I like her so much, and I know she like me but she did not want to say it. I knew her for 3 months ago. We went out together manytime and I went her home and she come my home. But I tried to push her to say that she like me. I could not be patient more I get upset and she left me.
After one week, I felt I miss her, I tried to contact her by emails or call but she did not reply.
What should I do, I want her back.....
2006-12-06 01:19:56 · 16 answers · asked by ram 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might try and write her a letter and give her some time to think things over.
2006-12-06 01:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never rush a good thing...i know that the anticipation killed you. Some people are not good at expressing their feelings.
Do you have her address, if so write her something with feeling or send her a card, that you wrote in personally, don't send e-mails take the time to hand write a apology that tells the girl that you are really making an effort.
If you would like also call and when the voice mail picks up say exactly this...
"I know that you were not going to answer my call, but I am really sorry, words can not express how sorry that I am. The definition of I am sorry or I apologize means that I will never do it again, and I will not. I realize that your feelings are your own and I should not pressure your to express them, please forgive me once again. If you need time that is what I will give"
Then actually give her time this will let her know that you respect her decision no matter how much it is hurting you, and that is what most well all women like respect.
2006-12-06 01:29:07 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have lost her permanently. Your task now is to grow up a bit more and develop that famed virtue called "patience". You were far, far too selfish and immature for a relationship. I suggest you'll need four years to get your head together before you try for a romantic relationship again. Meantime, work on making yourself a more attractive alternative to the average bum on the street: improve your education, get a job and work hard at getting promoted and spend a few hours a week volunteering at a charitable institution helping better the lives of the less fortunate around you, as a real man would do.
2006-12-06 01:28:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard that saying: "people want what they can't have?" Now this may apply to you BUT you could get it to apply to her. Do not contact her until around Christmas time. Around Christmas time just send her a short e-mail wishing her a beautiful Christmas and a Happy New Year! Or if there is no e-mail a short, non-romantic card. If she is truly interested and YOU apply patience to the situation she will come back to you. You must focus on being FRIENDS first!
Then it is very important to slow your roll...do not push her. Let her develop her feelings at her own pace and in her own time...OK?
2006-12-06 01:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by Suzanne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about what happened between both of you. guys have to learn to understand that it's difficult for most ladies to tell them about their feelings for them. This is as a result of the fear of rejection. No woman likes being rejected. So, if a guy starts spending time with a woman and notices that he is beginning to fall for her, it's good he tells her about it. You reacted the way you did because you thought she was playing wih your feelings for her. From what you said, i think she still likes you. Work your way back into her heart by introducing new dates so it's like you are getting to know yourselves on another level, knowing how you feel about each other. And remember, instead of pushing her to say how she feels, you can create a condusive and romantic environment where she'll feel comfortable to show you how she feels about you. All hope isnt lost yet.
2006-12-06 01:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U're a decent guy.....
Try to talk it over with her. That's the best thing u can do. She might try to avoid u but just tell her u made a mistake and u really care and give ehr a card or something sweet. Be truthful and make her realise how much u care. All the best.
I wish my ex had been this concerned.
2006-12-06 01:24:59 · answer #6 · answered by nauts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surprise her with something sweet or special to show that you care. you could give her a bag of candy. get a piece of paper and write a memory of ya'll two on it and wrap it around the piece of candy...that way she would know that you do care about her and everything was for a reason.
2006-12-06 01:25:05 · answer #7 · answered by ..::Sierra::.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be patient with her and not rush her,why are you so impatient?If you keep bothering her she is going to think you are a psyco stalker and you really don't want that do you?
2006-12-06 01:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop pushing her to do and say something she isn't ready to do or say. If she contacts you, then she is ready for the relationship, if she doesn't, then let it go. Most likely, you scared her.
2006-12-06 01:23:54 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the way you felt why you did what you did and send her flowers and candy and write her a poem.
2006-12-06 01:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋