Just yesterday, me and my girlfriend broke up after a bit over a year because she is in a position where she cant really see me or even talk on the phone to me anymore, trying hard to make ends meet. I addressed that to her and she said we should cut it short and its something she has to do, which i did understand. We did say we would try again once everything works out well for her, so we do have an understanding and we're still friends. But still, its hard to deal with. Even if we do get back together, what should I do at least in the mean time so im not just moping around?
2006-11-06 07:18:56 · 3 answers · asked by Mady 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go out on dates w/ new girls.. not to be mean, and not to be a jerk, but because she broke it off with you, and YOU need to get to a place where You are Happy, Healthy, Positive, and a Whole person. get your life together... if u find a new girl who is in a better position to fit your lifestyle, u may realize that the previous girl may have been a mis-match. or if u don't find anyone u want to date seriously, continue to wait for her. but u never know, she may find someone else during this period too! and since u understand and are mutually not together at this time, u can't get mad later =T. so, i say just work on ur life: study harder, do well at work, make lots of friends, have a great life! get along w/ ur family, and continue to learn new things, current events, hobbies, etc.....that way, if she Does come back, u have so much to share w/ her! and if she Doesn't come back, u have so much to offer to someone new!
good luck~ remember, it's great to share a life w/ someone, but to depend on them to make u happy is dangerous. u have to be happy Yourself first, so that u can truly experience how the person enhances ur life. if u are kinda down, depressed, lonely, and depend on someone to make u happy, u won't truly be able to tell if it is ur Loneliness that is being satisfied, or your Happiness. good luck~
2006-11-06 07:26:34 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. If its meant to be, then it will be sometime in the future. For now....pick up a new hobby, like go tot he gym. Do some cardio like running or cycling. Not only will you be burning off fat, but probably a lot of tension. hang out with your friends, start dating too. Good luck!!
2006-11-06 07:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to get over the time spend time with your friends and your family visit somebody you haven't seen for a long time but don't mess like talking to a girl so stay away untill you get back don't mess okay laterz
2006-11-06 07:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by mrl53104 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋