2006-12-06 00:20:12 · 17 answers · asked by hi_na84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Don't be in such a rush to get married. Just remember that it's a lifetime commitment, so don't sit back and just let family decide who you should marry. You have a voice too and it is your life. Use it and be happy.
2006-12-06 00:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Fragile Rock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO arranged marriage you never will know what the guy will turn out o be like. He could be a total jerk or he could beat you up. You will find a soul mate. Love will find you dont go looking for it.
2006-12-06 00:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Understanding the concept "soul mate". Yahooooo... things really are made in heaven!
Yes, every single individual living on Mother Earth has a partner in hiding... a soul mate that would practically match hundred percent with one! This has been a saying by people falling in love now and always. But this is also the truth. God made the destiny of mankind like that.
Suppose I am a boy born at number 43.045230345 (on the scale of hundred) amongst the billions of people living on Mother Earth. Then in all eventualities there would be many girls born at number 43. Whether I get to love and marry the girl of my choice is purely dependent upon my destiny which is a controversial subject (one can always take control of ones destiny if we truly desire so)!
Now, how do I find all girls at number 43...? This is where we falter... the numbering system of God being hidden from mankind... it becomes difficult to find the soul mate matching our choice and results in divorces, the divorce rate being abnormally high.
In the present materialistic trend one weighs the other from his finances, the bank balance, looks and alike. In the domain of God if we really want to search our soul mate... it may be hidden in the ugly frog for God may have cast a spell on it and unable to recognize one we marry the wrong girl! This is the irony of fate of most people the world over.
Those who can hear the sweet small voice coming from their heart... the voice of our soul (atman in Hinduism) such truthful people sometimes are able to recognize their soul mate. And it is then we learn that a Mira Bai has been born. Mira Bai was a faithful follower and lover of Lord Krishna even though Lord Krishna was married and had a wife.
The love of Mira Bai for Lord Krishna was unparalleled. It was much above the physical inhibitions expressed nowadays. For Mira Bai... sex had no role to play in the love she had for Lord Krishna. This is what pure love is all about! More on soulmate here- http://www.godrealized.org/truce_with_my_inner_self.html
2006-12-06 21:29:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love marriage
2006-12-06 00:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by udaya 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess no 1 can tell if u will go for love or arrange marriage... you should be the only 1 who can decide or judge that..
2006-12-06 00:40:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
arrange marriage is better. or ask astrologer he will answer you from horoscope. If your Mars & Venus are in conjunction in horoscope then you can go for love marriage. Ask Astrologer Dr. Sudhir Shah on his web site :www.astrologer-drsudhirshah.com -- he is a professional astrologer, but excellent.
2006-12-06 01:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by RadheRadhe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a love marriage.. arrange marriages just dont work out..
2006-12-08 13:49:35 · answer #7 · answered by rapunzle_123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it this way:
if you find someone you like, then you're all set but if your parents find osmeone for you and you think hes okay, and marriage material, then you know tht youre destined for arranged marriage. dont allow anyone to force you, though.
2006-12-06 08:40:46 · answer #8 · answered by Heera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear madam,
u have to marry a persom who can understand u,
love marriage is somthing more.it will be better for ur life.i can give u more advice if u contact me on id: jobyfast@yahoo.com.
one more thing u have to select a kind hearted man for ur life.
"best of luck."
2006-12-06 00:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by joe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not go for both , first love and then get it arranged
2006-12-06 06:05:54 · answer #10 · answered by Hosting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋