Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

Or should I lie? or say nothing? or what!

Because if the truth is negative, then you shouldn't say it, right? But we shouldn't lie either, right?

Get what I'm saying?

2006-11-06 06:50:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, here's the deal; yesterday me went to . Right away I knew because it's happened before. So, today lunch and ! I can't ! The worst part; before we she wanted like that but now . At this point and chalk it up to ? What do you think?

2006-11-06 06:50:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why or why not?

2006-11-06 06:50:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She does not converse with anybody else other than her boyfriend, but SHE won't let this bloke go out anywhere without her. If he is driving the car and looks at another car (as you would do in the traffic), she'd automatically assume that he is looking at another girl/ woman in the car. If he is playing the Lara Croft games on the computer, she'd get very defensive and claim that he fancied the cartoon character in question. She even ripped a page out of the daily paper the other day, so the poor bloke wouldn't see the woman that was on the page. He can't wear sunglasses because she wants to see where he is looking, can't do anything without her going mad and possessive. She seriously lacks confidence and is violent and verbally abusive if she doesn't get her way. May I add before you all start judging this man that he has no pervy predispositions. He has just fallen for this girl, but do u think he should dump her (like he intended the other day), or have endless patience.

2006-11-06 06:50:02 · 28 answers · asked by ribena 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 06:49:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you both have your own special names for each other, or do you not care for pet names/

2006-11-06 06:48:47 · 12 answers · asked by Lin_82 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, theres this girl i like and the whole f'n school knows it along with her. for the past two months ive been having a tough time with this cause i aint got no ballz and i cant figure out what to say. now she thinks im a stalker cause i dont really talk to her. we hang out a lot cause we have pretty much the same friends. if you have an idea for like a "comeback" attempt to get her please list your idea. i believe that nothing is ever hopeless, you can always have a chance. even if u have an idea that builds for the future,it'd be greatly appreciated cause im only a freshman in high school. IF YOU HAVE A NEGATIVE COMMENT DONT PUT IT IN CAUSE THAT PUTS DOWN MY SELF CONFIDENCE!! THX

2006-11-06 06:48:10 · 12 answers · asked by German L 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather date someone average to not good looking, but great personality or date someone very good looking, but with not much personality? Be honest

2006-11-06 06:47:58 · 30 answers · asked by Tom W 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the matter with the man ,who sends cross(confused)messages while a girl is in contact with him face to face. now that i notice he once tells he would be available at the time of need.other time he would sound harsh with her on phone,unlike other days when he used to be cheerful!?

2006-11-06 06:47:47 · 1 answers · asked by sosi 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 06:47:30 · 6 answers · asked by vishwas d 1 in Weddings

Recently I made contact online with an old friend. We actually dated for a short time about ten years ago and have not talked since. But over the past couple of weeks we have been exchanging emails. Nothing romantic or intimate or anything like that. Just catching up. I am in a serious relationship already and I don't want to do anything to jeapordize my relationship, but I don't really think I am doing anything wrong.
Do you agree/disagree?
What are your reasons?

2006-11-06 06:46:14 · 17 answers · asked by hunnyimissu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have never been approached by any man outside of my race and have always wondered why. I don't find myself intimidating nor do people who know me, so I don't believe that is the problem. Is there something that I am doing wrong? Is there a different way that I should be approaching this situation? I am very interested in dating a white man and any advice you could provide would be appreciated.

2006-11-06 06:46:11 · 12 answers · asked by spinningchick1 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this fair? I don't think so but it is causing problems in my marriage.

2006-11-06 06:45:32 · 13 answers · asked by TML ♥'er 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-06 06:45:21 · 3 answers · asked by babyblitz26 1 in Friends

I know I asked this earlier but I want as many opinions as possibl

I'm in high school, do you think that it is arrogant to just go up to a group of people out of the blue and ask if you can sit with them at lunch or something like that. I know them all and they all like me and I like all them and I've known them for years even though we're not really close friends but I don't know if that's like inviting myself and it's arrogant and I should just forget it. Also they're kind of popular and I'm not exactly popular but most people like me, I'm liked but not popular.

2006-11-06 06:43:50 · 16 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

My wife ended up having a few more drinks than she usually does.
I was getting ready to leave , and I found her in the basement making-out with a guy! His hand was in her shirt - they were really kissing deep unil they heard me.
They both started saying sorry...it was the alchohol...etc..
I know they guy, he lives in Virginia and is only in town once or twice a year to visit my brother-in-law (who was having the party).
I'm certainly not worried about him trying to see her often - or them having an affair - he was leaving the next day.
Anyhow - when my wife and I got home, we had the best sex we ever had in a long time. I kept thinking about his hand touching and squeezing her boobs! Why was THAT a turn on?
Should I be upset with her about her kissing the guy? Or
should I just put it down as an isolated alchohol-related incident?
I know i should be more upset - but the end result was fantastic for both of us -

2006-11-06 06:43:47 · 32 answers · asked by play_ball 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am. I'm getting so tired of it.

2006-11-06 06:43:42 · 6 answers · asked by TML ♥'er 3 in Marriage & Divorce

This guy on another rescue squad gave me his business card and wrote his home and cell numbers on the back of the card and told me to call him. (He wanted me to go out with the rest of his squad for drinks. ) However, because I was moving (seriously, no lie) I called him a week and a half after he gave me his numbers and left a message on his machine. Its been four days since I've called and I feel horrible that I called him so late..but the move was crazy.
Should I be worried? Do you think he will call me?

2006-11-06 06:42:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My GF and I are on a "break" at the moment, just wanted to know if anyone has ever gotten back together after a "break" or if we are just holding on to what we had because we are not ready to let go?

2006-11-06 06:42:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm still very much in love with my ex boyfriend and we have become decent friends agian over the past 3 months or so. I just got a message from my friends that his ex lindee who is also a mutual friend of mine is pregnant. They dated about 6 months ago and i guess he just found out. Im scared of how to react i don;t know hpow to react around her or my ex. Or my other friends who are friends with lindee if i freak out too much i could push someone away. Im kind of scared and shocked idk how to react im about 2 hours away from home and in college im trying to look at the situation as no big deal im here they are there. But when i go home it is a situation i will have to deal with face to face and im not sure how. Considering i still love My ex. I wonder what this will do to mine and his friendship. Im afraid our bond will dwindle.i need to talk to someone about this situation but i cannot turn to any of my friends back home. They're all friends with lindee so i dont know where to turn.

2006-11-06 06:42:16 · 25 answers · asked by bobbo 1 in Friends

in a school class, everyone pairs off quickly, romantic or friendly, for the first 2 years of grammar school, i was alone, nobody spoke to me i was just the one who was always there. Then i found 2 great friends. But they fell out over me and now i am freinds with neither. This year, i have people whop i consider friends, but i am so sczred they dont think the same way. I am timid and i hate to be the one to ask for friendship. I havnt had a girlfriend for 2 years, and the last one to ask me out was kidding and i said yes and was completely humiliated. How can i ever make more friends, to most i am neutral, but i need more- some real friends who like me for who i am. Plz help.

2006-11-06 06:42:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She repeatedly denies things that she says about me, even when I have confronted her with it. I have told her in the past that I have heard her say things about me to my father, yet she still denies saying anything. When pressed about this issue, she changes the subject or denies it rather angrily, and says I am just "hearing things."

Why would my mother say this and why is she doing this to me?

Paul

2006-11-06 06:41:45 · 10 answers · asked by dunric 1 in Family

My boyfriend and i have been together for over nine months and all but he's never said i love you at all could this mean that he doesn't love me?

2006-11-06 06:41:21 · 14 answers · asked by Sad 'n' Sorry 1 in Singles & Dating

It usually happens that my family doesn't tell me something really important until I hear about it 2nd or even 3rd hand. For example, my father didn't tell me the combination to the safe for several years, nor did he bother to let me know the combo to the alarm system for equally as long.

Even today, at 30, my parents aren't always upfront with me and often keep things from me.

Why?

Paul

2006-11-06 06:40:05 · 15 answers · asked by dunric 1 in Family

When a man and woman get married - they take vows that they will only be with each other. So why is it when one partner cheats, friends, family and society (especially the spouse) blames the other person. That person did not take a vow that he/she wouldn't hook up with people! It should be the responsiblility of the Married person to stay commited to theor spouse not the rest of society's ... but no the other person is labeled home wrecker... if it wasn't already broken chances are they would not be cheating in the first place... thoughts?

2006-11-06 06:39:48 · 16 answers · asked by ice_princess 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy i like left. I like him sense the first day i saw him and i cant stoped thinking about him what can i do to get him out of my head???

2006-11-06 06:39:08 · 31 answers · asked by Denise V 1 in Singles & Dating

I've tried to stop him, hittin ghim ( he likes it - yikes!) and telling her about him, but it doesn't work. what can i do?

2006-11-06 06:38:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

whats yours and why?

mine is the windows advert (buy one get one free) that little dwarfy fella with the voice like nails own a blackboard who wears this really stupid red coat....he really gets on my nerves....someone poke pins in my eyes, pleeeaaassssse..arghhhhhhh!!!

may i add that i dont always watch the telly...but corrie is on and i had to endure the ads first....lol....

2006-11-06 06:37:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a son and I love him with my whole heart. Granted he get's in trouble, all children do. But, I still love him so very much. Many men or women just stop, drop and roll to be with another pearson and leaving their child or children. How can that be, I just do not understant. How they would let their children go, so they could be with another pearson. Many say I love my child. How can you say, I love my child or children, when you just let them go? I do not undrestant, please tell me how.

2006-11-06 06:36:48 · 28 answers · asked by mary l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am good guy who is very respectful and good to him and his mom.

2006-11-06 06:36:44 · 18 answers · asked by ciuajj 1 in Singles & Dating