theirs this boy hes my best mate but theirs something about him whenever im around him i feel weird i love with all my heart and would do anything for him but heres where the problem starts i cant just tell him how i feel cause im a guy to and i dont want to loose something good i dont want to loose him. i thought if i moved id forget him but it didnt work it made things worse i realy want to be with him but if im with him i dont want to hurt him and if we were to split up then i dont want to loose him i dont even know if he feels the same. all i know is that i love him and i would die for him
2006-11-20 02:42:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Feel the situation out. Do you know how he feels about gay people? In the right time and place you will be able to tell him you are and how you have felt. If he is not gay then you can't change him, don't try it won't work and do'nt push it. Many straight people have gay friends.
2006-11-20 02:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Barry W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you are both of age - go for it. make a move or at least - talk to him about it first to feel him out.
even if he is not nto it - he should respect your feelings as you guys were real close friends. you may also lose him as he may respect you but not the homosexual thing and you will lose him.
2006-11-20 10:47:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if u have any common friend then ask him/her to help u by asking him on his/her behalf. If he also likes u in that way then u ask him otherwise u can loose him by asking him directly. So first think it deeply.
Hope it will help u.
2006-11-20 10:52:10 · answer #3 · answered by sangeeta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy is not bi or gay then you may freak him out to tell him --- all you can do is be a friend and look for another to love
2006-11-20 10:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋