How can i make myself look more attractive to a boy?

Question

i am a little overweight and find it hard to make myself look attractive. any hints or tips 2 make me look thinner and more attractive?

Answer 1

FIND A BOY THAT WANTS YOU FOR YOU..NOT WHAT A LOT OF MAKE UP MAKES YOU..IN THE LONG RUN ITS NOT WORTH IT..JUST BE YOURSELF ..THERES SOMEONE FOR EVERY ONE OUT THERE.SO BE PATIENT

Answer 2

First things first, be confident. There is nothing sexier than an independent confident woman. Second, cut your hair short, it will make your face look thinner. Wear clothes that complement your body shape, cuts, patterns, dark colors. Don't hide your body, just accent your curves. Don't stress to much about changing yourself for a guy, find a guy that is into your body. My husband loves it when i am on the heavy side, he likes curves, big boobs and butt. When i was pregnant for my son he could not get enough of my curvy body. If you are that unhappy with your weight work on loosing it. But do that for yourself, don't let men dictate how you feel about your body. Just find a place where you are happy and confident.

Answer 3

Don't be somebody your not. My significant other is a little overweight, I wouldn't have it any other way. I think most people get hung up on looks. Looks aren't everything. I know thats an old fashioned statement, but think about your best friend and all of their qualities and everything you have in common. Look for that in your significant other. It doesn't matter if your the ugly duckling or the swan princess, everyone has an admirer. If you FEEL pretty, you probably are. If you KNOW your pretty, then your probably not.

Answer 4

Yes, confident & bragging bodylanguage.

Bold, daring skirt/tights/outfits - show'em you're not a scaredycat by avoiding the black and black with black look (one black item and one neon item go well together).

Contact lenses (they are worth it); long hair in bunches like a little girl has; and show a little some skin.

And more bold, fearless bodylanguage - try to stick out from the crowd - be more stereotypically feminine and lose the shyness, you've got nothing to lose.

And remember that vertical stripes and horizontal stripes are very different, only one of them makes you look slimmer.

Answer 5

its not all about weight or looks. you need to feel comfortable with yourself. other people will love you if you love yourself. being funny also helps a lot. guys like a girl that can hang out with them and have a great time. friendship can often develop into a romance.

if you are really concerned about your weight, just start to work out a couple of days a week. you may even meet a cute boy at the gym...and then you already have something in common.

Answer 6

you don't need to be attractive as long as you are you and if they can't except that its they're problem every body is beautiful in side and out and what really matters is what is in the inside you don't want a guy how dates you for your looks and you don't need to change your appearance for what other people say not me not even yourself

Answer 7

Don't change your outter apperance, change your inner one. It's obvious that you have been pre-conidtioned to beleive that you have to look a certain way to attract a man which is just the opposite and just de-magnatising them. You should be able to get men you want without thinking you have to change yourself to suit someone eles.

Answer 8

dont wear baggy clothes like a lot of overweight people tend to as they want to 'cover up'

just wear clothes that fit properly, make sure you hair and nails are done at all times and the rest is good to go.

most importantly, enjoy the date and smile..... a smile goes a long long way.

and be yourself.

Answer 9

you don't have to make yourself thinner to make you attractive like yourself and other people will like you don't be worrying about how attractive you are beauty in the eye of the beholder.

Answer 10

Black makes girls look thinner and also, maybe some makeup, get your hair done, get your nails done. this may work, but you cant force it. Oh yeah, try talking more, this way a guy can look at you say....she looks cool, and she talks alot, lets date..

Answer 11

just be yourself looks are not all that count show lads how great you are inside and you will have loads of lads fallin for you!! doing this will make you feel better about yorself trust me i am slightly over weight but i think if lads can not see the real me than they are not worth it.

good luck