but I have so much fun with him when I'm with him.he's very brilliant &entertainer. he never made me bored. when with him, we can play music, talk about music, play sports. & just talking is fun, too. I never been together with man like him before. He comes to my house always.( never stay long maybe 3,4 hours avarage, 2,3 time/week.),so he knows about my life. but his life is almost secret. I can contact with him by only his cellphone.so it's difucult to find out if he is cheating or not. like last weekend, I called many time but he never answer.he only text me once said" I'm working so I can not talk" he never want me to come to his house. he said he separated with his wife for 6 years,but wife is staying in same building( his friend told me that)his friend told me that he can't stay with 1woman. I think better quite him,but he's so great & I can't find nice guy like him. last time he was wearing wedding ring for first time( i don't think it's for wife) What do u think I should do?
2006-11-20 01:56:37 · 15 answers · asked by miko 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can hang out w/ him and get yourself other "friends" as it appears he's doing. Don't put all of your eggs into one basket.
2006-11-20 01:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by E B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this, but he sounds like he IS married. If he is that secretive and you can only contact him by cell phone, he only comes to your house and he IS wearing a wedding ring, he has a wife. The best thing you can do is end this relationship. There are plenty of single, great men out there. One that will be there for you.
Think of this: If he is willing to cheat on his wife, what makes you think he will be faithful to you? You deserve better.
2006-11-20 02:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by parrothead2371 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds fishy to me. You can tell when a guy likes you by the amount of time he spends with you. If he does not grant you much time with him, it means he is 1) he is occupied with other women 2) does not want to be with you at that time or 3) never wants to be with you and does not like you completely. 4) something else, but he does not want to be with you for very long.
So..it sounds like to me, if he is only around for 3 to 4 hours, he may be coming over for some brief entertainment and then leaving to do other things or spend time with others that he really does like. I would run away as fast as you can. He will probably not like that, but it is what you must do as quickly as possible!
2006-11-20 02:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by ymerejtrebor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUN, you at the instant are not PARANOID . provide it of undertaking to rebuild the have confidence, on account which you have been mutually 6 years basically approximately, that's an prolonged time. Have a heart-to-heart communicate and ask him what occurred, according to hazard he left the dating mentally 2 years in the past, who is familiar with. do no longer run far off from the difficulty, attempt to clean up it and if he does not participate or try, then it is his screw up, circulate away him.
2016-12-10 12:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by fearson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it seems you're some entertainment for him too!
how long do you think it will last like this? are you satisfied with this relationship? if he can't offer you what you need, get it from someone else! There's plenty of fish in the sea, trust me!
My advice: give him an ultimatum, say what you have to say to him and then see what he wants from this relationship. Then, make a decision.
Good luck!
2006-11-20 02:03:02 · answer #5 · answered by harieta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the sooner you leave this reelationship, the better for you. This man is either married or in a serious relattionship with another woman.
2006-11-20 02:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Polete Brasil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really great cut him some slack and try to find out more.
If he is really great for all women, dump him.
You are better then them, so you don't need to compete.
If you are better, he will come back.
2006-11-20 02:06:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is cheating, then break up... You obviously can't get over the jealousy or mistrust...
2006-11-20 01:59:26 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is going to be to leave him, you need to. You deserve better hun!
2006-11-20 02:16:59 · answer #9 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he's not being on the up and up with you. Sorry.
2006-11-20 02:01:51 · answer #10 · answered by his_scarlett_ohara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋