if he could get his. he wanted to get his presents that i had got for him. well he was standing there with is belongings in is hand on his way out the door when he asked me this. well i told him ill give it to him later. well i dont plan on doing that. i plan to take it back and get my money back. if he chose to try and ruin my christmas then why should i care what he wants. well my question is should i give it to him. he spent over 260 on me. then told me something to ruin my christmas. so i feel i couldnt enjoy what he bought me anyway behind all that. so should i give him what i bought him or get my money back. i feel if i dont then that would be payback for him saying what he said which would take to long for me to explain. but im fed up and thru with him once and for all. what would you do? about the presents i mean.
2006-12-06 00:23:46 · 17 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If your fed up and you don't want this guy in your life then you need to take the present you got for him back to the store and get your money back. You haven't given him the present yet so it won't look bad taking it back. If you are through with this man then don't give him anything. Christmas isn't here yet so he doesn't have to get anything. Besides you don't need a jerk like that when all he cares about when he's leaving is his present. What does that tell you??? He's only interested in the things that don't matter the most. Drop him like a hot potato and move on sweetie. Don't take his present either because he'll expect something in return.
2006-12-06 00:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is more important to you - the presents, the money spent, or the fact that your relationship is over???
I'd say give his present to you back to him, and return the one you bought him to the store.
Get yourself a nice Christmas present with the cash...
2006-12-06 00:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by vilniusite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to give him a present? Return to him what he gave you. That will be his present. And go have your money back for the one you bought for him. It's clear your decision is final and you shouldn't hold yourself back. That will show weakness from your part and a way for him to control you. Don't let him get to you again. We tend to believe we're making a mistake, and it's female default to understand people and excuse them. Is why they control us. Pull out. Don't let him inflict some guilt on you.
I'm talking from what you tell us. But only you know if this is really what you want to do or not. The final word is yours.
2006-12-06 00:32:21 · answer #3 · answered by M'lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is give his present he gave you back.After all you said its over right.Then return the gift you got him.Believe me the question about the gift will bother him for some time.
As for getting back at him, I think ending the relationship is the hard facts here.Your letting him know there is no do over here.He made his mistake and has to live with it.Your moving on without him.That is a pretty hard slap in the face.
2006-12-06 00:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give the presents he bought you back to him so he can get his 260 back
2006-12-06 00:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by sensa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u want a present from him to remind of how he hurt u. yes get ur money back. if he did not worry about u don't worry about him. if it is hard for u to tell him just write a note and give it to him. or tell him if he can't explain anything u don't need to explain anything either.
2006-12-06 00:31:44 · answer #6 · answered by baby doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your lock, harden your heart. return the gifts and consider blessing a family that will not have much for Christmas. You are much better off without such a selfish, insensitive idiot. I assume he hasn't even begun his shopping.
2006-12-06 00:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by dmjrev 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that I would give him is the view of my backside as I walked away....forget him...find someone else...and you don't need his lousy present either...good luck
2006-12-06 00:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go ahead and give him the gifts and and hope that he will enjoy them and just let by gones be by gones.
2006-12-06 07:22:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get the money back! if someone is going to do it to you, you should do something nice for yourself, to at least help you move one. who knows, you might meet someone new along the way.
2006-12-06 00:27:02 · answer #10 · answered by Elizabeth and Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋