Family & Relationships - 20 November 2006

Why or why not?
Do any of you believe in "erasing the colour lines?"
Do you think the term, "Once they go black they won't go back" is racist?
What do you usually do when you see interracial couples?

2006-11-20 03:24:23 · 16 answers · asked by Hello,It'sMe 3 in Singles & Dating

I am going through a seperation and I have a 3 year old son. My wife's family usually has a large, fun gathering at the holidays, while family has nothing going on. My wife is going to let me see my son on thanksgiving for a few hours and may even invite me to the family dinner. This is gong to be way too akward if I go to the family thing, but I have nothing to offer my son in the way of enjoying the holiday and do not want to take away from his holiday.

2006-11-20 03:24:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my former best friend just doesnt give a crap about me anymore and has become a major drug addict. We used to be really tight in junior HS to the point where we would sleep over. But he stabbed me in the back by not telling me what HS he is going to and then when i wasnt sure which college to go to he told me he will go with me to Brooklyn College (I would probably go to John Jay if it wasnt for him). He studied there for a year then started doing drugs and dropped out and later went to a different college. He also did some very stupid things which I wont discuss. We barely talk anymore. So tell me should I just end it cause at this point I feel that I trust people I just met more then him.

2006-11-20 03:23:12 · 9 answers · asked by RT 1 in Friends

2006-11-20 03:21:53 · 9 answers · asked by kaybaby200688 2 in Singles & Dating

what do u do when your sisters friend wants to go with you but your sister doesnt want u to talk to him i mean i like him to but what should i do????

2006-11-20 03:21:48 · 8 answers · asked by "$exie" 1 in Friends

2006-11-20 03:21:17 · 22 answers · asked by honestgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this man for 9 months now, but from day one he has checked my phone log, emails and is always suspicous of me, even though I am a woman who is of strong virtue. He has terrible mood swings and is extremely needy. I feel empty inside and am not in love with him any longer.I know that it is time to move on, but he was just recently diagnosed with Bipolar 2 Disorder and I'm afraid of the consequences (for him) if i end the relationship now. He is also alone in the world, having lost his mom & dad at a young age. I need some advice please. I do not want to go to friends and family any longer with this for they are frustrated. I believe I have lost some friends over this as well, due to the couple times we have had gatherings and he has had severe mood swings around them too.

2006-11-20 03:20:12 · 22 answers · asked by jamiee s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 03:20:07 · 17 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Friends

I was playing truth or dare with my cousin Matt, Amanda and three of Amandas girlfriends. We are all Sophomores in college and we were just hanging out at Amanda and her roomates house. Well, needless to say we were all drinking and having fun playing truth or dare. One dare was even to doorbell ditch one of the neighbors, some were to make prank calls etc.. Well, Amandas friend Bianca knew I was a little drunk (Im not blaming her though) and when she asked me a very personal question, I chose the dare. She asked me to sit down on the recliner naked and masturbate to a picture of Lindsay Lohan. I also had to scream her name when I orgasmed. Well, needless to say I did this and I just took off all my clothes and lied on the recliner and went at it, I asked for lubricant and one of the girls got me some. I was embarrassed when its was over. Some of the girls said I had a needle di##. I am 3 inches erect. Matt was laughing hysterical. I am wondering if this will all be forgotten later?

2006-11-20 03:19:43 · 11 answers · asked by Kam187 1 in Friends

What I saw when I went to my freind's house un announced shocked me. I saw the husband hit my friend several times in the eye; I saw emotional abuse; I saw meth on the table.

I know he has been abused for awhile - or at least what it looks like. My question is do I have to have him go with me to give a statement, backing up what he's going through, or can I single-handedly report him for abuse?

(for all other questions... see my last question for details on what happened)

2006-11-20 03:16:35 · 9 answers · asked by JASNJ 2 in Family

I have been best friends with this guy since we were little.. He has always had the hots for me and now were talking.. He has asked me to be his girlfriend and of course i have said yes to him.. We are talking about moving in together after the first of the year. I just wanted some opinions on this of what u thought .. U think i should wait a while.We have been dating for almost two weeks now and i even stay with him at his house some nights..

2006-11-20 03:15:48 · 16 answers · asked by blue eyes 3 in Singles & Dating

I have this guy friend who, whenever I see him, hugs me and kisses me on the head - usually the side of my head - not the top (and he's a good 8-10 inches taller than me) and not my cheek. I'm sure it's just an affection thing, but is there something more to it that maybe I am missing?
Thanks!

2006-11-20 03:15:38 · 14 answers · asked by brewcitybabe4 2 in Singles & Dating

actsthe exact same way towards a woman, it's called 'abuse'? What's the difference?

2006-11-20 03:15:25 · 10 answers · asked by kardea 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Was I wrong not to tell my co-workers that I was going off to get married? I didn't tell them until I got back.. A few of them I used to hang out with sometimes outside of work.

2006-11-20 03:15:09 · 11 answers · asked by stella 2 in Weddings

adjustment of child support payment due to job loss due to company shut down

2006-11-20 03:14:36 · 13 answers · asked by angel 1 in Family

I have been with my bf for awhile, he is 5/6 years older than me. I am 20, while he is almost 26. I am still in college while he is very sucessful in his job etc... I love him more than anything but sometimes I feel like the age difference might cause more problems then benefits. Our age difference isn't too far apart, but also people have a way of looking at us and saying "wow shes young" or "oh you like the older men?" its really annoying but we've gotten used to it- I just want to know what are the good things about having an age difference like that...and what do you think about when you see a couple 5-6 years apart? Thank you

2006-11-20 03:14:04 · 16 answers · asked by swtgrl83 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 03:13:55 · 15 answers · asked by seawalker 1 in Singles & Dating

Please answer my question?????
Does anyone know that when you have a court ordered child support to have it taken from your paycheck, (the child support is taken out weekly btw) you work in one state, but pay support in another, is it a federal law or do you go by state law on when to pay the support by? Because my husband's work has been withholding money but not sending it right away, when this went into effect they took out every week for a month and then sent the months for the next months payment, which caused him to miss an entire month. Is there anything we can do, the state the money is suppose to go to says they should have sent it for that month, and the payroll lady says she doesn't have to send it weekly. Thats not how the state we live in now does it. Who should we contact for help. Can anyone help us??

2006-11-20 03:13:55 · 3 answers · asked by pandiepoo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-20 03:13:51 · 3 answers · asked by messa 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a little overweight and find it hard to make myself look attractive. any hints or tips 2 make me look thinner and more attractive?

2006-11-20 03:12:36 · 23 answers · asked by xxadeeynxx 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 03:12:11 · 11 answers · asked by enjoy:-) 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 03:11:58 · 6 answers · asked by **POPULAR!** 2 in Friends

My boyfriend of almost a year and a half recently told me he wanted to take a break because he's not sure what he wants right now, and he's not sure if our relationship was making him unhappy or if it was something else. I'm almost 100% sure that it's not a matter of him wanting to see someone else, because he also said that he's not sure if he wants to spend Thanksgiving with his family; he's thinking about skipping out and spending it alone. He's been acting puny and depressed lately. I feel like we had a very good relationship, and I wish he would let me be there for him, and he told me that he still wants me to be there for him ( I kinda have to be around anyway, we live together.) How much should I "be there" for him, since he needs a break from us, and is there anything I can do to make him see that he may be happier if he just let me be his girlfriend like I was before?

2006-11-20 03:11:57 · 6 answers · asked by *~HoNeYBeE~* 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

just asking because my job requires me to wear a Hard Hat when out in the field on Construction site...I really hate how they look and was wondering what you guys think of it....i work in the office most of the times - but i do Quality Control onsite....

2006-11-20 03:11:56 · 5 answers · asked by beachnut222000 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-20 03:11:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am gay and "she" is my best friend...a friend of her died and latley she has shut out the world...I am/got tired of just sitting around in her room all the time, and just wasting time...I am tring to understand her situation, but she isn't moving on...I'ts been like two months...She wasn't even that close to him...
We have latley gotten into more arguments. I havn't talked to her since last week and that's weird b/c we usually atleast talk everyday. ALSO her and another friend of mine got into it and they are no longer speaking...so here I am in the middle, but I have unofficially chosen my other friend, just because she doesn't bring me down whenever I talk/see her. I think my best friend is taking that personal too...She cancels on me to hang out with (the friend that died's sister) and they sit at her house...I feel like I am loosing her and I don't want that, but I don't want her the way she is right now... What should I do?

2006-11-20 03:11:21 · 6 answers · asked by Tell You How It Really Is 2 in Friends

Older man, looking lost, walking the halls of YSU, grabbing extra free samples of shaving cream.

Any guesses would be helpful
No bad answers possible.

2006-11-20 03:10:57 · 2 answers · asked by Timothy C 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I have been on Zoloft for a month now and I have stayed away from drinking and any other drugs of any kind. I am trying to take really good care of myself. Unfortunately, I got really trashed and high the other night and went crazy. I can normally hold my liquor but I thing it was mixing wrong with the pills. Anyways, I went crazy on my hubby and am feeling very depressed. I keep dwelling on what happened even though my hubby seems to be trying to forget about it. I guess what I am wondering is... How can I make it up to him? I was not acting myself and I feel terrible.

2006-11-20 03:10:47 · 17 answers · asked by goldie89lynn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

help and she is shooting up cocaine. She is 24, I have a 15 year old and a 5 year old that I don't feel right about letting my niece and her husband around. I love her with all my heart, but she won't get help. She gave her 2 kids to her mom 5 months ago. Since she won't get help, and has admitted to continue using, I won't let her over here. My sister (her mom) continues to try and help her and she can't see that all is happening is she is getting used for money and rides etc. My nephew (her brother) called today for the first time in months. I told him what happend and his response was "If she doesn't use around your kids, or in your home I don't see what the problem is." Has my family gone crazy? Is it okay to let someone with a $1200.00 a month drug habit in your home if they aren't high at that minute? I feel like I don't know these people anymore.

2006-11-20 03:10:42 · 11 answers · asked by Corona 5 in Family

everydays and every nights,i waiting for a moment tht make me happy,that give my life hope..i lost my parents both in an accident when i was 12,now im 21 and i feel im 40.i never had even a friend.i lived with my grand father since tht time and yesterday he died and now i have no one in the world.every nights i just think.thinking about future till morning.the only thing tht give me little peace exept my work,is music im a composer and can play guitar.and those sad songs i play make me feel better.life is aweful,and a big battle and im a loser.trust me,humen are so weak when they are alone.

2006-11-20 03:10:03 · 9 answers · asked by last spiritual man 1 in Family