Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

he was arrested for having a knife at a party.but he didnt use it he just had it on him.

2006-11-06 06:08:22 · 11 answers · asked by lilcharm7 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a divorced (7 years) father of three children, ages 15m, 13m, 9f. I am remarried now for almost 5 years. Children's mother has been remarried for 5 years. Our 15 year old is about to get his provisional drivers license at the end of December. He'll need a car to take himself to school and help taxi the other kids to/from school and sports. I pay monthly Child Support. His mother and stepfather now want to buy a car for him. She wants to "work something out" with the cost of the car, insurance and maintenance. What do most people do in this situation with regards to the finances of a vehicle for a teenager?

2006-11-06 06:07:51 · 7 answers · asked by sargeslope 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm new around there and I wanna know how I can form a little relationship between me and them, especially the guys. I'm not that good at making friends. Please help!!!
Okay listen-we just work and whenever we pass by each we always give each other weird looks like "You're the new freak around here." or something like that, I want them to get to know me for how I talk cus I am a cool person to hang out with but you just gotta know me first you know?
Plus-I don't work in an office, I work at Cold Stone and I'm only 16. The people I work with are around that age-teenagers, so yeah.

2006-11-06 06:07:17 · 9 answers · asked by Allahu Akbar 2 in Friends

I a good friend and I really like her, but I don't want to ruin our friendship, but I would love to be with her. Now, we go out all the time and hang out and have a good time. She knows how I feel about her, and she feels the same way about me. But it is like we put it on the back burner when we go out. We hold hands all the time and we dance all the time. Is it a cheesy move to just go and kiss her when dancing or do you think that will ruin things?

2006-11-06 06:07:11 · 8 answers · asked by unglory2006 2 in Singles & Dating

i really need some help

2006-11-06 06:06:59 · 12 answers · asked by devil man 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I love each other more than anything in the world. We are closer than best friends and lover . We are beyond that path. We been together for 4years almost 5, but just recently this week he told me that somehow he feel that he lost a feelings for me so he ask for a break to think about it. although he say he love me still and care for me it just his feeling seem to go bit by bit.I told him that he can, then a week later he say he love me but now is been anther week and he acting strange. He look sad sometimes when he stare at me then he don't want to kick it ask much anymore. What should I do? I Love him more than my life, and I never lost feeling for him. I want him to be happy, but he say nothing is wrong but there is because I know him for too long. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't love me and I don't want the person I love and care for than my life to be miserable with me.

2006-11-06 06:06:58 · 6 answers · asked by Un4getableAsianGirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-06 06:06:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what number of day would you get married on. an even number or an odd number? just asking cause my hubby just asked me what day I wanted

2006-11-06 06:06:21 · 23 answers · asked by allie laught alot 3 in Weddings

2006-11-06 06:06:03 · 13 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just had my second child on Sept. 21. Everything between my husband and I has been fine--as perfect as it could be, until about 2 weeks ago. He is so caring and attentive to my needs, he always has been, but lately nothing he does is good enough. We can't even talk without me getting upset about something. I hate feeling this way. I know that I love him so I don't understand where these awful feelings are coming from. It's almost like I despise him and everything he does. The way he chews food, the way he drives, his opinions, the way he touches me...everything. I don't know if I'm just so stressed out that I deal with it by directing anger towards him? He did absolutely nothing wrong. Anyone else ever feel this way???? It's like I have gone numb towards him and I'm afraid if I don't do something now, our once happy marriage is going to fall apart.

2006-11-06 06:06:01 · 18 answers · asked by tonya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 15 about to be 16 and I have recently lost my virginity to a 20 yr old guy that has a girlfriend, used to live with me, and his dad is best-friends with my step-dad. I told my mom a couple days ago. She flipped out. I have just moved to a new school and I am know as a whore here and where I came from. My mom told pretty much everyone in the neighborhood. I felt pissed and depressed afterwards because the guy had denied it because he could go to jail. I cut myself because of all this.

2006-11-06 06:05:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so what if you had access to your spouses code to his or her cell phone answer machine. Now what if you guys have a great relationship, they never gave you a reason to think they were cheating. You never caught the person in a lie since you guys been together but you so happen to see them put there code in while they were checking there messages.

Would you (A) Check there messages

or

(B) Forget the code I mean they never gave you a reason to snoop.

or

(C) Keep the code in mind just in case they start to act up but only use the code if things are getting suspicious.

...What would you do?

2006-11-06 06:05:25 · 9 answers · asked by Isis Dior 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a committed relationship with a man for 3 years now. I live with him and his two children of who I help to raise. My problem is that I want a child of my own and he doesn't. Friends tell me to leave but I love him so much. I just don't know what to do!!! Please help me!

2006-11-06 06:04:56 · 13 answers · asked by Patricia L 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-06 06:04:40 · 26 answers · asked by chica bonita 1 in Singles & Dating

i would appreciate all answers,thanks

2006-11-06 06:03:39 · 8 answers · asked by W.M.D 1 in Singles & Dating

This question is a little open so let me explain. I am 22 and in college my boyfriend is 25 and works a decent job. He and i plan on marrying someday but we don't want to rush into it. I recently got off the pill and hope to be pregnant soon. My boyfriend thinks we shouldn't tell anyone that though, he thinks that if i get pregnant it would be more appropriate to tell everyone it was an accident. I find this odd, but true. That if you tell people, that you are young, unmarried, and yes poor and are planning to have a child they think your foolish. Yet if you have one accidentaly that is okay because you are young and poor and according to most probably not too bright. To me if i have thought about the consequences and the hardships of having a child, and plan to work hard and raise it to the best of my ability that is what should matter. Yet society frowns upon this. Should only middle class, and married people have children? Why are accidents considered more acceptable?

2006-11-06 06:02:19 · 5 answers · asked by TR 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you wanted to ask me anything, what would it be? If your lucky I might give you an answer!

2006-11-06 06:01:46 · 28 answers · asked by helloha06 1 in Friends

2006-11-06 06:00:13 · 15 answers · asked by david 2 in Singles & Dating

ok... well i went out to a bar a few weeks ago and dont remember much of that night... i dont think i did anything to compromise myself like leave my drink but i dont remember much and well im feelin weird... is it just worry or what do you guys think... please help me out... oh and will i lose the ones i love???

2006-11-06 06:00:10 · 10 answers · asked by jeans0079 3 in Singles & Dating

weve only been together for 8months but we are serious,help meee

2006-11-06 05:59:49 · 10 answers · asked by Rissa 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to tell my ex b/f (Ross durnin) that i hate him and despise him. The physical pain I live with everyday only gets worse and i cannot get it off my chest, why does he get to go live a free life when i have to cry in pain just to get out of bed every morning?.

2006-11-06 05:59:47 · 7 answers · asked by kiti4u 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

if so, how often do you call him/her (which is it?)?

2006-11-06 05:59:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I like this guy.And I thought he liked me,because he flirted with me alot,and we talked really really long online most of the times, sometime till 3-4 am.So.. I thought i knew him.And he even gave me the heart and kiss signs sometimes as well when I logged off. This isn't quite normal because we're both asians and he's really conservative and everything.However, I never knew for sure if he likes me or not, and for my part, I really really like him.. alot... I'd been keeping my feelings inside for a long time, and suddenly, a few days ago I lost my wits and told him to come meet me and told him that I like him.And during our talk, he said he "liked" me as well..only before and not now.So I was very very down and disappointed.But I was still ok with it.Until I found out from his friend (also mine) that he lied to me and said he liked me just because he was feeling sorry for me...I..seriously don't understand what he's thinking..These days have been the longest days in my life.. help...

2006-11-06 05:59:30 · 4 answers · asked by nguyen p 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a 5 month old child my boyfriend recently got custody of and he lives in a different state and my mothers rights are about to be terminated and im stuck in a shelter for her behaviour when the cops came for my child i am almost 18 3months from now would i have the right to just leave to the state where hes at if they let me?

2006-11-06 05:57:08 · 4 answers · asked by darklotusobo 2 in Family

I am helping raise 2 children. (Full time)- I take them to dr.'s appt, practices , do homework, laundry , cook their meals. I am basically doing what their biological mom doesn't, and I find myself getting resentful because I dont feel as a stepparent there is any kind of recognition for things you do . Am I wrong? How do you get past feeling like no matter how much you do or what you say it is never good enough? How do you get past feeling resentful? Is it normal to feel this way?

2006-11-06 05:56:42 · 6 answers · asked by luckygirl 2 in Family

ok mygf and i have been together for a while but she dotn act like shes intrested in me she like acts liek she doessnt want to be together when shes with her friends but when its jus me and her she tells me how much she loves me and stuff so idk what to do

2006-11-06 05:56:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Also, If I were to get a tatoo instead of piercing.. what kind and where?

2006-11-06 05:56:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

our relationship is falling apart.. we both see it. He is Not exactly good to me.. and i use to feel like a strong girl.. and now i feel pathetic and week.. and I already love my baby.. But here i am 9 months pregnant and im clinging to him. I know i have to do this on my own.. Im just terrified. I am still inlove with him. that makes it even harder. But i know i need to think of my daughter first. Im just so scared.. I beg him to stay...

2006-11-06 05:55:52 · 24 answers · asked by pladedah 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 05:55:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me this. Back in the day marriage was to be special, you were not to be divorced as it was a sin, but now people are treating it as if it is part of everyday life. What about those of us that still have those values what are we supposed to do? how are we supposed to coupe with the crap? It honestly is not fair when you put in everything you possibly can into a marriage to just one day say I am over and I dont love you anymore! How do u do that? I don't understand it at all. I cant even rationalize it in my head and this has been since april.... Insight please as why people are so easy to just say forget it and start over again.

2006-11-06 05:55:29 · 19 answers · asked by just me 1 in Marriage & Divorce