I have been living with this man for six months now and all of a sudden I'm finding out alot more than I anticipated.For one he was speaking with another woman and was saying I was psycho and I have alot of issues,also he would call her when we had problems crying and telling her personal things.I cannot trust this man anymore and I always seem to be angry at him ,he admits what he did was wrong but knowing that he talked bad about me,forbid me to talk with my friends yet had one or several of his own makes me wonder what else hes hiding,should I kick him out?
2006-12-06 01:21:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you see no future in this relationship then yes there is no point prolonging it and he should move out. In the meantime get back in touch with your friends and talk to them too. Chances are they're worried about you if you lost contact because of this man. Don't allow yourself to be completely isolated as it is very easy to be hooked back into a controlling relationship and over time it becomes more difficult to get out of. You deserve better than the treatment this man has given you.
2006-12-06 01:32:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lost and found 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely kick him out! Six months should be one of the best times in a long term relationship. If it's bad now, it'll only get worse. He's betraying you every time he talks to another woman about your personal stuff, and I'll bet money that he's betraying you in her bed as well. He has no other reason to want her sympathy for dealing with a "psycho".
Dating is a time when you find out if two people are compatible and have each other's best interests at heart. He definitely doesn't want what's best for you.
He doesn't want you talking to your friends for two reasons. Number one is that you're easier to manipulate and control that way. But number two is because he KNOWS he's wrong and that your friends will tell you the same.
Go to your friends and let them support you emotionally. And get this jerk out of your life.
2006-12-06 01:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Shane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him out of the house. He is not worth trying to figure out or counseling. Get rid of him and don't look back.
It may be hard because you feel you love him. You don't even really know him--you love what you t hought he was. Kick him out even if you feel like you want to give him another chance. Those feeling will pass.
2006-12-06 01:38:20 · answer #3 · answered by artimis 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same damn situation, and I know it sucks!!!! My fiance was talking to his ex-wife... They have been divorced for 7 yrs.. I just found out recently that he told her I was psycho and on Prozac... I was on a anti depressant but it wasn't Prozac.. he told her more than she needed to know...I would say don't tolerate this, but I know how hard it is, when you love someone. Good Luck Dear!!
2006-12-06 01:33:49 · answer #4 · answered by Indymom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...Yes! Kick him out! He sounds like a controlling weirdo. Sounds like he's the psycho with issues not you.
2006-12-06 01:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by Mum2Boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now! He is not the one for you. Trust is essential and since you cannot trust him your relationship will not work. You know he will just hurt you and try to control you
2006-12-06 01:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by Eileen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely! There's no reason to stay together; you don't trust one another, and obviously, both of you aren't happy in the relationship. Move on!
2006-12-06 01:24:42 · answer #7 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes kick him out
2006-12-06 01:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by shelley l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely if he is calling another girl telling her you problems, she likes him and he probly likes her but he is with you.... give him the boot, he is way overprotective and a hipocrit becasue he can talk to friends and you cant....
2006-12-06 01:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow ur intuition.. he is indeed a control freak not letting u to even talk to ur frens? leave him ... now!!! RUN while u still can!!! u deserve much better than this
2006-12-06 01:24:43 · answer #10 · answered by [MiA] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋