Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

I Met this girl about 6 months ago. I told her somthing about me that wasn't true just to make myself look better and I never thought it was going to go anywhere anyway... now it's 6 months down the road, we are crazy about each other. This lie has nothing to do with how she percieves me, so it's not like I lied about somthing I was or wasn't... It's just starting to eat me alive... there isn't any way she could find out but It's still driving me nuts... im leaning towards let the past be the past... It's the only thing Ive ever told her that wasn't true, but it's still a lie nontheless...

2006-11-06 07:27:46 · 24 answers · asked by Sean L 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 07:26:07 · 6 answers · asked by LyDia W 1 in Singles & Dating

I am married to an amazing woman whom I love and cherish. We have been married for two years, and I'm having an issue. I can only get interested sexually when she is wearing tights or stockings. I especially love it when we're out in public and she's wearing hose. It drives me wild. Unforunately, when she's not wearing tights, I'm fairly tepid. It's not her; it's a fetish I've had since puberty, and it's been this way with all my former girlfriends.

I've tried to explain the situation, but I'm not sure that she really understands. I feel that we're starting to drift apart. What can I do? I love her so much, and I don't want to lose her.

2006-11-06 07:26:05 · 14 answers · asked by NewcastleFan76 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-06 07:25:48 · 25 answers · asked by joiedevivre29 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 07:25:31 · 17 answers · asked by Sarah T 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay first off I’ll say that normally I wouldn’t ask others for advice because I usually work things out by myself but this one is hard. My wife went to Brazil for some medical volunteer work. She came back and for some reason I could tell something wasn’t right. Anyway I let it slide. I use to use her yahoo profile to play games on-line and when she got back she changed the password and came up this lame excuse why. Normally I would ask for the password because I know that she would give it to me because she had nothing to hide but this time I knew something was wrong. She told me about everything that went on in Brazil and how it changed her life and how she lost her outlook on reality while she was their... I asked her half joking if anything happened that I should know about and she got supper defensive. I found out her password to her e-mail and found out that she has been writing back and fourth to this guy she met while she was their. In these e-mails they both tell each other how much they miss and love each other. Second she has been talking to him on her cell phone and not telling me about the phone calls. She has other contact with the volunteers and tells me about the phone calls and e-mails but not about the ones with the guy. I kind of feel her about not telling me because she thinks I would freak out about it but shes wrong. Anyway in one email the guy’s response to one of her email that he likes that she had a dream about him and that he misses “sharing kisses and her soft skin. I just want to know if this is enough info to confront her or should I wait for more. Also do you people think she cheated because I am kind of in denial about the whole thing? Also should I let it slide because she was gone for two weeks in a third world village and kind of lost reality for those two weeks. She kind of cheated me before we got married but we were broken up at the time but I think she was just waiting for the chance. We have a boy and house together and been married 4 years. Sorry about the grammar and messed up writing but I need help. Also why do I feel embarrassed that she did this?

2006-11-06 07:24:53 · 18 answers · asked by Lost73 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-06 07:24:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am i crazy or what!!? i cant believe i did this!! OMG!!?
I was at a party this weekend and ...well... was dared to do something so i did it! i slept with another girl...but while a bunch of people watched!!! OMG! yes i even let them take my leg off!,(i am an amputee,)and some guy drank beer out of it!! eww! The bad part is i think i enjoyed the action with the other girl! is this crazy.? let me know if i am nuts.!

2006-11-06 07:24:29 · 20 answers · asked by brittney i 1 in Singles & Dating

single now more than ever and have strangely become attracted to disney cartoon charachters. How do you get up the motivation to get out of loser mode and what do you do?

2006-11-06 07:23:48 · 18 answers · asked by ladee337 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 07:23:41 · 19 answers · asked by lil hot 1 in Singles & Dating

If your woman owns toys, how do you feel about them? Do you feel intimidated, turned on, left out?
And, is she does not own then, would you like it if she did?

Ladies, your input is welcome as well.

2006-11-06 07:22:55 · 10 answers · asked by laneydoll 5 in Singles & Dating

oh my gosh i like this boy my school he's so cute and i keep flirtin' with him but my friend valeria likes him. but i like him 2. and is this crazy i have my period and he wants 2 tonuch me there but this other boy that i like (jonathan) well i use 2 and know his flirtin' with me oh my gosh

2006-11-06 07:22:27 · 9 answers · asked by I C 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 07:22:17 · 19 answers · asked by Sarah T 3 in Singles & Dating

i'm 21 and he's 31- he wants children now, but i don't

2006-11-06 07:22:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

were but i told my friends that emo guys r so hot & they all started laughing at me because they were like ... their all gay and my guy friends said that too..... r they? also 2 any emo guys out there... do u guys usually like emo girls or not emo girls?

2006-11-06 07:20:46 · 7 answers · asked by paris&&niclole 1 in Singles & Dating

how old were you when you had sex? i need to know b-cause my bf always works it into our conversations and i think i am ready but i want other opinions!!! thankz

2006-11-06 07:20:32 · 16 answers · asked by Jenni 1 in Singles & Dating

and I'm really not that stressed. Not that I'm complaining, but everyone has been telling me that brides always get really stressed this close to the wedding. I am getting really excited and just slightly nervous, but not stressed out.
I've contacted the florist and the flowers are good. Paid for and all arrangements made.
The gal baking my cake knows the plan and has already started making the decorations. (They are non-edible picks that go all over the cake.) Also paid for.
The pastor has everything on his schedule.
My dress is already fitted and pressed, waiting to be put on.
My fiance's tux arrangements are set. We go on the twentieth for final fitting and pick up. (The weddings on the 25th.)
The decorations are all set, just have to put them up the day before. The reception is cake and punch and the church women's group is taking care of that.
The rings are with my mom.
The bridesmaids and groomsmen have their clothing set.
The invitations were sent out.

2006-11-06 07:20:31 · 29 answers · asked by skrablesgirl 1 in Weddings

2006-11-06 07:20:31 · 12 answers · asked by LyDia W 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with this one person for about 2 1/2 years and I really really care for him. I love him. I lived with him for a few months and we just started fighting cats and dogs.. now that we dun live together.. everything is fine. I wonder if I will marry this man? I don't know what to do... So how do you know when you are ready to get married and start having kids?

2006-11-06 07:19:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well all my friends keep fussing with there clothes or with there make up to impress some guy or just the people around them.Is it a bad think if i don't care what i look like to another person?

2006-11-06 07:19:38 · 15 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just want to know!

2006-11-06 07:19:11 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Just yesterday, me and my girlfriend broke up after a bit over a year because she is in a position where she cant really see me or even talk on the phone to me anymore, trying hard to make ends meet. I addressed that to her and she said we should cut it short and its something she has to do, which i did understand. We did say we would try again once everything works out well for her, so we do have an understanding and we're still friends. But still, its hard to deal with. Even if we do get back together, what should I do at least in the mean time so im not just moping around?

2006-11-06 07:18:56 · 3 answers · asked by Mady 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 07:18:36 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl started as friends. No we are starting to become closer. We have gone on a double date and we have gone out with friends and stuff. I paid on the double date to the movies. We are going on our first official date alone to a resturante this weekend. Should i pay for the bill at the resturante. What other things should we do?

2006-11-06 07:16:57 · 13 answers · asked by Q 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex husband is dating his recently deceased brothers widow. She has a 10 month old from his brother and they have recently announced that she is pregnant (with my ex-husbands baby). My ex-husband and I have an 8-year old daughter together and I think that this situation is morally wrong and confusing for the kids. So now my daughter is going to have a baby brother or sister that is also her cousin? I dont want my daughter around that situation and since my ex has pretty much been a dead beat dad the whole time, I think I have the control as to whether or not she is in that enviornment? Am I over reacting here or is what they are doing just plain wrong? A little advice here...

2006-11-06 07:16:57 · 24 answers · asked by Cbauer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What are your tips and tricks?

2006-11-06 07:16:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been together for 7 1/2 years, about three months ago she broke up with me, we just recently married early in January this year. I ask her why? Is there another man? She said no.... then she started using myspace.com i notice that she is always "messaging" an old friend of mine which he is separated from his wife and has 3 kids of his own, we have 2. Present.... found out they are together, hidden messages(email, text), phone calls, lunch, dinner, the works.

I love my wife, this is the second time we have separated. I tried leaving my wife and kids, left them for about a month, had to comeback because the "guy" started hanging around with my kids. I moved back into the house and she left to live somewhere else. She is at the house everyday, whether a couple of hours or she stays the night.

2006-11-06 07:16:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A co-worker of mine was with this guy on and off for over ten years but hear he is supposed to marry someone else he's met over a year ago. I know my co-worker was still booty-calling with him while he was with this other girl. She's told us she's spoken to the other girl, and the girl confirmed that there was going to be a marriage. My friend thinks that he's coming back to her very soon. What in the hell could she be thinking. Do you all think this guy is loading my friend's head with all this bull crap or is she in denial?

2006-11-06 07:16:31 · 3 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you do if your husband looks at porn, you ask him not to and he says he wont and you catch him 2 more times and he goes to site where there are skimpy women and videos and he says he isnt and you know he is...and he lies about it...it upsets me that he lies to me and that he still goes there when i ask him not to and it bothers me he needs those women..and we never have sex unless i ask for it ..what to do??

2006-11-06 07:16:17 · 12 answers · asked by Liz M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

would you be offended if your significate other sent you information...
you see my mom adopted my younger sister who was molested and she gets tested and i'ts important to me, i sent my boyfriend an article on how 6 out of 10 heterosexuals have not been tested and why.

would he get offended? We did touch base on how i feel about it

2006-11-06 07:15:44 · 9 answers · asked by Juleette 6 in Singles & Dating