my son is 15 an he wants to start dating should i let him?

Question

hes a good kid his grades are good and he dont ask for much he talks to girls on the phone and at school but he wants to start the going out thing like the movies,games,etc.

Answer 1

Yea why not? Be sure to buy lots of rubbers for him.

Answer 2

You said your son is a good kid, responsible, etc. I don't see a problem with letting him start dating. However, like the others said- definitely have THE TALK with him. He may be a good kid, but he'll encounter many temptations and challenges once he starts dating.

I know it's hard for a parent to consider that you child has sexual urges (even if it's just kissing), but he must understand that there are consequences to any actions, not just in the medical or physical sense, but also psychologically and emotionally. And these consequences aren't just going to affect him, but his date/girlfriend as well.

Answer 3

Sure you should, there's no reason not to, he has to start somewhere. You should talk to him about being nice to females, you should be very open with him about everything so when he has a problem in his relationship, which all teenagers have he can go to you and talk. Also around that age is when guys start having interest in sexual activities, no matter if theyre they best kid in the school. You have to talk to him about waiting and not pressuring and things like that. I'm 23 and expecting a little boy in a month and i will always remember teenager boys and how they were in school. As long as your open and honest, he'll have fun dating and get to know his girlfriends.

Answer 4

Let him date, cause if you don't give him the approval he is looking for, he will begin to sneak behind your back. My son is 13 and I encourage him to pursue a girl he is interested in, it's all Innocent, I will drop them off at the movies or allow him to invite her over for dinner. Try to be an active part in his new relationships, when the girls call, say hi, how are you. Ask your son, so who do you like now, what's she like. It's sure hard to watch your kids grow up, but you can still allow them to grow up and support their decisions, see we learn from mistakes and you have to let him make mistakes to learn by them. The only thing I would encourage you to do, if you haven't already... is talk to him about waiting to have sex, the pros and the cons, diseases. I have had a very long talk with my son about the risks. Good luck mom..... your boy is growing up!

Answer 5

Yes, you should, because he may start dating behind your back. My niece lives with me and she is 15yrs. Well I always here her on the phone or on the comp. That is how know I found out that she had a boy friend that she was hiding, LOL. I caught her talking to him. I did not say anything to her about me hearing her. In stead, we went to to eat and I told her that I think you are old enough to start dating. But, their are going to be some rules. That did not bother her at all, she loved it. So I think you should, just make rules, that would be good for you and your son!!!!

Answer 6

Absolutely, but make limits. No one knows your son better than you, so make the limits reasonable and fair. Just remember to teach him the do's and don't's of dating. Tell him about protection, STD's, and the drama that teenage girls can be. Be supportive but not overbearing. He's not 16 yet so you will be driving and it probably wouldn't be a bad idea to meet the girls he's "going out" with. Good luck. Sounds like you've raised a good boy so you shouldn't have anything to worry about.

Answer 7

Sure, 15 isn't too young to go to a movie or go to a game. Just keep it apropriate and keep the lines of communication open with him. Also, be sure to discuss sex, pregnancy and contraception with him. Contrary to popular Republican beliefs, teen pregnacy rates go up, when abstinance is the only method discussed. When contraception is discussed, pregnancy rates, STD rates and, yes, even abstinance rates go up. Go figure, kids with information, actually are able to use it. Hmm, maybe if the Republicans give us adults information too, we'd use it wisely. Well, I suppose that's asking too much from the Bush gang. Sorry for the rant.

Answer 8

yeah sure. He's in high school right? That's a part of growing up and it will happen eventually. If you tell him he's not allowed, trust me that won't stop him-that may start him disrespecting you and lying to you. But it's normal, just ask him if you can meet his girl before he goes out. Or take him out considering he can't drive. If you think he's a good kid, than he probably deserves it.

Answer 9

yes its old enough to go out to the movies and stuff with girls. just dont be oblivious to the mind of a teenage boy.im sure hes a good kid but make sure hes informed for when hes in a situation alone with a girl to keep the chance of a grandbaby to a minimum.

Answer 10

I say let him date. Hopefully he can repsonsible enough not to take itto the next level yet. He is old enough to date. I would suggest meeting the girls he is going out with or maybe accompanying him on his dates. I am not saying stand right next to him, but drop him off or invite his little girl friends over to your house to get to know them. If you don't let him do this he will find a way to do it anyways so just be involved in his life and supportive as much as you can.

Answer 11

Yes!!! I think kids should have a little bit of Freedom. Is it that you don't want to face that he is growing up? If it is that let him. If you notice any thing different then sit and talk about it.If you think he is out having sex than find out why? Hope I can be some help.