singles & Dating

a. She likes girly men who spend an hour on their hairs and shoes.

b. I'm way to real for her and she wants to get away because the truth hurts.

c. She's afraid i'll catch an STD from her and she's trying to protect me because she knows its the right thing to do.

d. She's exhausted from trying to be enough of a woman for me a real man.

e. PREEMTIVE STRIKE. she knows she wouldn't be able to handle the agony of me leaving her.

2006-12-06 02:26:47 · 13 answers · asked by judgemartiniz 5 in Singles & Dating

i just moved from a small town to LA to pursue my singing career and i made friends fast they were great. but at school i sat with this clique called "the oranges" they're rich and some people think they're snobby including the friends that i made when i first got there they got mad at me yesterday cause i didn't eat lunch them instead i sat with the oranges they tell me i've become just like them and that i don't care about anyone but myself. and that's not what i'm about the oranges say that if i sat with them at lunch again i wouldn't get to go to Aspin with them this new years. i need answers fast cause lunch is in an hour and i don't know what to do

2006-12-06 02:26:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She used to send me loads of Xxxxx's but for some reason she has stopped...... Do you recon that I have upset her or she is mad at me.... What could the reason be....?

2006-12-06 02:26:04 · 22 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 02:25:58 · 33 answers · asked by rohit kumar 1 in Singles & Dating

meaning by this is that a friend always want to be around us when we want time to ourself, and this is a best friend that acts like their friendship is more important than me and my relationship.

2006-12-06 02:25:25 · 1 answers · asked by msnursetobe 1 in Friends

2006-12-06 02:25:22 · 12 answers · asked by ashley d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 02:25:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i have a date on friday what do i have to do to be able to impres him the way that i want to?? i want him to like me but im not sure what to do?

2006-12-06 02:24:38 · 16 answers · asked by lizzie_08 2 in Singles & Dating

I work with a young lady that , in my opinion, is in a awkward relationship. She's dating someone that lives over 100 miles away. They share a newborn child together. But, there is no mention of an engagement, living together, or anything. We've been friends for about three years now. She has once tried to hook me up w/ one of her friends..... that's when I told her how I felt about her. (this was before current b/f) Although awkward at first.... we remained friends. But, my feelings for her has never lessened. Just last week we were talking about christmas shopping.... "You better get something for me." she said jokingly. Now, I'm not an idiot....I did get her something. But.... what is she thinking?!!! What is my move?!! What can I do to sway her my way?!!

2006-12-06 02:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by johnbehrhart 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I told some of my friends last night that I want to stop partying and they proceeded to hold me down, force me to do a shot-gun while creaming rehab is for quitters......Has anyone else had this happen to them?

2006-12-06 02:23:26 · 20 answers · asked by Karen 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-06 02:23:03 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was dating this really great guy, and we were crazy about each other but he got transferred across the country. He asked me to go with him, but at the time I was unable to go, and we ended up losing touch. Recently, he contacted me and said he still misses me and what we had and wants to be with me and I feel that way too. I have missed him every day for the past two years. He did tell me that he had gained some weight, but when he sent me recent pics of himself, I was shocked! He must have gained close to 100 pounds since I saw him last. I really care about him, but the weight is a big deterrent for me as it's just not attractive!

He still has the same personality and and I still want to be with him, but I don't know how to bring up the weight issue.

2006-12-06 02:22:53 · 7 answers · asked by blondemomma1964 1 in Singles & Dating