Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

OK, please, please, please don't judge me or him/
I'm 16, he is 46. Mum and him split up 2 years ago, he has kids older than me, that was the worst part.
We met up about a job, had a bit to drink and ended up having sex. Since then we've met up and I've stayed over at his house a few times, we just talk for hours (and have sex).
I know it doesnt sound like it, but he is the most caring, loveable, affectionate, generous and gentle person in the world.
I have fallen madly in love with him, unconditionally. And I know he has strong feelings for me, as when I spoke to him ont he phone a couple of hours ago, he said all he is doing is swimming every night trying to figure out what is going on in his head, he's suffering from a severe guilt-trip even though I've made it clear its what I want.
I know I love the guy, and I know if I was older he would want to be with me. Do you think he will see me again?
Please can someone offer me advice this is absolutely breaking me heart. Be nice!

2006-11-20 01:58:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother and I are products of a 7 yr. affair.My mom and dad were both married with childeren.The relationship ended when my dads wife figured it out. My mom was really hurt because he always told her he was going to leave his wife and never did.He started to deni that we were his and fought paternity. Needless to say it was proven and he had to pay support. My mother had a lean on thier house because he wasnt paying for half of our births. Years went by and we never met him. When I turned 18 he tried to contact me and I ignored it. Then when I was 20 he asked my cusin to ask my mom if she would take lean off.He wanted to sell his house. She said hell no.Then when I turned 24 he tried to meet us agian and my brother and I finally agreed.It felt like I knew him my whole life!!He gave my brother and I $700 each and told us not to tell anyone. I found out later that he owed my mom $1400. He sold his house! w/o moms sig. he really tries to be fam. now but I ques. motives!!!

2006-11-20 01:57:50 · 12 answers · asked by runzwsizorz 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He's always been this way. First, he didn't want me to go to church. I was a stay at home mom who couldn't drive and didn't go no where. Pastors wife would pick me up, and take me to church on Sunday morning. Hubby complained he worked all the time and didn't get to spend enough time with me and the kid. Later I started going to Bible study on Wednesday night, and he REALLY didn't like that. Now sometimes, there are social events like dinners, and communions, and he says I "don't need to" go to more than one church service a week. I don't get it. I mean its church, for petes sake. Why is he like this? He was brought up Catholic and had to go to church all the time when he was little. I developed my relationship with God when I was 20 and have been involved with a church. But my hubby feels threatened or something if I go more than once a week?

2006-11-20 01:57:49 · 16 answers · asked by :-) literary cappy 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 01:57:42 · 20 answers · asked by colin050659 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

but I have so much fun with him when I'm with him.he's very brilliant &entertainer. he never made me bored. when with him, we can play music, talk about music, play sports. & just talking is fun, too. I never been together with man like him before. He comes to my house always.( never stay long maybe 3,4 hours avarage, 2,3 time/week.),so he knows about my life. but his life is almost secret. I can contact with him by only his cellphone.so it's difucult to find out if he is cheating or not. like last weekend, I called many time but he never answer.he only text me once said" I'm working so I can not talk" he never want me to come to his house. he said he separated with his wife for 6 years,but wife is staying in same building( his friend told me that)his friend told me that he can't stay with 1woman. I think better quite him,but he's so great & I can't find nice guy like him. last time he was wearing wedding ring for first time( i don't think it's for wife) What do u think I should do?

2006-11-20 01:56:37 · 15 answers · asked by miko 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy has been chasing me for a while. we have only kissed eachother recently. we are not dating. he did want to take things further but i said no. he is still chasing me. how can i be sure that he is really interested in me and not just chasing me for sex?

2006-11-20 01:55:46 · 42 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

I still have feelings for a previous boyfriend. The worst part is, I broke up with him. I see him around with other girls, and he won't talk to me. Is he trying to make me jealous or has he moved on? I don't know if I should tell him or not. I'm afraid he doesn't feel the same way about me.

2006-11-20 01:55:01 · 15 answers · asked by Emalee 2 in Singles & Dating

My bf wth whom i break up 2 days before becoz he has relationship with some other girl but he dont agree with it that he has with someone other asked me yesterday that can we be friends. I said him that i need some time to think for it as i was not in position to take any decision. Today i say him that i dont want to say u anything but my decision is that i will not continue any more but if in life we ever meet each other i will talk to u as just friend as i talk to my other schoolmates. But he say that i dont want to breakup. He said that i want to continue it. What should i do now. My all friends say that just breakup else u will be be responsible if he double crossed u.I cant listen any wrong word for him as that he is doing fraud. What should i do. I can never forget him. Pls help nd answer me sincerely soon.

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2006-11-20 01:49:29 · 9 answers · asked by mrsbev88 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

It just might be fun, and heaven knows we all need a laugh. Just so bored these days I quite fancy giving it a whirl.
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2006-11-20 01:49:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-11-20 01:49:06 · 16 answers · asked by cinder_nelle 2 in Friends

I went to my friend's house yesterday, Jason, and I was SHOCKED at what I saw... I went over un-announced, and they let me in.

The first thing I noticed right off is there was meth on the table. (The mom was sitting there.) I walked past that and went to his room. He had a black eye and his arm looked kinda off. We chatted for awhile before his dad came in and told Jason that he hadn't taken out the trash. Jason said he'd do it right then but before he could do anything the guy punched him in the face five or so times with a closed fist!!

This is abuse, right?

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Has anyone ever hired a private investigator to follow your spouce? How much did it cost you? Was it worth it? I'm thinking of hiring one because Texas is a community property state. I believe he is commiting adultery.

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coze thats what I feel now!

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