my friend dates or talks to my ex i say its ok but i really hate it should i drop her or drop the whole situation?
2006-11-20 02:33:58 · 9 answers · asked by chelsea b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if it really gets to you then tell her how you feel and then let her make up her owm mind but you did tell her it was okey be glad she ask you in the frist place
2006-11-20 02:39:40 · answer #1 · answered by dar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know I think there is an unwritten rule that you should never date your best friends ex. . .Especially if you two just broke up. . . I would have asked my friend firdst before i dated him and I still don't know if I would even if she said ok. . . I think I would try and drop the situation but if she talks about him non-stop and it feels like she's throwing in your face then I would drop her
2006-11-20 10:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Smile 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a sit down with her and let her know that what she is doing makes you uncomfortable. You did say you thought it was ok but you need to be honest and let her know her feelings about this situation. Sometimes it works out and sometimes you just need to move on but so it in a kind way.
2006-11-20 10:38:24 · answer #3 · answered by HummerBabemv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow ur heart. Do u really want the relationship? Do you think you can cope with your ex's presence sometime in the future if this present relationship lasts long enough? If u feel able to cope then enjoy this relationship. or have u got skeletons in your cupboard?
2006-11-20 10:39:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just drop the situation...
2006-11-20 10:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by Angelina 27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... If you told her it was OK.. that means she asked! So, its your own fault. It may bother you, but you have to get over it. Or your going to lose a close friend and its all your fault for telling her its ok.
2006-11-20 10:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how u really feel for onething. Stop lying! She didn't have to tell u about him but she's being considerate. Do her a favor and tell her the truth!
2006-11-20 10:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whole situation..if you broke up in a healthy way...
2006-11-20 10:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how you feel.
it doesn't fix anything but
you will both have to accept it
and sometimes
the best solution is acceptance
2006-11-20 10:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋