and maybe who have children?
2006-11-20 02:31:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was just wondering because i see a lot of people over 30 dating on here. good for u guys! ^_^
2006-11-20 02:36:57 · update #1
Married for 14 years, only marriage, age in low 40's, have a seven year and had a child die.
Very happily married.
The key is to trust your partner 110%, communicate the best you can and try to know how your spouse communicates (it will be different than you), and learn to pick your battles (probably the key).
Typical problems arise from lack of trust, finances, different interests.
First, trust your spouse. If they are going to cheat you, you will not feel any better if you saw it coming. Let your spouse know that you trust them and if they want to lose that trust then they must agree to counseling immediately.
Financial are based on communication and BOTH knowing what is coming in and what is going out.
Give some room for your spouse to pursue other interest as long as they keep the communication alive with you. See if there is mutual interest in this venture.
2006-11-20 02:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Jerry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm over 30 with 5 children and extremely happy
2006-11-20 02:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by H R I 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Male,50+, married 30+, 4 kids, 6 grand kids. Very much still in love with my first and only wife. This is just inexpensive safe entertainment for me.
2006-11-20 03:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by nachtmann2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am just 31 but ammarried and very happy; i enjoy sex with my wife with all the styles u think about my relationship is very adventuruos; we quarrel a lot but we move forward after our quarell; when u see us fighting u dont believe it and when u see the romance thing u still dont belive it; well i can never have a better spouse as she use to say also; but latyely we know ourselve so well that we dont even quarell as such but mind u she is the first person i will be faithful to cos i found out i need nothing out there again.
2006-11-20 02:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by segsky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am one! Happy, been married 14 yrs, one child, a 13 yr old. Would of liked to have had more children but it didn't happen. Still I am content.
2006-11-20 02:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 35 and I married my best friend and Im happy. Im fulfilled. I think if they are your best friends and you can chat away all the time about things you both love (music is ours) then you will last. Honesty and trust really need to be there too. If your constantly seeing their faults as a problem instead of just accepting them then you will not last.
2006-11-20 02:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Lyssa B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am. been married 34 years and8 months. and to the same man. honestly, i never thought i would be married this long, but he's a sweetheart. we have 4 grown kids ages 34,33,26,&19 and 5 grandchildren.and yes we are very happy and still very much in love.
2006-11-20 02:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by jackie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm older than 30 INVOLVED and happy!! :D~
Do you think you turn 30 and its all down hill?
I had more (or atleast as much) fun in my 30's than 20's... being more mature is a plus I think.
2006-11-20 02:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by tana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am married to the same person for years, three wonderful children (all teenagers) and would not trade them in for the world.
2006-11-20 02:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by Gabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not over 30, but I'm 22, though I AM married and happy. :D but I don't have any children yet, but will soon.
2006-11-20 02:32:32 · answer #10 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋