Should I wait for her - should I not?
I really yearn to wait for this girl who previously replied my email saying that she just want to be friends. I really love her. We are both 14 and who knows when we reach maturity, she can realize her feeling.
For those of you who said I must forget her, you do not understand it.
You do not understand the sacrifice I have made to be with her.
You do not understand the courage I have collected in order to tell her my feeling.
You do not understand all those that I have gone thru..
Should I wait for her?
After all, doesn't true love wait?
2006-12-06 01:17:40 · 18 answers · asked by Life is Like A Box of Chocolate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey i guess wat luv is...after all i have seen a part of life....if u really luv..tell her..but don't force her..be a gentlman n wait 4 her answer..she may realise ur luv 4 her...give her time n pace..may be u have moved too quickly 4 her..wait ...ok...
love is patience..remember.....jus keep cool...yeah?? tak care..
2006-12-06 01:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by mimine0075 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, true love does wait, but is it true love that's only one-sided? If so, you're only 14. How many times have you been in "true love" before? Does she feel the same as you do? If not, time won't change that. All of your waiting will be in vain. She has already told you that she wants to be friends. That probably means that though she enjoys talking to you, she has no romantic feeling for you. She's not going to devote her life to you. I'm sure it took much strength to emote your feelings to her. It's my gut feeling that the two of you are from different cultures, and that is why you have made so many sacrifices for this girl. She is not the one who was chosen for you. She may be allowed to choose who she wants, but she's also allowed to change her mind. Live your life to the best of your ability. In the end, if you're meant to be with this girl, you will be.
2006-12-06 09:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by smommeee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't put your life on hold for someone who has no interest. it really is true that your understanding of love changes as you grow older. you kind of know that, which is why u say she may realize her feelings as she matures. in that same way, u may realize that this love you feel isn't real love. or maybe it is real, but she doesn't feel it. she may in the future or she may not. you need to respect her feelings, allow this to be just a friendship. even date other girls. later on maybe you will both want to be together. maybe not. but you cannot waste all of ur youth waiting for a girl who may never come.
2006-12-06 09:25:08 · answer #3 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your feelings, but as you mature, those feelings may very well change. Don't wait for her, but do keep in touch with her. Perhaps one day, she'll return those feelings. You're both too young, right now, to tie each other down. Live a little before you try to make life commitments.
2006-12-06 09:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 years old,,what is love at that age?maybe puppy love.
you have your whole life to find real true love.first get a good education,get your feet on the ground.you have plenty of time for love.today you can't count on others for your future,you have to do it yourself.wait the day will come when you find that SPECIAL lady.take your time and take 1 day at a time.
enjoy life,we only have 1 chance at it.
2006-12-06 09:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still young.You will have to go through many tough periods in your life...You might have been there already but still there are a lot to come across...Don't worry yourself with such this...Live your life as it comes now..It will definately change and it's up to you to change it into something better...As your nickname says... :LIFE IS A BOX OF CHOCOLATES! You'll taste lot's and yet different chocolates through your life.... Don't Worry :)
2006-12-06 09:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Soulla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea..wait atleast for another 4 yrs..whats the hurry..I mean if by not waiting then what do you mean? she's only 14..you are only 14..what do you plan on doing at 14? What would you be waiting for...it shouldn't be anymore than friendship right now anyways
2006-12-06 09:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,you need to followed your heart,not to listen to anyone plus also depend on your friend cos later she may find someone else and dump you,you know.And at this moment you should try to focus on your study not the relationship at this your age okay.Anyway good luck to you.
2006-12-06 09:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by bolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do love her and love grows and there is more than one love,
Puppy love, First love, You have a choice to make and the one you 've have is selfish it everythink about your feeling.
True love would of heard or read I want to be friends,
2006-12-06 09:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by criss r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And YOU do not understand how whiny you sound. Grow up and go play ps2 games or something. You'll have plenty of time to whine about women when you get to be a big boy.
2006-12-06 09:25:24 · answer #10 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wish guys could think in such naive, romantic and cute way, as u do, when they become mature. I hope when u r older, u will still have these qualities.
2006-12-06 09:30:21 · answer #11 · answered by JUSTGIRL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋