I am married to an amazing woman whom I love and cherish. We have been married for two years, and I'm having an issue. I can only get interested sexually when she is wearing tights or stockings. I especially love it when we're out in public and she's wearing hose. It drives me wild. Unforunately, when she's not wearing tights, I'm fairly tepid. It's not her; it's a fetish I've had since puberty, and it's been this way with all my former girlfriends.
I've tried to explain the situation, but I'm not sure that she really understands. I feel that we're starting to drift apart. What can I do? I love her so much, and I don't want to lose her.
2006-11-06 07:26:05 · 14 answers · asked by NewcastleFan76 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's great that you have a fetish and you are comfortable enough to share that with your wife. But please remember that tights/nylons are synthetic material and doesn't let us girls "breath" which in turn causes medical problems. Why don't you just save the mystery for home. Also what is unexpected is sexier. Why don't you put some nylon in your pocket or something. Carry a picture of her in nylons to "turn you on" Find other facets. It would be pretty boring if I wore nylons all the time.
2006-11-06 14:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by doom92556 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just ask her to wear tights/stockings etc once in a while when you go out together for the evening. Just don't ask her to do it all of the time. If you love hosiery so much. You wear the tights. Your relationship may not last, but at least you got your new tights.
2006-11-06 08:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rosie the Riviter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a lingerie store and actually show her what you like. You can even surprise her with an outfit that has the "stockings" that appeal to you. This is def finitely not something you should lose a marriage over, my goodness. Maybe you need to again express how much this gets you going, and how incredible she looks wearing them.
2006-11-06 07:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by Carey L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well personally I dont see what her problem is with wearing them if thats what it takes. There are a whole lot worse fetishes out there. She should consider herself lucky. Talk to her more and ask her whats her problem with complying with the tight/stocking wearing.
2006-11-06 07:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is if your marriage is falling apart because she doesn't wear tights enough then you have more problems than just that. Are you even serious with this ????? Now Ive heard everything.
2006-11-06 07:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask her to wear them but its unreasonable to expect her to wear them every time you have sex. This is your fetish and your problem to deal with, not hers. Get some help so you can have good sex without the hose sometimes.
2006-11-06 07:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by chicchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are certain kinds you like, fishnets, etc - then tell her that you like watching her in them...
Get her to walk around with you outside in nothing but a long coat and a pair of stockings with high heel shoes... Bet that gets you really hot... ;)
2006-11-06 07:32:51 · answer #7 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her That she looks very sexy when she wears tights...Tell her that she drives you wild when she wears them....Maybe she will even be willing to take pictures for you...that way you can always see her wearing them when you want....Maybe even wearing different ones in different poses....If you let her know how much it turns you on she might be willing to wear them for you more often...
2006-11-06 07:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by YourGSpot.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't want to wear tights constantly, you can't force her. You sound really immature and need to expand your sexual preferences and learn to be a little bit open minded. How sad that only one thing turns you on. Grow up.
2006-11-06 07:28:52 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
get over it. What if her fetish was for you to put an apple in your bum or else she couldn't get turned on, wouldn't you drift apart from her too?
2006-11-06 07:31:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋