My 11 years old daughter looked up for "naked men" in google.com.Should I talk with her or not worry about it

Question

I already talked wiht her about sexuality, therefore I really don't know why she would look up for this. I gave her some booklets about girls and boys and we talked. I don't want to give her too much info but I also don't want her to get wrong info from somewhere else

Answer 1

You should talk to her about it. See why she did it. She might be just curious about the male body. She might like it and she likes to watch. Shes now getting to the age where she is thinking about sex, so definitely talk to her about it becuz only she knows why she did it.

Dont make her feel like she is in trouble becuz then she might lie about why she did it. Come to her like an adult to another and just ask her and she will let you know why...she may hesitate, but she will let you know. When she pauses...dont say anything, just let her think for a while and let her respond.

Answer 2

You should tell her that the internet has a lot of things that hold wrong information. Much of the porn online is blocked to where you can't see it except through a free tour [which doesn't have that much] or unless you pay for it. But, I think it all depends on if you want your 11 yr. old daughter looking at porn. Just talking to her and giving her a booklet isn't enough. I mean, what girl [or boy for that matter] wants to talk about the opposite sex and sex with their parents. It's awkward and embarrassing. I'm 16... I would know. lol. But, really it's all up to you. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

Curiosity is normal.
This is not a poplular answer but if she's old enough to search, she's old enough to be given the answers. Nothing is worse that for her to have questions and the go her friends for the answers. Talk about the blind leading the blind. You will have to talk to her more than once. This is a new subject for her so as new information is taken in, she'll have more questions.
The biggest benefit...If you are completely open with her and don't freak out when she asks, she'll be more open with you when she starts seeing guys and that's when this all becomes critical.

Answer 4

If your daughter looked that up than i would assume she is curiouse or friends from school are telling her somthing and she was just trying to see if it were true online. My advice tell her the truth without being vulgar about it. She is 11 she is old enough to know the differnce between girls and boys, and ask her if she has any questions and that no matter her question you wont get mad or upset and that you want her to be open to talking to you about anything, most kids are terrified they will get in trouble if they say anything they are really wondering to their parents.
hope this works for you and good luck!

Answer 5

I caught my daughter at an early age looking at porn. I was not mad at her at all. I sat down with her and told her to show me what she was looking at. She did not want to. But after telling her I would not get mad or ground her she showed me. I asked her why she likes looking at it. She gave a normal response. I don't know. So I asked if she just wanted to see what it looks like. She said yes. So I found a website explains all about the birds and bees in a way a child can understand. It showed pictures and explanation of what she was looking at. After she was done looking at the website. I asked her if she had anymore questions. She said no and gave me a big hug and said thank you daddy. Now she don't want to look at porn any more. I have checked the history and it is all girls games and disney videos. Problem solved.

Answer 6

Just curious. There is a lot of things even an 18 year old doesn’t know about men... you have to think back when you were that age. I don’t care how many diagrams, drawings, explanations, that she’s seen, there is a reason no one disagrees that a picture is worth a 1,000 words.

Answer 7

Just basic curiosity.

I wouldn't spaz over it.

However, please understand that she will get information from other places, like school (kiddos talk). Tell her what you feel is appropriate, but keep an open dialogue. Tell her she can always come to you and point her towards resources outside of you, so if she is too embarassed to talk to you she can still utilize resources you approve of. Doctors are good resources.

Also, while we don't want to think about it and she is quite young, I would inform her about birth control and planned parenthood. Planned Parenthoods main objective is to provide woman's health to the community, not abortions like it is so widly told. Even if you want her to stay a virgin, as you know kids don't always do what parents tell them. Be realistic and realize that she needs to know that they can help her too if she is too embarassed to talk to you.

Answer 8

OMG, that is so funny because I recently caught my 15-year-old son looking up "naked woman" in Google. I didn't know whether to laugh or cry!! I wouldn't make too much of a deal about it--it's all part of growing up. She's just curious.

Answer 9

I wouldnt talk to her about it. Just be happy that she is looing on the internet and not actually at a male in person. On the computer u have nothing to worry about. Shes curious and she is going through the stage that u prlly went through once. Just let is go

Answer 10

kids are very curious at that age - i myself have an 11 yr old daughter and i dont think i would want her looking at porno - because that is what she saw - just typing in naked man won't get her a real lesson on anatomy - just porn - stop her from using computer unsupervised, this could lead to more than just curiosity - and not to mention the viruses you can get on your pute if she goes to other porn sites...that is just something i dont think you should learn about online...talk to her again mom...good luck