Like when we first laid eyes on each other...he took a double look at me and smiled...i smiled back. The impact for him seems to be great coz during the weeks that followed at work he was always looking at me, smiling sometimes, sometimes it was just a blank look...he went out of the way to help me...sometimes he would turn away when i caught him looking, sometmes he would keep looking. He would be shy when i direct my attention to him. I would never have any thoughts about this man (i felt nothing for him when i first saw him) if he didn't paid so much attention upon me. Okay another thing is, he is my boss (i mean the biggest one) but he never took any serious liberties...i felt he respected me...now he's away coz he's got business elsewhere...but he'll return. The thing is we've NEVER had a conversation before (besides him asking me to do something), but I felt we had a connection the first time we met, like he can read me and visa versa. I knew him for less than a month...
2006-11-20 02:38:10 · 11 answers · asked by djat20 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...the last day he was here (i was never told that was his last but i felt it somehow) he was always looking at me with sad eyes. he's a very established man...i don't know why a simple girl like me have this effect on him...but now that he's gone...i feel sad and i miss him...what should i do when he comes back?i was cool to him during his stay here...
2006-11-20 02:40:41 · update #1
Can you afford to lose this job? Funny thing about some men in authority, they enjoy the effect they have on subordinates, especially pretty ones they know are attracted. If its real enough for him to risk inapropriate behaviour, he should make a move outside of work hours/envioronment, otherwise the only respect you'll earn is to keep your eyes on your work.
2006-11-20 02:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by blue girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although he is your boss, he is only human and may have an attraction for you. There are a few things to watch for, is he married? If not and you two pursue a relationship that doesn't work out, are you prepared to work elsewhere? See it's never good to mix business with pleasure, let me tell ya, I know this from experience and it makes for a very uncomfortable work place. Good luck!
2006-11-20 02:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one. He's you're boss. If things go sour, you lose your job. Period.
Make the right decision. Don't throw anything away on a guy you would not have looked twice at and a whim.
2006-11-20 02:41:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is still working there - stay away. the odds are (95% chance) he will use you.
unless you are into casual sex. if you are then go into his office - close the door - drop to your knees and take him inside you right on his desk. never say a word to him - not one. then walk out of the office. see what happens after that. remember to only try this if you are strong enough to.
2006-11-20 02:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should spark up a conversation with him, because from what you are saying he definitely is very interested in you. So find out what he's all about.
2006-11-20 02:43:02 · answer #5 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really start a casual conversation to learn if he's really interested in you & give space to possible advance from him. guessing & feeling things that might not even exists just won't help u or him.
2006-11-20 02:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by alvineager 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tryign taking to him when he coems back a simplelittle talk not liek ask him out or actually ask him otu for coffe see if he will help you with soemthign to explain i t
2006-11-20 02:41:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need toask him out for dinner its professional so you talk about bussiness then trap him into another conversation
2006-11-20 02:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by girly_down_n_south 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so.... what's your question? what advice do you need? Don't have a relationship with your boss, find someone else.
2006-11-20 02:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jump him
2006-11-20 02:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋