Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

Ok, my friend wanted me to ask this question because she's a bit embarrassed and I told her I would. When she was younger, she used to play house and dress up with her friend across the street and they did kiss a couple times but that was it. They only played house and dress up a couple times and then her friend moved and they lost contact, now that my friend is alot older and wiser she told me that she feels a bit grossed out by what she and her friend did. I told her as long as it wasn't anything more she shouldn't feel guilty. They were young. She also told me that she was worried she could get in trouble for it but I told her that was nosense because she didn't do anything illegal and she should forget about this thing because i'm sure her friend has. Does anyone have any advice I could her? Please refrain from the "Oh gross" comments. Thank you.

2006-11-20 02:37:40 · 9 answers · asked by ryminggirl23 1 in Friends

I married my wife and vowed unconditional love for her.
She has had an affair and I still love her dearly and I dont want to lose her. To me sex is sex. Love is different. I can, and have forgiven her, because I love her no matter what her faults. I feel that is unconditional love. Am I wrong? Whats your opinion?

2006-11-20 02:36:50 · 19 answers · asked by Terry B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 02:36:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a one night stand with a guy almost a year ago. He got my number and knows where I live but never made contact which is fair enough. Bumped into him at the weekend and we had a very brief, yet civilised chat. He wants to call round to see me some evening. Should i open the door or ignore it if he does come over? What would you do? I certainly dont want to give the impression that I'm a pushover so I think I should just ignore him.

2006-11-20 02:36:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I like this guy whos is my friends twin brother and shes ok with it but he has never had a girlfriend and he said hes not to sure on what to do and I don't know how to help him. I don't know weather to just make a move and let him follow or what? Any one got any ideas let me know because I don't want to mess this one up, he to nice of a guy and a good friend. Thanks.

2006-11-20 02:35:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She doesn't find it very amusing by the way.
I try and try and try but it seems like that part of the female anatomy is a magnet for my eyes.

2006-11-20 02:35:02 · 18 answers · asked by Transgénico 7 in Marriage & Divorce

I still value her friendship and she will always be my bestfriend but my parents think she's a troublemaker and that we shouldnt hang any more. How do I get them to see that she's still a good person?

2006-11-20 02:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by shay_8925 1 in Friends

my friend dates or talks to my ex i say its ok but i really hate it should i drop her or drop the whole situation?

2006-11-20 02:33:58 · 9 answers · asked by chelsea b 1 in Singles & Dating

don't say anything stupid!

2006-11-20 02:33:37 · 10 answers · asked by smile_@_me 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

example things like i love you

2006-11-20 02:33:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need a song for a father daughter dance for my wedding. I need something a bit more rock, NO country please! Also keep in mind I want it to be a slow song that I can dance to with my father! I would prefer the song to be rock of some sort, nothing to heavy though! The lyrics are important...it needs to actually resemble family!

2006-11-20 02:33:07 · 22 answers · asked by Blondie98_01 2 in Weddings

2006-11-20 02:32:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He wants to get married in december of this year! We were suppost to get married in apirl but he went into the army and got out in june. His family and my family dont want us to get married until he can prove he can take care of me! My parents say he has to hold a job and he has just not the job that they would like him to have .He didnt have a job before he went into the army. now that is back he has a job now, but my parents wont pay for the wedding? Should i pay for it my slef or should i make them pay for what they said they would?

2006-11-20 02:32:18 · 27 answers · asked by Kat J 2 in Weddings

I dont talk to my parents very much but the other day i called them to see what there plans are for thanksgiving. My dad called me back and he said that he is unemployed and he needs to borow money. Well i know that he is reitred and i know that ive called a couple of times to tell them im unemployed but never to borrow money i only call to ask for advice. Now i know that he was meesing with me but why would my dad of all people do this.

2006-11-20 02:32:15 · 7 answers · asked by me 1 in Family

I've know my partner for 6 years and we met through mutual friends. We became intimate about two years after eventhough we each were with someone. 3 years later, I became pregnant and had our now three year old daughter. He was rarely in our daughter's life during her first year. When our daughter turned one, he moved out of his house and a few months later moved in with me and our daughter and we've been together ever since. Everytime we get in to an argument about his ex, I feel he gets really defensive and the argument is more than it should be. I think he still is trying to get his ex to forgive him and that's why he allows her to get away with the things she does. He has regular visitation with his children and what she puts him through and he takes really frustrates me. The only time he opens up to me about the situation is when I ask him questions. Do I end our relationship as it has been two years since he left so he could decide where he wants to be or hang in there?

2006-11-20 02:31:18 · 7 answers · asked by tobornot2b2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 02:31:04 · 56 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

and maybe who have children?

2006-11-20 02:31:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

married 14 yrs....raised her 2 children to adults...had to move out of new home...living in nw indiana....with brothers family...no kids of my own...her basis for divorce is that we don't have enough in common...after 14 yrs. she figures that out....i'm about to loose my mind

2006-11-20 02:29:36 · 18 answers · asked by DADZILLA 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there's this guy i work with, he's really hot and all the girls there want him. (BTW im 18, he's 29) so far all he's done is flirt with this girl who is really nasty and skanky, and had a boyfriend neway when the first started flirting. he comes to work with her and leaves with her and last sunday they left work early together to go f*ck. so anyway ive liked him for a little while now, and then the other day i was walking back to my desk from the breakroom and he was passing by me and kind of reached out and touched my hand and kind of linked fingers a minute...just completely out of the blue. then the next day he ignored me and onlly talked to the nasty skanky girl. i dont know whats going on, is he just trying to play headgames or what?

2006-11-20 02:29:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

cuz my hubby thinks im going to go and have sex with these guys that i chat with when i go visit his family this week what should i do

2006-11-20 02:27:49 · 26 answers · asked by Marie B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or would rather it be quite to enjoy the pleasure....

2006-11-20 02:27:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

give me a sort of speech to use....

2006-11-20 02:27:17 · 13 answers · asked by tot 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 02:26:14 · 9 answers · asked by TEXAS12 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-20 02:24:51 · 11 answers · asked by TEXAS12 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

You had an affair, he passes away. Your whole family knows, but its kept "quiet". His mother hates you, but his father really likes you alot. I am so curious if he said anything to his father about our relationship. Would you talk to the father? I feel so unrestful, till I find out, or would you just drop it?

2006-11-20 02:23:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been talking for over six weeks now, but have not been out on a date. This is mainly because he works practically daylight till dark and is also a volunteer fireman. He accepts my 4 month old daughter ( I left her drug abusing father when I was 3 months pregnant). I really like him but I feel like he is taking such a long time. So last night, I told him that the "fireworks" just aren't here because I feel like we're not going anywhere. Then, he told me that he really wanted to be with me and was trying to get everything settled for us. Since then, I have tried several times to talk to him...I want to work it out, I really really like him, but he wont respond. Should I continue the chase or just let it go?

2006-11-20 02:23:46 · 11 answers · asked by Niki H 1 in Singles & Dating

With all the bull i read on here, i'm just quickly wondering if we are not the norm or the majority anymore.
Are you married? In love with the person you are married to?
Have relations only with the person you are married to?
How long have you been married?
Happy Holidays to you and your families.

2006-11-20 02:23:03 · 15 answers · asked by 1973kimberly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay so maybe I didn't provide enough details..

so my sister is being very mean and I get the vibe that she totally hates me and doesn't want to have anything to do with me.

She is saying I haven't been a brother to her and she is really being heartless . keep in mind I am in my 30's she is 16. I didn't live in the same city as her when she was growing up. we had developed what I thought was a good relatinship over the past 3 years, she was in my wedding, I invite her out to do stuff.... but all of a sudden she lashes out at me. has this happend to anyone else?

2006-11-20 02:22:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm a christian and i'm in love with a muslim man we're egyptian so we have the same culture. i just don't know if it's forbidden by god to marry him i realy love him and we understand each other very well actually the religion difference is the only problem!!

2006-11-20 02:22:18 · 19 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my girlfriend were dating for a very long time amd i love her to death but she is just so jealous sometimes, she gets on my nerves and acts like she doesnt trust me but you know she was improving and i still adore her with all my heart i believe we are soul mates but see one day she accused me of cheating on her because she found a text message with one of my friends just talking as friends but she took it the wrong way, so i broke it off with her and from all the anger i was so frustrated i was telling people you know i am happy to be single but that wasnt the case i was just upset, and she got into my face so i swore at her =x then she started to beat me and and got crazy so i hit her back.... i regret it till this day because now i dont know i love her with all my heart and it was just a reaction... should i have done it... and do you think she will ever forgive me? i never beat on her it was just i g

2006-11-20 02:21:06 · 7 answers · asked by adel d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships