If you are addicted to phone sex or cyber sex and if u still love your wife and ur only doing it with some one else for the kicks and that someone is also not serious about it at all, is it still cheating?
2006-12-06 02:18:49 · 14 answers · asked by onallthetime 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Would you care if your wife was doing the same thing? I think you should talk to her about it and find out what she thinks. We can only speculate here however if you feel that you have to keep it a secret from her, it obviously can't be good.
2006-12-06 02:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by Geoff S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, frankly, you should consider masturbation as not a sin. It is not written ANYWHERE in the Bible as a sin. It is the preaching of Christian leaders because they were taught not to do so. However, masturbation, at its best, is sex with yourself. It hurts no one else, involves no one else and is a micro-world that God made perfect: YOU AND YOUR BODY. So, it is MY OPINION that masturbation is not a sin....it does lead to craving more sex and that is another reason Christian leaders do not condone it. Yet, when you think about it....It is better to perform sex with yourself and toys, rather than be accountable to God for committing adultery. Part of the Big 10 commandments, ya know. AS FOR YOUR CYBER SEX...yes, it was wrong...you were lost in lust and need to control your urges...AS A CHRISTIAN WE ALL MUST DO SO. Therefore, ask for forgiveness and do not continue ANY relationship that involves sex with ANY one...He is faithful to forgive us if we are sincere and do not continue in sin..you know that. Bottom line is this....if you cannot trust your ability to control your lusts...you need to divorce and become single. No need in living in pain. I suspect you love your hubby enough to stay though. Thinik about it.
2016-05-22 23:56:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't only if you and your spouse have talked about it and said it's okay. Otherwise, it's cheating.
Cheating is going outside the marriage to get things that you should be getting from your spouse, be it physical, emotional or mental.
2006-12-06 02:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is having sex with your neighbor cheating?? well, when your having phone 'SEX', your still having 'SEX', so yes, it is...
if you want to have phone sex, call your girlfriend... even if it's just that the two of you are in different rooms, that's fine, call her...
one thing you might want to try, masterbating in front of each other... you will probably like it,..
2006-12-06 02:22:52 · answer #4 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is my opinion but i think that it depends on who you are with and really how they think about it. if your spouse is okay with it and does it to then i guess it would be acceptable but if not then your out of luck. personally i would find you scum for doing even that
2006-12-06 02:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by ~countrymonkey~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your spouse don't know about it the it's cheating!
2006-12-06 02:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think so...If you feel like your sneaking behind your wife's back for gratification and not being honest ....To me is cheating..
2006-12-06 02:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is cheating if u set up an actual meet---ask your wife to join u--might be fun for her as well
2006-12-06 02:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its allright, you are just using some imaginations and words. Boys will afterall be boys.
2006-12-06 02:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by honniebabee 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes that is cheating
2006-12-06 02:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by sdavid5523 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋