I told some of my friends last night that I want to stop partying and they proceeded to hold me down, force me to do a shot-gun while creaming rehab is for quitters......Has anyone else had this happen to them?
2006-12-06 02:23:26 · 20 answers · asked by Karen 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow karen, you really have a great circle of friends....i am jealous!
Only true friends would keep you from doing something crazy, like going to rehab
:)
pass me the booze, baby!
2006-12-06 02:39:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A true friend would always protect you from anything that would harm you or hurt you. He/she will also respect whatever you feel like doing as long as it doesn't harm or hurt you. In other words, a TRUE friend is someone who will always treat you like a precious jewel. These so-called friends that you have are just the opposite. These are the friends that will pull you down and drown you till you can longer manage to stay up. Piece of advice, stir clear of them if you still value yourself. If you feel you can do it, be a TRUE friend to them and encourage them to change themselves for the better.
2006-12-06 10:36:31 · answer #2 · answered by j6shawie26 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude let these people go, they could not possibly be good friends.
Not one of them tried to be supportive and help you through your decision to make a change.
I would go ahead and make the change, you'll find plenty of other folks out there who can be supportive and good friends.
Please be smart and accept the truth.
They are not mature enough to realize that there is way more to life than partying.
real life starts when you decide its time to grow up. And take responsibility.
2006-12-06 10:31:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Real friends wants you to lead a good life and are concern about your welfare. Sometimes this things happen to anybody.but you need to be firm on your decisions,it's your life after all. Conscience is instilled in us to judge bet. good and bad, it tells us to do the right thing always and benefit the fruitage of goodwill. So don't let them win over you.
2006-12-06 10:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by james 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would definitely say, these aren't your real friends. Real friends would respect and support your decision.
I would stop hanging out with that crowd. They sound like they're all a bunch of jerks.
2006-12-06 10:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If they are true friends they would have filmed it and posted it on the internet. Jerks! What am I going to watch now?
One time something happened to me. I went to the nearest bin to find something to eat and they moved my bus stop. I'm homeless since.
2006-12-06 10:30:32 · answer #6 · answered by Derek K 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Run for your life!!! there good people out there why mingle with the bad ones, make some God-fearing friends
2006-12-06 10:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
These "people" are NOT your friends, get away from them NOW. There are a lot of decent people in the world. Go out and find them.
2006-12-06 10:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ask yourself this if do you want to stop partying?
is partying helping or hurting your life?
if you choose to stop partying can you still hang out with them and not get sucked back into partying?
and finally can they except the fact that you no longer want to party? i bet you already know the answer.
2006-12-06 10:29:47 · answer #9 · answered by mac_oo_2005 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't think it means they aren't your real friends. They don't seem to respect your decisions, though. You have to designate certain friends for certain activities. Like those friends- don't go out drinking with them anymore.
2006-12-06 10:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by shondak 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋