Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

has anyone ever had sex in public? do you like the thrill of knowing you might get caught? was it cold or warm when you did it?

2006-11-06 06:36:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am stressed. My roommate and I come from terribly different backgrounds yet I'm really trying. The thing is, she does things that make me feel awkward and she is totally oblivious to it. She doesn't invite me places with her, she leaves me when I do tag along and everyone in my dorm hall thinks that I'm the one who is not giving her the benefit of the doubt. Sometimes, I do rationalize it but, which I know is my fault, I expect a lot from her. I expect her to know that when we go to a party together and she can't find me that it's nice to call. I expect her not to bring guys home to our room before checking with me. I expect her not to allow her friends to open our door and open beer bottles in the door lock. I expect her to have common sense. So when she does these things, I just stop talking to her. After a while, I calm down and then discuss it.

Last night, she brought a guy home. I woke up to the sight of the two of them naked and their clothes on the floor.

2006-11-06 06:36:12 · 5 answers · asked by deeplydemented 2 in Friends

how can a man with 4 kids not pay child support yet buy a new car for his 21 yr old gf and himself.move into a nice house ina better neighbor and not help with the financial respocibilites of the children.......is he selfish or just stupid he is 42.....will the kids ever realise what a piece of shyt he is?

2006-11-06 06:35:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i text this lad last night saying i really liked him, and i didnt get a reply have i scared him off do u think

2006-11-06 06:35:35 · 11 answers · asked by sarah_squidge 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. Back when we had been dating him for a month he dated another girl for two weeks they never had sex or anything just a fling. I had heard rumors about it and asked him he said it never happened I now know that it did. I love him but he has been kinda not trusting me. I will not get to talk to him or see him till Thursday. So should I break up with him or stay with him? What should I say?

2006-11-06 06:35:34 · 8 answers · asked by SunShineBabe 3 in Singles & Dating

I think that everyone in a community should be happy and feel safe to walk out of their house.

2006-11-06 06:35:32 · 15 answers · asked by Tom 1 in Friends

I am a Catholic, I have never been married in a Catholic Church. But I did get Married and then I got a marriage dissolution. Can I get married in a Catholic Church? Please let me know.

2006-11-06 06:35:09 · 8 answers · asked by indiradelmar57 1 in Weddings

2006-11-06 06:35:07 · 7 answers · asked by alina a 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there any difference between the meanings of:

"love at first sight" and "you had me at hello."

2006-11-06 06:35:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend of 5 years. We are not married and not engaged at all. He say he is commited to me and I know for a fact that he loves me too, but why does he look like he lost feeling for me? I am sad because he look sad when I ask. he say there is nothing wrong and it is been a month or two and it is the same. He don't talk to me ask much or say he love me as much or even show me that he love me. He doesn't do none of that anymore. He even chat with girls on line but he say is nothing. I am sure he not cheating because he is always with me. I think I am the cause of his sadness. I feel he lost feeling for me. Now I am miserable. and I told him how I feel but he say I got nothing to worry about. BUt I know my bf for a long time and I think he say that to make feel happy cuss I know he love me to much to hurt me so he seem to rather feel sad himself than to see me sad . What should I do? I want him to be happy I can do anything to make him happy.

2006-11-06 06:34:39 · 12 answers · asked by Un4getableAsianGirl 2 in Singles & Dating

he's a great guy in every way, and i don't want to turn him down just because i have some unrealistic idea about what love should be... at the same time, it would be selfish to give him the wrong idea if i can never grow to love him... what should i do?? is love at first sight really such a huge deal?

2006-11-06 06:34:37 · 6 answers · asked by joiedevivre29 2 in Singles & Dating

Am I wise to let her continue - i just have a bad feeling about this!

2006-11-06 06:34:36 · 13 answers · asked by enthios2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have found my fiancee has a number of different e mail addresses. She has a number of sites, myspace, friendster, and she always marks single, even though we are engaged. I think she is just looking for someone to take care of her and her kids. What do you think?

2006-11-06 06:34:25 · 7 answers · asked by Vincent 1 in Singles & Dating

see i'm super bored and i love 2 make friends!! if ur intrested then let me know guys or gals don't mind, but can u leave your age plz cuz i don't wanna talk 2 teenagers, got nothin aginst em after i woz 1, but i find it real hard 2 talk 2 em, but if teenagers is wot i get then i'll take. FYI i'm 21 u.k oky

2006-11-06 06:34:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my husband has just started a new job and now because our hours clash i never see him because he works nights and i work through the day.Im pregnant and feel like im on my own with it now i didnt see him at all last week and its going to be the same until he quits which will never happen but i dont want to ask him to change his hours because id just feel bad since this is his dreem job and hes worked so hard to get it.HELP what should i do????

2006-11-06 06:33:52 · 14 answers · asked by angel.candy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-06 06:31:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So on thursdays i usually go to church this thrsday i didn't do i heard he was all up on this girl walkin around kissin her and **** so i dont kno who to beleive shud i beleive him or shud i beleive all my girls who say they saw him

2006-11-06 06:31:21 · 8 answers · asked by G Princess 1 in Singles & Dating

My baby daddy was not there when our daughter was born and went to jail for a while. He just ignored me while i was pregnant and for the next 6 months after. He was really rude and immature about the whole situation. He just got back and wants to start a family with me. He is catching up with the 10 months of her life that hes missed. But i really love him and and need advice on if i should get back together with him?

2006-11-06 06:29:47 · 17 answers · asked by boysaholic15 1 in Family

So there was a guy whom i really liked. He is like 3 years younger than me. I was a training teacher for him. I was understanding it was wrong to like him so i just kept a distance. He left for a year. Now he is back. We teach together. He was flirting with me, like calling, messaging me all day. We used to chat all nights long about anything (mostly personal stuff). And suddenly he just changed. He is not doing all this anymore. But when i come to work he is like everything is just great. And then after not mailing me, calling me for week or so, he writes me that he thinks we didn't talk for ages. Like as if that was my fault. He is playing with me I think. 1 day he is nice and 3-4 days he is not even giving any information about himself and then he asks me to forgive him for his being mean.

2006-11-06 06:29:41 · 9 answers · asked by ALONE_GIRL 2 in Singles & Dating

she asked me what can she do? she is interested in his best friend who is single and she has had several conversations with this man on the phone and feels that he is also interested but he will not say that he is. what should she do?

2006-11-06 06:29:26 · 9 answers · asked by stephanie c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, this girl and I eat lunch every Wednesday and we talk almost everyday. Today she told me she expected me to get her a good birthday present, due to her birthday being on Thursday. Also today she touched the letters on my back of my shirt. She has a boyfriend also. What is she doing flirting or what?

Thanks,

Koster

2006-11-06 06:29:15 · 23 answers · asked by jkoster 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend tells me he loves me and i know he does because he is nothing more than sweet to me. He's always there for me and i just know..BUT how can i stop myself from being so insecure about this relationship. I mean i do love him but i keep having thoughts that he will some day soon leave me. Yeah i've talked to him about it but he always says never...its still in the back of my mind though...How can i avoid these thoughts?

2006-11-06 06:29:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Both my husband and me are very good looking couple in our twenties; my husband has a body of steel. Anyway, we had a party in our house and I was drunk and did a strange thing. I was laughing and joking with my next door neighbour, a guy in his mid fifties and very overweight however is redeeming feature is contagious humour.

His humour sometimes involves sexual innuendo and it is very amusing, anyway to cut to the chase he jokingly put his hand on my leg and I laughed and told him not top stop, he didn’t’! We were in the kitchen alone and I just seem to let him, it was sort of gross but within moments of being fingered I had the most intense orgasm.

For about a week after the event I was masturbating continually about this. It was both repulsive and exciting. Without going into more unnecessary details I have been shagging this fat guy frequently for the past month. It isn’t love and my husband doesn’t suspect, for the obvious reason that he wouldn’t think it possible that I would even consider this man attractive. The thing is I don’t! Quite the opposite.

I have had more orgasms with this guy in short space of time than ever with my very attractive husband. What the hell is wrong with me? It’s almost like a drug I keep telling my-self one more time and its finished? Yet I keep going back for more. Please tell me I am not that strange

I don’t even feel is if I am cheating, I am basically using this guy as a vibrator and he knows it. I am not looking to redeem or excuse myself for my behaviour; it is just the irrationality of it that’s got me flustered. Why do I find this so stimulating? Is it the grossness of it? I know he is human being but he is so fat I feel depraved. He is six feet plus and must be at least 20 stone and I am only 5 feet and skinny, he picks me up as if I was a rag doll and I feel so helpless. At first it I only gave him oral sex and he used his finger on me but eventually you want more, he doesn’t even have that big a cock and its uncut and slightly smelly, but I still seem to get a weird sexual gratification from doing oral with him.

There is no point of going into all the disgusting things that I have now done with him, writing them down only makes the situation worse.

It makes no sense, my husband although not tall has a fantastic physic, and most women would kill to get at him. But me, I seem to get my thrill easier from a fat middle aged man, why? And will I grow out of it? And am I the only one like this?
And I can’t talk to my friends about.
Yours completely irrational.

2006-11-06 06:28:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

With who??

2006-11-06 06:27:10 · 29 answers · asked by crazzzy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this guy friend that I introduced to my group of friends me and him had something going on but because my brother and him were best friends I never really wanted to take it any futher plus I didnt like him all that much. So my best friend I found out by him has been seeing him and even had sex with him already and I dont care but why is she keeping it a secret and telling me he is ugly when I told her a couple of weeks ago I wouldnt care. On top of everything she has a boyfriend already who she plays all the time but thats none of my buisness until she brings me into it and her bf is calling me asking me what's going on with this guy and her. Im telling him I have no clue and he is screaming at me over this. I dont understand why she doesnt come clean and tell me the truth Im sopose to be her bestfriend especially if her bf is going to be calling me like if I did something and telling her bf Im the one that's with this guy she's really with.

2006-11-06 06:26:02 · 18 answers · asked by lola 3 in Singles & Dating

Ive been out of touch with sex for a long time. Bad divorce and no sex.

2006-11-06 06:25:16 · 8 answers · asked by rdwngfever 2 in Singles & Dating

where he has been for 15 years. He breaks into a house to look for money and guns and finds a young couple in bed. He orders the guy out of bed and ties him to a chair. While tying the girl to the bed he gets on top of her, kisses her neck, then gets up and goes into the bathroom.
While he's in there, the husband tells his wife: "listen, this guy's an escaped convict, look at his clothes! He probably spent lots of time in jail and hasn't seen a woman in years. I saw how he kissed your neck. If he wants sex, don't resist, don't complain, do whatever he tells you. Satisfy him no matter how much he nauseates you. This guy is probably very dangerous. If he gets angry, he'll kill us. Be strong, honey. I love you."
To which the wife responds, "He wasn't kissing my neck. He was whispering in my ear. He told me he was gay, thought you were cute, and asked if we had any Vaseline. I told him it was in the bathroom. Be strong honey. I love you too!!"

2006-11-06 06:24:36 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

all right. i've come to accept that it may never happen.

so now, what I do is, I indulge in things I consider romantic; like spraying on my fave perfume, reading a nice book, going to the movies or for a walk, taking a short trip when possible, looking at the sky & the airplanes & fantasizing about the places I can't afford to visit, writing love poems/prose...

how pathetic is that

(and I do believe that love can't be found; it's all your destiny no matter how hard you try)

2006-11-06 06:23:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was just going to have a family get together, but he'd like his friends to come over as well. It's winter, and I live in RI, so outdoors is out... I live in a really small apartment that'd in NO way fit 8-10 kids 'and' their parents or moms. I'd have it somewhere fun, but we've done Chuck E Cheese (which I hate, by the way), and Fantasyland in previous years. I was thinking of having a 'Build a Bear Workshop' party, but isn't that just for toddlers and/or little girls?... Somehow or the other, I don't think my son will want to build teddy bears with hiis friends at his birthday party... He's heavily into the Power Rangers, and so are his buddies, but there's nothing out there for that... Any ideas/suggestions please?

2006-11-06 06:23:51 · 8 answers · asked by monie0078 2 in Family

Im curious as to whether gals really like shy guys and. please help with why will they wont they like them. help pls

2006-11-06 06:22:50 · 12 answers · asked by fine boy 1 in Singles & Dating