Two years... discussing openly my feeings about our marriage and nothing... nothing has changed. My husband would rather hang out with his friends then me. I am good to him. I take very good care of him. In our intimate life, I do all the work. I have made out with my husband maybe a total of 4 times our whole marriage. Its like its a chore for him to do anything with me. He is constantly looking at things for himself, buying things for himself,... with little or no regard for me at all. Everytime I try and talk to him nice, he rages and goes in and sleeps. Ignores me. We got into conseling, and he hasnt applied a thing that is being asked of him to try and do. I dont know what I am doing wrong. We used to have intimacy at least every other day and now its down to 1 a week, and it hurts because its just placing it in me and getting off... nothing for me at all. There has never been oral sex to me, always to him. HE has never even given me pleasure, I have always had to do that myself.
2006-11-06
06:51:59
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Anna Q
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Marriage & Divorce