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okay, theres this girl i like and the whole f'n school knows it along with her. for the past two months ive been having a tough time with this cause i aint got no ballz and i cant figure out what to say. now she thinks im a stalker cause i dont really talk to her. we hang out a lot cause we have pretty much the same friends. if you have an idea for like a "comeback" attempt to get her please list your idea. i believe that nothing is ever hopeless, you can always have a chance. even if u have an idea that builds for the future,it'd be greatly appreciated cause im only a freshman in high school. IF YOU HAVE A NEGATIVE COMMENT DONT PUT IT IN CAUSE THAT PUTS DOWN MY SELF CONFIDENCE!! THX

2006-11-06 06:48:10 · 12 answers · asked by German L 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

just say something normal to her, talk to her about anything at first and ease into it. you don't have to have the perfect line, if she is interested in you she isn't going to hold it against you if you're not exactly a poet the first time you open your mouth.

2006-11-06 06:54:22 · answer #1 · answered by domangelo 3 · 0 0

I had two friends who liked eachother for forever but when the guy never acted the girl found a new boyfriend I'm not trying to say that your situation is the same but you should push yourself a little to actually get up enough guts to talk to her come on whats the worst that would happen the best is that you guys will date like you want and seriously most girls love when guys take initative especially when they know that the guy is scared. You obviously like her and just when you guys are hanging out by yourselves or with friends just flirt like major

hope i helped!

2006-11-06 07:33:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lailee M 1 · 0 0

Just be yourself and don't get too nervous. Since you both hang out with the same friends, why don't you try talking to her about activities she likes. For instance, say she likes playing a sport, tell her that you enjoy the sport as well. Once you appear to be interested in what she likes, maybe she will start talking to you more. Good Luck!

2006-11-06 06:55:08 · answer #3 · answered by Scooter 3 · 0 0

Try this one out. "Would you like to go out this weekend?" Simple yet to the point. If you like her go for it and know if she turns you down, it's fine. Your whole life is ahead of you and there will be much more opportunity out there. You just have to go for it. Now boost up your confidence and grab your self-esteem with your sincerest heart and smile and ask her out!!! And always be a gentlemen. Good Luck!!! And remember this:"Nothing ever just falls on your lap, you need to go for what you want in this life!!!"

2006-11-06 06:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0 0

Dude just tell her how you feel, why keep it a secret?

Don't let the opptunities you want pass you by, you'll live to regret it. Even if she says no its not the end of the world, just the beginning of something else.

2006-11-06 06:50:35 · answer #5 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0 0

be yourself be confident in who you are. if you're scared about what she will think bring a friend with you and start talking to her. talk about things that ya'll have in common. then ask her if maybe she would like to hang out with you sometime. g'luck

2006-11-06 06:51:39 · answer #6 · answered by S 5 · 0 0

i dont get what u mean by a comeback but just talk to her, ask her out, or start by complementing and saying hi....

2006-11-06 06:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by sweet18apparatus 4 · 0 0

Go with your gut, man. You can do it. You don't have to do anything earth-shattering or spectacular....just simply be yourself and let her know how you feel. You CAN'T go wrong with that.

2006-11-06 06:51:20 · answer #8 · answered by Kent 3 · 0 0

ok i cant realy help you that much but there is a woman who help me with all that sortes of problems and realy put up my self confidense
her email is merry.fiser@yahoo.com
she might help you too ! good luck !

2006-11-06 06:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by Pavel 2 · 0 0

well sweaty at times you just ave to let her know how you feel because she may never know your true feelings just what everybody says about you liking her .So let her know so you can off your chest okay sweety!!

2006-11-06 06:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by Tabby 2 · 0 0

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