I have been best friends with this guy since we were little.. He has always had the hots for me and now were talking.. He has asked me to be his girlfriend and of course i have said yes to him.. We are talking about moving in together after the first of the year. I just wanted some opinions on this of what u thought .. U think i should wait a while.We have been dating for almost two weeks now and i even stay with him at his house some nights..
2006-11-20 03:15:48 · 16 answers · asked by blue eyes 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have a long history with each other. You know each others issues. I'd move in with him. It's not like you just met each other. Good luck
2006-11-20 03:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best romantic relationships I've ever had started as friendships. I've been married for ten years and we began as very good friends. Still best-friends, too.
That being the case, it's a bit early in your romantic relationship to begin discussing moving in together. You're just now getting to know a new side of each other. You have a good basic foundation with the long standing friendship, but give yourselves some room to grow. Jumping into seemingly great situations can lead to a quickly burning out of the romantic side of your relationship.
If you two are thinking of this becoming a very long term romantic relationship, then what's the rush? You have plenty of time. Enjoy it! There's no need to rush from one relationship milestone to another just because you can.
Slow down a little and enjoy the journey. And if you're asking what other people, (whom you don't know), think about your situation, you may not be ready for the next step in this relationship, anyway.
2006-11-20 11:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bob S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you know each other very well,if you have been best friends since you were little. But if it were me I think I would wait until at least spring. Keep doing what your doing.
This is just a thought but you could have him give you the key for now,see how that goes.Then take it a step further,move in.
I think it's wonderful to be in-love with your best friend, that's what we are all looking for, the connection. Do lose that but also take it slow,so many people jump into living together then find out they are not compatible. It is so important to explore each at a slow pace to see if you are both feeling the same thing.
I hope this was helpful to you and I wish you all the best...Peace
2006-11-20 11:28:12 · answer #3 · answered by SpecialLdy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to do this then why not but u have to be sure of it!!!! And i think its the best way to know the person his good and bad sides couse u will be together for 24 h so its something diffrent than just seeing from time to time!!! But take a risk and try if u dont u will not know if u 2 really match together!!!!!
2006-11-20 11:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
UMM ONLY 2 WEEKS? THAT SEAMS LIKE YOUR MOVING A LITTLE FAST..
I KNOW THAT YOU SAID YOU HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR A LONG TIME BUT THERE ARE THINGS THAT YOU FIND OUT ABOUT PEOPLE WHEN YOU START TO DATE THEM THAT ARE DIFFERENT THEN WHEN YOU WERE JUST FRIENDS. YOU SHOULD REALLY TAKE SOME TIME..
OFTEN TIMES FRIENDS THAT DATE END UP NOT TOGETHER BECAUSE THEY KNOW SO MUCH ABOUT ONE ANOTHER..TAKE YOUR TIME AND BE SURE THAT YOU WANT TO BE WITH HIM IN A RELATIONSHIP..
I WOULD TAKE MORE TIME!
GOOD LUCK!
2006-11-20 11:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's great that you have a romantic connection with such a good friend. be careful though before you fully move in together. let a little bit of time pass. stay over at his place or have him stay over and see how it goes. sometimes you find out things about people when you live with them that you would have never known otherwise...that can be good and bad.
good luck!
2006-11-20 11:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is good that you have have such feelings for such a close person. just remember that romance with close friends can always lead to painful endings. I know that from experience. With living with them, you need to make sure that you are ready to do this, that you absolutely want to do this. you will find out alot of new things about him. Sometimes it can lead you to realize that maybe he is the right one for you or maybe he isn't.
2006-11-20 11:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if you feel confident about it go for it but you got to think be for you do something it some times can be the wrong decision but being best friend and all you should already know him so go with your heart do what you think is right and maybe it will go just the way you wanted.
2006-11-20 11:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by naenae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a while....I know its hard but if your talking a year. Just see where it goes. Just give it time and relax.
2006-11-20 11:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by lovinglife!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should think this though to make sure it is the right thing for Thur both of yous and i hope it works out for you both
2006-11-20 11:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by loverboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋