My boyfriend has a friend that I am extremely attracted to. I have never acted on this attraction but it is there. I feel bad because I really do like my boyfriend a lot but, I am really feeling his friend. The friend has the qualities that I like in a guy as far as looks go, but he also makes me laugh and is good with kids, too. Should I feel bad for having this attraction. I don't have any intentions on pursuing anything, but feelings are definitely there. What should I do?
2006-11-20 02:47:23 · 12 answers · asked by ♥BlackGirlLost♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look at it as a crush, do not act on it. Trouble, trouble trouble. Guys are sexual creatures. There is no guarantee that you would be anything but a one nighter and look at all of drama it would create. You are perfectly normal to be attracted to other people, just don't cross the line.
2006-11-20 02:52:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not wrong what you are having is what everyone experiences but remember that if you are in a commited relationship than to act on these feelings is wrong.Take a new look at your boyfriend and see the qualities that attracted you in the first place to him.
2006-11-20 10:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by HummerBabemv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel bad, in life you'll always find attraction in others. The thing is does your boyfriend have all the qualities you like about his friend?? If he is missing something and you want more don't stay in a relationship. You'll just end up being unhappy in the long run.
2006-11-20 10:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually your not wrong for feeling this way, may people have a little temptations when they're in a relationship, but I think you should keep your boyfriend friend just as a friend because it will ruin your relationship if your boyfriend find out about your little crush on his friend.
2006-11-20 10:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Imani♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well your between the rock and the hard place and need to proceed with caution before some day you let those feeling get out of control. you could end up lossig your present boyfriend and regret that later.
best to stay away from his friend as much as possible and do yur best to put the feelings aside.
2006-11-20 10:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by apostle1938 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart on this one...you have control over your own happiness, make it happen. Life is so short and precious and everyone deserves to be happy in their life. Some people just have a chemistry that is undeniable. Have a happy Thanksgiving.
2006-11-20 10:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as long as you dont act on your feelings or put this guy before your boyfriend we all have attractions to other people --- its when we act on those attractions that we get into trouble
2006-11-20 10:53:13 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it! life is too short ---dont feel bad just feel --you are having feelings for a reason and maybe he is the one you should be with--he may feel the same but you wont know till you talk to him
2006-11-20 10:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
HUMM..I WOULD NOT WORRIE ABOUT IT TOO MUCH!! ITS NATURDAL TO HAVE THAT KINDA FEELINGS, JUST DONT TAKE IT ANY FURTHER THEN FEELINGS BECAUSE IF YOU DO FEELINGS WILL BE HURT!!! GOOD LUCK..IT WILL PASS!
2006-11-20 11:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt feel bad just cause you like someone else. but if you do somethin with him then you should feel bad.
2006-11-20 10:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by s w 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋