my former best friend just doesnt give a crap about me anymore and has become a major drug addict. We used to be really tight in junior HS to the point where we would sleep over. But he stabbed me in the back by not telling me what HS he is going to and then when i wasnt sure which college to go to he told me he will go with me to Brooklyn College (I would probably go to John Jay if it wasnt for him). He studied there for a year then started doing drugs and dropped out and later went to a different college. He also did some very stupid things which I wont discuss. We barely talk anymore. So tell me should I just end it cause at this point I feel that I trust people I just met more then him.
2006-11-20 03:23:12 · 9 answers · asked by RT 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes you should...too bad he's doing drugs but his behiaviour toward you is pretty clear...don't bother anymore...i ended my friendship with my "bestfriend" after 15years,sometimes people just change so much you can't keep up!
i don't regret it a single second!
come on,turn the page!
2006-11-20 03:27:30 · answer #1 · answered by Billie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, your friend needs a friend right now. You should be there for him no matter what. Even though he hasn't been exactly there for you, doesn't mean you should just drop him. Especially if he's doing drugs, you should be there even more. I'm not saying give him money to buy drugs or anything...but you should atleast be there if he needed you to. What goes around comes around. One day he'll realize what he's doing is wrong, you just need to give him time. I'm also not saying you shouldn't have other friends. Go out and meet people. Just because you 2 don't hang out as much anymore doesn't mean you should keep cooped up and bored. Have fun and try not to stress about it.
Good Luck and God Bless!!
2006-11-20 03:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by Amber R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in a simular situation... what I would do is... move on... you can check in with him from time to time (twice a year)... just to talk... he may grow up some day and straighten up his act... hang with the people that you have the most in common with... I just ditched a 30+ friendship... for the same reason... if he tries to continue the relationship on a regular basis... then I would let him know that until he gets his sh*t together your not interested... hope this helps!!!
2006-11-20 03:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you probably did the spectacular ingredient , i latterly had matters with my chum of 17 years as all she did exchange into deliver me down together with her whining , drama queen antics and 10 telephone calls an afternoon approximately her petty concerns. She had no concernabout my issues in any respect. you in all probability only omit what you was , and experience undesirable which you had to give up touch together with her. in case you experience that it relatively is properly worth saving your friendship then check together with her , yet once you experience which you have been there for her and he or she hasn't been there for then you you relatively are justifyed on your determination.. stable success xxx
2016-10-22 10:19:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you barely talk then just don't talk with him anymore. Apparently his good buddy drug addiction is his friend in his mind, if he ever cleans up his act I am sure you will be there if he called
2006-11-20 03:27:11 · answer #5 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a bright young man and I think you already know the answer to this question. He chose the wrong path and you chose the right one. Stay on your path and start making new friends, you have your whole life ahead of you. Be happy and stay positive.....
2006-11-20 03:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should tell this person how you feel and if you still feel like they dont care then tell them that you dont want to be friends any more. tell them exactly what you think is wrong in your friendship and if they arent willing to change then BOUNCE!!!!!
2006-11-20 03:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him that your guys' friendship is on hold until he can get his life together. That's what I had to do.
2006-11-20 03:26:37 · answer #8 · answered by Hello,It'sMe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on haw you feel about him if you realy hate him just don't be his friend any more i'm sure you can find another friend.
2006-11-20 03:43:39 · answer #9 · answered by mona z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋