Is it being unfaithful being with someone just for the companion sake even though you are married?

Answer 1

Yes and no, it depends on your wives feelings. If she doesnt like it and you continue to do it even though it hurts her alot then its not right. If she doesnt mind and is comfertable with letting you have female companions then its okay. Its honestly up to her. If you value her feelings then you will do what makes her happy, just like she should do the same thing for you. What you need to do is ask yourself why you want female companionship. If you notice any of your motives might be disloyal then its not alright.

Answer 2

Unfaithful is defined as not adhering to vows or promises. Within the context of marriage, most people have made a vow not to commit adultery. If you are going out and sleeping with this person, then it's adultery and may be being unfaithful.

Some people, those that are polyamorous and those that are swingers (considered two different things) have different rules whereby permission is or can be given to sleep with someone else. In this case, there is no vow being broken if still within those agreed upon rules, though it's still defined as adultery.

If you are breaking a vow you made when you were married, and you both haven't agreed to differ from that, then YES it is being unfaithful.

If you are not breaking any vow you currently have in place, then by definition, you are not being unfaithful.

Answer 3

If your spouse isn't aware of this "companion" or isn't cool with the relationship, then yes it's being unfaithful. That said, even if the spouse knows or is ok with it, there is the temptation for this so-called "friendship" or companion to become a romantic relationship. Personally, I think it's better to have companionship with your spouse.

Answer 4

My sister in law is cheating on her husband, just for companionship. She justifies it by saying she isn't happy and feels lonely. But sad to say, this is still cheating and although she knows this, she continues to cheat, with the idea that she is leaving her husband to find the full package of family, love and companionship. So to answer your question, it's definitely cheating unless you and your spouse have an understanding that you are going to see other people. Hon, if you are that unhappy, leave. Find someone who can full fill everything you need in a relationship. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

I need more information to answer this question without making assumptions. Does you spouse know about the relationship? That is the most important question. If he/she is aware of the relationship, I would not consider it cheating. Are the feeling strictly platonic? If you answered yes to question one, and the relationship is platonic, I see no problem with the friendship.

Answer 6

Yes, it is called an emotional affair, not as bad as a sexual affair, but often leads to one. And although it's not sex, it would still hurt your spouse to know that you are seeking companionship elsewhere.

Answer 7

This is a question you should ask your spouse. If you need to hide it then it probably would be inappropiate in their eyes. But it is nothing wrong with companionship. What do you think friends are for?

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Answer 8

think about the way you will feel if your spouse had a companion then there is your answer

Answer 9

It's not right to go out with someone of the opposite sex if you are married. Period.

Answer 10

yes, your companion should be your husband.... what if the shoe were on the other foot? HOw would you feel?