Was I wrong not to tell my co-workers that I was going off to get married? I didn't tell them until I got back.. A few of them I used to hang out with sometimes outside of work.
2006-11-20 03:15:09 · 11 answers · asked by stella 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I didn't really tell my co-workers i was getting married. I let them figure it out after all i work with the people i don't live with them. Since you are friends with some of them i would have told them about it. I wouldn't worry about it though, if they give you a hard time just tell them it was your decision and you wanted it to be you and your husbands moment, without extra attention and stuff, they should understand.
2006-11-20 03:54:31 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you got married with the idea of an elopement then I don't see anything wrong with it. I would have at least told some people especially since you hang out with them on occassion after hours. I would have wanted to tell them so the could share the excitement with me.
2006-11-20 11:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by bellebelle113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the rights to tell or not tell anyone about your wedding plans! Especially if you eloped! However, since you say that you hung out with some of them outside of work...why wouldn't you have told them? Personally if I had someone not tell me, I might be a tad upset that they did not want me to share in their joy. That maybe they thought I wasn't worthy enough to know such joyous things were happening to a friend. I would quickly get over it though, but still see why your "friends" would be a bit upset. Again though, it was your wedding, your decision.
2006-11-20 11:30:47 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Callie ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this going to affect your work relationship? Probably not.
I wouldn't worry about it. They may be a little miffed; some will get over it, others may not. Just be prepared for some remarks from those who feel slighted.
I had a 5th grade teacher who told us on a Friday that over the weekend she would be married. She left as Miss Holt & returned as Mrs. Anderson. Years later, I ended up working with Mr. Anderson who was also a teacher.
2006-11-20 11:27:26 · answer #4 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I don't really socialize with co-workers. I keep my personal life personal. As long as you told them something (i.e. I got married this weekend) at least you told them. Some people wouldn't even do that. :) Don't feel bad.
2006-11-20 13:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was a bit inconsiderate of you to not tell the ones you would hang out with, but not "wrong."
It is wierd, though. I've never heard of a bride who didn't talk about her wedding.
Unless you eloped, in which case you were completely right not to tell anyone.
2006-11-20 11:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, your wedding is none of their business and you were right to not tell anyone...the less people talk about their personal lives at work, the more productive they are. Unless you're close with all of your office mates, leave your personal life at home.
2006-11-20 11:24:54 · answer #7 · answered by VAWeddingSpecialist 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on how close you were to the co-workers. If you were close, then yes you were wrong.
2006-11-20 11:24:09 · answer #8 · answered by LOLO W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i can top that easily my fiance and i are getting married in new zealnd next march and nobody knows except for the two of us
greets Anne
it was your decision, people should be happy for you, if they are not bad luck for them
2006-11-20 14:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its your wedding your rights. Co-worker or not it doesn't matter.your entitled to privacy.
2006-11-20 11:17:44 · answer #10 · answered by me2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋