My bf wth whom i break up 2 days before becoz he has relationship with some other girl but he dont agree with it that he has with someone other asked me yesterday that can we be friends. I said him that i need some time to think for it as i was not in position to take any decision. Today i say him that i dont want to say u anything but my decision is that i will not continue any more but if in life we ever meet each other i will talk to u as just friend as i talk to my other schoolmates. But he say that i dont want to breakup. He said that i want to continue it. What should i do now. My all friends say that just breakup else u will be be responsible if he double crossed u.I cant listen any wrong word for him as that he is doing fraud. What should i do. I can never forget him. Pls help nd answer me sincerely soon.
2006-11-20 01:54:03 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry I don't understand your question.
2006-11-20 01:56:12 · answer #1 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The final decision rests on you. Would you be ok if you happen to meet him accidently somewhere with his new girlfriend? I am only telling this, since you said you would talk to him as a friend if you ever meet him. He knowingly broke your trust, considering you would get hurt if you ever found out...such a person cannot be trusted anymore...the human side in him died right when he betrayed you. He's nothing more than an animal looking to satisfy his needs. You will have to forget him, if you can forgive him as well. You will have to start over again. This is your testing period, and God knows you are strong enough to pass this through..I know how you feel, but just be patient and someday you will find your TRUE love.
2006-11-20 12:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by billu_bhai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, make sure that you are true on this that he has relationship with someone else.
If he doesnt have, there is no need to break-up.
If he have, give him another chace (only if you think you can never forget him) on the condition to leave that girl. If he agrees to leave and infact leave her. All is OK.
Otherwise, the only way left is either remain happy with double crossing or leave him.
Its what I would do..
2006-11-20 02:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Prince of Thots 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from it all for a little while .... it just
happened the other day, is that not so? Maybe you could ask your mother if you could go out together for lunch and shopping, even if you buy only some fresh flowers and a box of tea .. just get out and do something different.
2006-11-20 02:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both in the school so you are there to study.
Having said that, if you are not at least 25 years old then be focused on the thing at hand, such as studies, work.......
If you are old enough then it is defferent.
No pain no again you have to be ready to accept rejection.
Just in case here is a site that may interest you when you are out of the school and sattled.
http://yahoo.shaadi.com/india-matrimony/...
2006-11-20 02:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand your question: You broke up with a boy for cheating on you, but he wants to stay together. My advice is to find out if he really did cheat, if he did do not take him back. You sound like a high school girl, there are better things to spend your time on than a boy who will cheat on you. If you do take him back he will probably cheat again.
2006-11-20 02:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey little girl don't cry. You say you can't forget him so give him a second chance. You also need to be more firm with yourself and make it clear to him that there will be no more chances. Besides you got your whole life ahead of you ------ look up.
2006-11-20 05:23:16 · answer #7 · answered by ~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't really understand your post. You have to put your self first. Think of your self as another girl, maybe a sister or a best friend, if she was in this situation what advice would you give to her. Maybe its better to just be distant friends?
2006-11-20 01:58:13 · answer #8 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey babe, chill out, be practical, please tell him out that everyone has got their own choices, you never forced that guy to hang on with you and he never did the same, and when he has choosen his path why do you go in centimental and try to get him back, just tell him we are cool friends had a good time with each other.
2006-11-20 02:37:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur in school... start to concentrate a lot more on learning English.
You now have an ex-bf. Deal with it.
2006-11-20 02:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by novembr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are doing the write thing dont let any man treat you with disrespect good job stay that way and never change
2006-11-20 01:59:01 · answer #11 · answered by angie f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋