Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

2006-11-20 02:54:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Question for you all...how many of you have relatives who always turn the holidays into a pain in the a$$ for one reason or another? It never fails...usually it's my sister who has to ruin everything for everyone...it's always her way or no way and when it's not her way...she ruins things..usually by not showing up and ALWAYS by making sure she's dragged everyone into the scene too...thus making sure she's left no happy stone unturned...*sigh*...who's your pain in the butt?

2006-11-20 02:54:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It seems like no matter how we work on her she never orgasms, sometimes when stimulating her clit, she will just start to tickle a lot and wants me to stop. Any suggestions??

2006-11-20 02:54:45 · 13 answers · asked by jimbob 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please this is a very serious issue, my father was sentenced today for 15years in prison for the murder of my mother, but i dont think he done it (loads of reasons) but my mothers family believe the police even though i have proved they have lied (a lot), anyway point being they turned up to court today but none of them phoned me or anything to see if i was going or that i was ok, but when i turn up alone they all start acting like they care...this has gone on for years and i have always put up with it for they are my family. i need to know if it is time to call it a day, for how much more hurt do i stand for in the name of family.

2006-11-20 02:54:23 · 16 answers · asked by thenickistar 3 in Family

My boyfriend and I of two years just broke up. He broke up with me. We had a very mature relationship and he decided that he needs some time to himself (not to be with other girls, he's not like that, REALLY time for himself) to really discover who he is as an adult (he's 23 and has been with me 2 years and another girl before for 4.5 without much time in between). We lived together for most of the relationship and have been apart for a month, though we just broke up recently. I love him completely and don't want to get over him. We are seeing each other for the first time in three weeks this weekend. I don't want to get back with him right away because I do feel like we both need this time.

So the question is this then: How do I make him want me back, not right this second, but when he's ready. He said that he doesn't want to be in a relationship with anyone at all. But how do I make him miss how good a relationship can be so he'll think of me in the future when he's ready? Thanks!

2006-11-20 02:52:44 · 19 answers · asked by Flip L 2 in Singles & Dating

My 8 y/o son was abandoned by his mother and now lives with me .. after enrolling him in school today I realized that nothing was done in court for this change so I am still on the hook for child support. How do I go about getting these payments to stop since i have him living with me now?

2006-11-20 02:52:18 · 9 answers · asked by Kahlil G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

obssesivly and she doesn't say anything just waits for me to start the conversation. what kind of questions could i ask to get her to open up. Also she now phones every single member of my family there are eight of us and my mum said maybe she likes my brother but can't talk to him because its to obvious. what do ya think?

2006-11-20 02:52:03 · 15 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Friends

I have asked her about this and she said she is jut bored since I work late hours. When I asked her about it, she first said she only chats, but I already found out they have called each other on the phone. I asked her again about the phone, and then she said it is just easier to talk on the phone then chat on line. Should I be upset? What should I do?

2006-11-20 02:51:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok last week i dropped a question here asking u guys here if its fine for me to text my long time crush (whom i met briefly once last month and will meet her again probably in 8 months) good luck for her exams. You guys said yes and i went ahead with the text and she kinda received it pretty well, thanking me and stuffs.

Well she is having another paper tomorrow and i was wondering if its fine to text her again or do i seem too eager cos i dun wanna give her an impression im hitting on her too hard. it wouldnt be nice.

2006-11-20 02:51:13 · 8 answers · asked by n707jt 2 in Singles & Dating

Believe me, I'm not making this up ...

I was having sex with my gf in the bathtub (it's a big old-fashioned tub) from behind ... I leaned over her and pushed her head down underwater, and held her down there for about 20 seconds or so while I continued to "do it"...

I let her up for air for a few seconds, then held her down for longer than 20 secs, then let her up, and so on till we finished ...

I thought she might be pissed off at me, but she told me that she liked it!

2006-11-20 02:51:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 8 y/o son was abandoned by his mother and now lives with me .. after enrolling him in school today I realized that nothing was done in court for this change so I am still on the hook for child support. How do I go about getting these payments to stop since i have him living with me now?

2006-11-20 02:50:47 · 7 answers · asked by Kahlil G 1 in Family

I finally had the courage to tell my guy friend of four yrs that i liked him!!!! Now that i know that the feeling is not mutual. I feel stupid for telling him. I would not even like to see him again! i killed my friendship. So now i have pain. Please help me see the brighter side.

2006-11-20 02:50:28 · 6 answers · asked by sheriff groupie 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been legally seperated 2 yrs. My kids on their own and I'm living with friends. My son wants to have Thanksgiving at his house which is fine, but my ex- and his mother and dad are going to be there too. I am just bummed out and don't really want to be around him or his family. I understand the kids see it as mom and dad, and we had it last year together and it was o.k. but my feelings have changed alot toward him and I haven't seen him in 6 months and really don't care too since he's the one that wanted the seperation...Sooo what should I do?

2006-11-20 02:49:09 · 17 answers · asked by Spanky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has a friend that I am extremely attracted to. I have never acted on this attraction but it is there. I feel bad because I really do like my boyfriend a lot but, I am really feeling his friend. The friend has the qualities that I like in a guy as far as looks go, but he also makes me laugh and is good with kids, too. Should I feel bad for having this attraction. I don't have any intentions on pursuing anything, but feelings are definitely there. What should I do?

2006-11-20 02:47:23 · 12 answers · asked by ♥BlackGirlLost♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there a difference between one night stand and a affair in man`s mind?

2006-11-20 02:47:21 · 11 answers · asked by Gilmor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Any ideas on where we could go?
We would like to keep it around $5,000 and go for about a week.
I have never been anywhere outside the US, he has been to Cancun & Jamacia so those are out.
We want to go to the beach. I looked at Bahamas but it looks trashy to me...I want something nice where we can get massages out doors and is really romantic. (with a nice spa)
Any ideas? THanks!!

2006-11-20 02:46:56 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My husband is a jerk, he is 23 and Im 21. We were married when I was 16. We have 2 kids ages 4 and 2. He works all day. But he is so mean to me when he comes home. He calls me names and when I ask him for something he gets an attitude and rolls his eyes. He always says that he is going to leave, which I dont think I would mind but I dont have a job. I am trying to go to school. if he left he would take our van and how would I pay the house payment!

I dont know what to do!
Please Help!

2006-11-20 02:45:12 · 13 answers · asked by Kat Kat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a couple of guys and my guy cousin had a plan to party on thanksgiving, drinking, music, & other things, they called me up & told me to clear my schedule coz that's the plan. &with me always busy with school & other things, I was looking forward to having fun & just letting myself go. But then yesterday, I was at a this guys house (my cousin's ex fiance) cooking & he told me that since I'm the cook in the "family" I should make the list for thanksgiving & he'll get them & I cook and we have thanks giving together. I just smiled & didn't say anything. So, I want to go to the party, but then I don't want to hurt this guys feelings by not being there& helping out. & What's even worst is that his 16 yr.old daughter is conivingly trying to hook me up with him, Which I wouldn't want, But with her, she's trying to make sure I stay there on thanksgiving, What to do, And I can't do the sit and talk to her or him, Go to party, or just forget it AND HELP THE OTHER GUY OUT

2006-11-20 02:44:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-20 02:43:32 · 22 answers · asked by DTMJ is an Acronym 3 in Singles & Dating

OK, I met this guy who is funny, hard working, intelligent, and caring. OK so he is a little older than me ( I am 23, he is 42) but I really love being around him. He raised his 2 kids alone so he is by no means rich, and second..his teeth are AWFUL. overall he is clean and healthy, he just cannot afford to see a dentist. Should I are shouldn't I? My friends say I can do better, but the guys they try to hook me up with are a**holes and only want sex

2006-11-20 02:43:25 · 14 answers · asked by Melissa D 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 02:43:06 · 7 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

theirs this boy hes my best mate but theirs something about him whenever im around him i feel weird i love with all my heart and would do anything for him but heres where the problem starts i cant just tell him how i feel cause im a guy to and i dont want to loose something good i dont want to loose him. i thought if i moved id forget him but it didnt work it made things worse i realy want to be with him but if im with him i dont want to hurt him and if we were to split up then i dont want to loose him i dont even know if he feels the same. all i know is that i love him and i would die for him

2006-11-20 02:42:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 02:42:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I always feel sad when I see other complete families. I am divorced and my child lives with my ex-husband in another state. I divorced my ex because he was controlling, money-minded and abusive.

It hurts me when I see others happy with their families (husband, wife and children) I feel like I have failed in life and that nothing has worked out.

My career and family life are not where they should be and my child is not doing as well as she could be since she does not have both parents around her.

My life is in such a mess compared to others who grew up with me. Its hard not to compare yourself to your peers.

I just don't see any good in my life except that I am alive.

How do you deal with this issue?

2006-11-20 02:42:33 · 7 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 02:42:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 02:41:27 · 10 answers · asked by Hot Momma 1 in Family

i'm going to see my aunt kathy over thanksgiving in alabama and i was wondering what would happen if my dad was there? if you have read my other question you should know the story..i wouldnt want him to ask me a MILLION questions because he could've called me and asked me HISELF!! he can say hi to me BUT i dont want to get in a conversation with him just yet.. i'm not ready to talk to him like a dad or a friend...or do i need to talk to him even if i dont want to ?? i would like coments from both guys AND girls

2006-11-20 02:40:40 · 9 answers · asked by RockStar 1 in Family

I already talked wiht her about sexuality, therefore I really don't know why she would look up for this. I gave her some booklets about girls and boys and we talked. I don't want to give her too much info but I also don't want her to get wrong info from somewhere else

2006-11-20 02:39:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like when we first laid eyes on each other...he took a double look at me and smiled...i smiled back. The impact for him seems to be great coz during the weeks that followed at work he was always looking at me, smiling sometimes, sometimes it was just a blank look...he went out of the way to help me...sometimes he would turn away when i caught him looking, sometmes he would keep looking. He would be shy when i direct my attention to him. I would never have any thoughts about this man (i felt nothing for him when i first saw him) if he didn't paid so much attention upon me. Okay another thing is, he is my boss (i mean the biggest one) but he never took any serious liberties...i felt he respected me...now he's away coz he's got business elsewhere...but he'll return. The thing is we've NEVER had a conversation before (besides him asking me to do something), but I felt we had a connection the first time we met, like he can read me and visa versa. I knew him for less than a month...

2006-11-20 02:38:10 · 11 answers · asked by djat20 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a 19 yr old son that just moved into his own apt. He makes enough to cover his rent and expenses, if he would just stop spending the money elsewhere....
His aunt and I set him up in the apt.(with his knowledge) because he just doesn't want to listen to rules at my home or hers.. (He has lived both places) All he wants to do is party..
I offered to hang on to the money that he needed each week for his rent, so that he would get used to doing without it... But all he kept doing was saying " I need $10 for this or I need $20 for that".. I finally had enough and gave him back ALL of his money and told him to handle it himself,,,only after he called me all kinds of names and said that it was his money..
I have problems of my own and I feel that I have done everything I can for him, but how do I not let it get to me...
He works a full time job. Its not like I threw him out on the streets or anything. I am determined to make him do it on his own, but how do I not feel guilty??

2006-11-20 02:38:05 · 16 answers · asked by Termite 3 in Family