Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

this girl, whom I like, was very cold toward me today. She looked very sick today. When I tried to start a conversation after class, she walked away quickly, and I was quite frustrated. She is not like that in general though. Is this a common phenomenon or is it an indication that she has no interest in me? Someone help

2006-11-06 06:22:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well the long and short of it is.....I sent a letter to a man whom I am friends with and told him I was in love with him. He knows that I have feelings for him, but I don't think he realized how much. He and I discussed on occasion about developing our relationship, but its just getting more and more difficult to spend time with him and not want something more. He says he wants to develop the relationship, he just needs more time, but then he says things like, lets go on a trip soon just the two of us???? This has been going on since January. I already mailed the letter. And right now we are actually not talking for stupid reasons. Should I have sent the letter. I feel I have nothing to loose anyway???

2006-11-06 06:21:58 · 9 answers · asked by sexandthecityaint got nothin!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

well my husband called me and said that hes going to iraq and i cant stop crying!! right now hes 7 states away from me and i get to see him for thanksgiving but i don't want his visit to be a sad one!! 'm afraid that i just might cry the whole time he's here!! does anyone have any husbands over seas???? please tell me your storys!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-06 06:21:54 · 16 answers · asked by Cassandra 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I sent my boyfriend a link on Aids awareness and how high the numbers are, if your significate other sent you one, how would you react.

Example the numbers are super high now a-days.
how would you react? I mentioned it to him the other day, i dont' think he believed me...

2006-11-06 06:21:32 · 7 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Singles & Dating

Where would you spend it, what would you be doing and who would you be with?

2006-11-06 06:20:21 · 26 answers · asked by aguywithnothingbettertodo 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 06:19:55 · 17 answers · asked by Jeffrey B 3 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl I like, and I would like to ask her if I can hang out with her on friday. I have been trying my best to talk to her as often as possible, but I am not quite sure if she thinks of me as a datable guy. My friend told me that the only way I can find out is asking her out. Since I have little experience with girls, I don't know how to do this properly. I really don't wanna mess it up. If I mess up, I will be very sad, for my efforts will be fruitless. I like the girl not because of her appearance but because of her personality. When should I tell her this? Ahh help

2006-11-06 06:19:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so what if you had access to your spouses code to his or her cell phone answer machine. Now what if you guys have a great relationship, they never gave you a reason to think they were cheating. You never caught the person in a lie since you guys been together but you so happen to see them put there code in while they were checking there messages.

Would you (A) Check there messages

or

(B) Forget the code I mean they never gave you a reason to snoop.

or

(C) Keep the code in mind just in case they start to act up but only use the code if things are getting suspicious.

...What would you do?

2006-11-06 06:18:59 · 19 answers · asked by Isis Dior 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please help me. I’m a woman and my girlfriend and I have been together for over 10 years, with the last 2 living apart. The last 2 years have been difficult and heart wrenching for us. She has come to conclusions this last year and wants us to be together and marry. Over the summer, I realized that I’m no longer in love with her the same way I was. She’s my best friend & family and neither one of us have really any family due to tragic situations. She’s devastated and I’m having a hard time being strong. She called off work and isn’t doing well. I feel horrible. I know she deserves to be loved the way she loves. She’s wonderful and all we know is each other. She’s not strong and I don’t know what to do. I’ve already called her twice and I’m worried. Sorry I’m all over the place, but I’m so distraught. Thanks so much for taking the time to read this.

2006-11-06 06:18:09 · 4 answers · asked by Mishka R 1 in Singles & Dating

i went ou with this guy and we decide not to see other people, we broke up a couple of days ago and know i found out that he has been seeing his ex for a week!!!! i hate him so much, he really hurt me!!!! i trusted him!!! and then he goes and treats me like that, dont think i will trust another guy ever again, i hate him so much!!!

know i feel really sick, and hurt.... :( Dont know what to do anymore!!! i want to get rid of this feeling and show him what he is missing out on, and what a mistake he made!!! i know thats not very mature, but dont know what else to do!!! i trusted him!!

2006-11-06 06:18:07 · 3 answers · asked by Simone 2 in Singles & Dating

To me that just seems to long is somethin wrong...guyz lol

2006-11-06 06:18:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i would like to know why she says she loves me but she wont have sex with me. we used to have a great sex life and one day about a month ago it just came to a screaching hault. i asked her why she wont but she says she doesnt know why.she says she really wants to be in the mood but she just cant get herself in the mood. keep in mind that we are not old or in our teens. i am 23 and she is 20. please help me.

2006-11-06 06:16:11 · 24 answers · asked by joshrusk83 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 25 years old and my boyfriend is 43. We have been together for 2 years and are in love. He wants marriage and kids and I am not sure if it will really work past the dating and relationship part.

2006-11-06 06:16:07 · 7 answers · asked by Amy Soprano 1 in Singles & Dating

how could u know if a guy is good in bed or not if you never tryed sex at all?

2006-11-06 06:15:43 · 9 answers · asked by simply_me 3 in Singles & Dating

im almost 18 3 months to go i have a baby but the father has sole custody what happens if i runaway and hide until im 18 what can they do when they find me after im 18?

2006-11-06 06:15:41 · 11 answers · asked by darklotusobo 2 in Family

Any suggestions on your favorite toy?....bullet, butterfly, rabbit, beads, inflatable, glass toys...

2006-11-06 06:15:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

with his wife and family. The former mayor of New York who moved his mistress into the mayor's mansion with his wife and kids is the savior and God's appointee.

2006-11-06 06:14:50 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My gf bf keep in mind we are not kids we are 30 and 35.She let's this damn bum keep her car even though I told her not to do it and she get's a ride home on her lunch break and catch him in the bed with one of our so called friends.Now the thing is I told her when she asked me did I think they were a little to friendly yes I did.Now she asking me what to do,because she's asking him to leve and he won't,he's crying and she's crying and he's telling her he's sorry and he won't do it no more.Our so called friend told her she's a little to late because she's 3 mths by Deon and she's keeping it.Now since he won't leave her house she wants to stay here,but I told her that's her house and she needs to call the police to get his azz out!She told me I'm probably F'in him to.Now what do I do?I don't want her to be mad at me or upset over someone who isn't worth it.Please help!

2006-11-06 06:14:27 · 17 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend & I have been dating for 3 years now. He knows our anniversary is today (he mentioned it 2days ago & its written on his calender) so I know he hasnt forgotten. We are both working today & probably won't get a chance to see each other :( but he hasnt called me. Its 2:15pm now, I know things can get busy but at the same time, you cant fit 2 minutes into your day for a quick phone call?? Would any of you other ladies out there be pissed too?

2006-11-06 06:14:19 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been getting together with a guy who lives a few hours away from me, and the only times we've ever seen each other is when we go out with our mutual friends, who by the way are all guys. He told me he's always likes me, but then he's acting really funny. A couple of nights ago we saw each other again and we ended up sleeping in the same bed, which is the third time it happened, we've never had actual sex and he's never pressurized me to although we did do other things, and i took as this as him really liking me and wanting to wait. The next day though he was ignoring me and acting all cool, is this because his friends were there? His friends tell me that he really really likes me and that he's funny around girls he really likes, and that i should just tell him how i feel, but I'm pretty sure he already knows. We all went out again the next day and he was being really quiet which isn't normal with him. I asked him if he was pissed off with me and he said no, i'm just feeling ill.

2006-11-06 06:14:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm kind just writing this question as it comes up.

So here's the thing.

There is this guy that I've kinda sorta liked since we were in high school, I would always flirt him EVERYDAY and it never bothered him at all. We are really good friends, and we have alot in common. Well, we meet again (we go to schools right next to each other) and i've been hanging out with him ALOT lately. At first, I thought I had feelings for him but in reality I don't, I just want to occasional hook-up with him. Has anyone here ever hooked-up with a close friend of their's ? If so, did it become awkward afterwards?

I just don't want to do something stupid that could endanger our friendship.

any advice would be greatly appreciated.

-M

2006-11-06 06:12:47 · 9 answers · asked by Ich_Hoffe 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 06:12:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my current boyfriend isn't too bad but my ex was soo obsessed i know other men are like this why. i know most women aren't soooooo desperate although we too need it !!!

2006-11-06 06:12:06 · 33 answers · asked by lil_dot_ruude 1 in Singles & Dating

why is it that everytime i get a boyfriend after the first few days i think he is weird and wanna break up with him but when i give them a chance i realize how much i really like them? this happens everytime...but i dont always give them a chance... why do i at first think they are weird but then go back to liking them alot?

2006-11-06 06:11:57 · 17 answers · asked by Ashley010 5 in Singles & Dating

I live on the Isle of wight a friend lives in Shetland my nephew lives in Aberdeen my niece lives in Colchester how can we all talk together we cant get confrencing to work HELP thank you

2006-11-06 06:10:24 · 9 answers · asked by DENNIS J 1 in Friends

ok so i met htis guy online about 3 months ago,
first two months, we would not talk that much... but the last month we've been talking every day...
but he;s not in VA < i live in VA> he's in CA....< lives in VA but there on business>...so we've been talking everyday, but he hasnt contacted me since friday night...do you thik he's purposely ignoring my text's??? and me altogether??

2006-11-06 06:10:24 · 8 answers · asked by confused! 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this question will get some good replys,because everyone out there think they are the one good female,so lets find out who you are and what makes you tick and yes I am recently single

2006-11-06 06:09:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend played a prank on me, he made conference calls to me several times and forwarded me onto a stranger while staying silent himself - ive been clueless as to who had been issuing these conference calls for about 2 months now and ive been very honest and open with him about my suspicion that it was him

He had denied it for those 2 months and 2 days ago decided to tell me that it WAS him afterall, and provided evidence because i would hesitate to believe him
He knows i was racking my brain out to find out who it was
It was him and his friend who were listening to see my reaction to speaking to a complete stranger on the phone

i feel a little humiliated seeing as though he had used me to get a few giggles...but also because he included his friend aswel, whom i dont even know! What i meant was, his friend was listening in too and laughing at me

Thing is, i still want to be friends with him, i've stopped talking to him expecting him to apologize to me, but he still hasnt

2006-11-06 06:08:47 · 13 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Friends

sweeties, i'm talking about romance; not friends, hobbies or job

thank you

2006-11-06 06:08:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been put in charge of diaper duty for my great grandparents this holiday season, how do I get out of it?!

2006-11-06 06:08:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family