My gf bf keep in mind we are not kids we are 30 and 35.She let's this damn bum keep her car even though I told her not to do it and she get's a ride home on her lunch break and catch him in the bed with one of our so called friends.Now the thing is I told her when she asked me did I think they were a little to friendly yes I did.Now she asking me what to do,because she's asking him to leve and he won't,he's crying and she's crying and he's telling her he's sorry and he won't do it no more.Our so called friend told her she's a little to late because she's 3 mths by Deon and she's keeping it.Now since he won't leave her house she wants to stay here,but I told her that's her house and she needs to call the police to get his azz out!She told me I'm probably F'in him to.Now what do I do?I don't want her to be mad at me or upset over someone who isn't worth it.Please help!
2006-11-06 06:14:27 · 17 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm... wow
Well, I would leave her alone, shes a big girl who can make her own decisions, if she's accusing you of things well, f her then, you would think that by now, she would be smart enough to know when she is being treated badly, this seems like it will never end, if not him, then another. Good luck, but if it were me I would stay FAR away.
2006-11-06 06:18:36 · answer #1 · answered by metallica_rocks0122 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her there's no way you'd f*ck a man like that because you have seen what a dirt bag he was all along and you tried to tell her the entire time. And even though she didn't listen to you when she had the change you STILL want to help her because she's your friend! But, its her life and she needs to start taking responsibility for it. If she wants him out, and you think she should get him out, than she needs to do whats necessary to do it. If she's 3 months by him than he's been screwing around for at least that long and probably a lot longer. If she lets him get away with it and takes him back he'll always cheat on her because he can get away with it. She's definately really angry and she's probably taking it out on you because she knows you've been right all along.
2006-11-06 14:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she better be like beyonce and say, to the left to the left...everything you own in a box to the left. She better pick up the pieces of her life before him and GET OVER IT. It is normal for her to act the way she is, I mean she just caught her man cheating. So you as a friend need to stick by her and give her the comfort and the satisfaction that she needs because she might not have anyone else but you. Be a friend and get that ***** out her house.
2006-11-06 14:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by ghettostar882003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, call the cops for her and let them know that you think you're friend is in trouble and can they please remove the man from inside her house.
Second, tell that friend that she needs help. She's making awful decisions and she'll end up getting very hurt if she keeps this up.
Lastly and probably the hardest thing...if she refuses to change or seek help, stop being her friend. I know it sounds awful but sometimes you have to leave people to figure it out on their own.
2006-11-06 14:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is crazy. But I can understand she is crazy because now she has a little on on the way from this loser. She needs to cut her losses and call the po po on his *** and get on with her life. Life will be tougher because she met this fool but it will be easier in the long run without him.
2006-11-06 14:19:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being a good friend by telling her the truth.
That is what friends are supposed to do.
The truth hurts.
We need to tell our friends what they need to hear, not what they want to hear.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater.
She needs to hold on to her dignity.
Tell her to throw him out for good before he messes up the rest of her life.
2006-11-06 14:19:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as any friend should be take your advice and accept it no matter what, she needs to kick his *** out, find some guy she knows who is bigger and stronger and drag his *** out of her house so that she can move on with her life, all you can do is tell her the honest truth what you have done, and hopefully she will realize what a stupid thing she has done in her life!
2006-11-06 14:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Sassy H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you tell her she is not going to leave him until she is ready so let her sit up in all that mess until she has had enough & be there for her when you are able to.
2006-11-06 14:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good God, youare right,, This IS some drama! You can't make her do anything (like kick him out) you just need to understand that she is hurt and confused and pissed off and be there for her.
2006-11-06 14:18:28 · answer #9 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry Springer I suppose I am not sure.
2006-11-06 14:16:40 · answer #10 · answered by Mrs.Walker 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋