I still have feelings for a previous boyfriend. The worst part is, I broke up with him. I see him around with other girls, and he won't talk to me. Is he trying to make me jealous or has he moved on? I don't know if I should tell him or not. I'm afraid he doesn't feel the same way about me.
2006-11-20 01:55:01 · 15 answers · asked by Emalee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You could:
1) Forget him and move on.
2) Talk to him and tell him you would like to try again.
Good luck!!
2006-11-20 01:58:54 · answer #1 · answered by Polete Brasil 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As you are not on speaking terms this is going to make it that little bit worse. What you could do is just start saying hello to him to see if you get a reaction. If he doesn't say anything and ignores you well then you know that he is still hurt by the fact that you dumped him. If however the next time he is with a girl and he goes out of his way to say hello to you, then you know that he is being OTT.
However if you feel that you really want to get back with him and I mean really and not just because you see him hanging around with other girls the only thing you can do is try and get him by himself and tell him that you still like him, and while you know that he probably is hurt by what you've done you just wanted to see if there was any chance that the two of you could be friends. At this stage its best not to tell him that you want him back as a boyfriend, this can come later if he's in agreement to the two of you being friends
2006-11-20 02:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... first of all you need to decide for sure if you really love hI'm still or you are just missing his company! I thought that same thing when i broke up with my ex 2 yrs ago and i went back out with him and broke up with im less then a week later! If you truly think that you still love him and things will work between you two then go for it! So what if he says he doesn't have feelings for you! think about if you don't ask he still does he feelings for you! Never know till you ask!
2006-11-20 02:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by --Br0oklYn-- 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he probably doesnt feel the same way towards you...it sucks, but you have to remember that he is an ex, and probably for the reason....just remember why you broke up with him in the first place. I was the same way with my last ex...and I would keep remembering the reasons why we broke up.
As for him being with other girls, he may have moved on already...depending on how long you were together, etc etc...but he may be tryin to make you jealous, especially if he knows you're gonna be someplace and he shows up.
2006-11-20 01:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by racing_babe55373 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that he is trying to make you jealous, but i do think that he may have moved on....but if you still have feeling for him i think you should tell him.....you never know, he might just feel the same way and just feel like he shouldn't say anything. so i would give it a try if i was you.
2006-11-20 02:01:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all...why did you break up with him if you still have feelings for him? Past experience says let it go. It's not worth getting hurt over again. Tuck it away as a learning experience for your future relationships. Like they say, "you can't go back". Whatever made you unhappy the first time will still be there. Find someone new and wonderful.
2006-11-20 02:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by Dawn S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you MUST tell him. He might hurt you, but you'll get over it eventually. At least you will know one way or the other, and not keep wondering.
It took me 17 years to ask my ex if he really had loved me... this guy I cried to for over two years, and the only one I ever felt a deep connections with.
And he said yes.
My choice not to ask him that question so long ago, cost us spending the rest of our lives together. And I did not ask because I was afraid he would reject me.
2006-11-20 02:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by :-) literary cappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it wont hurt to try to talk to him rather than be curious of his feelings for the rest of ur life. if he doesnt feel the same way, then you should forget him and move on. if he does, then good for you! either way you'll at least let him know how you feel -- so that there's no misunderstandings between the two of you. Good luck!
2006-11-20 02:10:44 · answer #8 · answered by asf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you never ask him then you'll never know. Just be honest with him, and if he tells you he has moved on then you can try to move on too. He may be still have feelings for you, but if he doesn't want you back then just remember that's his loss!
2006-11-20 01:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by T M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats up improve up rapid or dont date everybody until then. U could desire to restrict your self approximately u r thoughts approximately everybody and that's a skill. appreciate the guy as a individual that's all not something greater beneficial than that or under that.
2016-10-22 10:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋