My boyfriend and I love each other more than anything in the world. We are closer than best friends and lover . We are beyond that path. We been together for 4years almost 5, but just recently this week he told me that somehow he feel that he lost a feelings for me so he ask for a break to think about it. although he say he love me still and care for me it just his feeling seem to go bit by bit.I told him that he can, then a week later he say he love me but now is been anther week and he acting strange. He look sad sometimes when he stare at me then he don't want to kick it ask much anymore. What should I do? I Love him more than my life, and I never lost feeling for him. I want him to be happy, but he say nothing is wrong but there is because I know him for too long. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't love me and I don't want the person I love and care for than my life to be miserable with me.
2006-11-06 06:06:58 · 6 answers · asked by Un4getableAsianGirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just ask him what's going on. Just explain that you have a feeling that he's got something on his mind and that you do not like seeing him miserable. He may have cheated and that's why he looks sad when he looks at you.. I don't what to sound pessimistic or anything. Just throwing out possibilities...
My B/F went through this. He just didnt think he deserved me. We took a break, and he got his head on straight.... the key is to communicate.
2006-11-06 06:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by MomOf2Girls 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him this. If you want to leave me, I will have to respect your decision. I love you, but I love you enough to let you go. But know this, I will find someone else in the future. This isn't a threat, this is a fact. I may fall in love with someone else in the future and that would destroy any chance of us getting back together. He needs to know what he is really doing here, and if you give him the impression that you are going to sit around crying and waiting for him to come back to you he will run all over you. Let him know you will be sad, but in a few weeks, you will be dating.
2006-11-06 14:14:16 · answer #2 · answered by Corona 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, don't ever love anybody more than you love yourself. Not only it isn't healthy for you but its also unattractive.
Second, give him all the time he needs, if you guys are meant to be, he will come back. In the mean time, try to improve yourself and fill your life with exciting things that you always wanted to do but never done it. ( like Sky diving, take up Karake class..etc..) If you need step by step instruction of how to get him back, Email me. Good luck!
2006-11-06 14:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by Evangeless 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me like you have your head on straight ! Sounds like the guy has found someone else ! Get out and quit pining away for him ! He is probably feeling guilty about the way things have turned out but can't do anything to change it now ! There aren't but two things that could cause someone to turn away from their true love without warning.........drugs or another relationship ! Give him his space....but take yours also !!!!!!!
2006-11-06 14:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by lilbit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do anything. When you lose feelings for a person you just cant get them back sometimes. Just let him go. People come and people go in you life thats just how it is.
2006-11-06 14:41:04 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sadness look are not really sad , they are guilt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! take it from there ....that is such BS .. I want to break up and think about it .. come on .. thats I still might want to be with you , but I am going to look for some one esle to sleep with and if I do not find some one better than you , I will be back , so please wait for me .. don't be a fool !!
2006-11-06 14:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by blueflowerscs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋