When we are in the car or out and about i always notice he stares at other women and it makes me feel very insecure,i dont want to say anything because i dont want to seem like i'm jealous and bothered by it. He is also always talking about attractive ladies whom he's worked with and stuff. Should i talk about attractive guys? Do you hate it girls when your guy does this? I know guys will be guys but it's still irritating.
2006-11-06 06:57:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend has a similar habit....but according to him I'm paranoid.....must show him these answers....apparently I am not the only one with mental health issues!!!!!
2006-11-06 07:15:40 · answer #1 · answered by Jane E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean. You can't help but think that if he has a wondering eye, what else might be wondering. My guy used to do this all the time. Everytime I talked to him about it he said that he looks at people, not just girls. Then I explained that when a guy who's with a girl looks at me, it makes me think that he would cheat and I feel sorry for the girl he's with. Then I asked if he wanted other girls to think he would cheat & have them feel sorry for me, and make me feel stupid, then I also reversed the situation, as if I were staring at other guys. He finally understood what I was saying and has improved somewhat.
2006-11-06 07:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by cause0im0broken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to feel the same way. My BF loved big ****. I remember being on the phone with him a few times and he would get flashed by a girl. He's a truck driver and that DOES happen to them alot. He would be screaming to her show him again while I was still on the phone. I would getso pissed off. Then I was with him one day in his truck when he got flashed. He acted the same as when he was on the phone. But only this time we were parked on the side of the road and this chic that flashed him pulls over. She gets out to I guess show him more and he totally freaked out. I have never seen a man shut up so quick. It was so funny. Anyway what I'm saying is they just do it to flirt. No harm done. I started pointing girls out to him that had big **** and would say how about that one. Do you want me to go talk to her for you to see if she will show her ****? He would get so mad. It's was so funny. It's all fun anymore. I wouldn't worry about it. They're to chicken to do anything about it anyway.
2006-11-06 07:16:26 · answer #3 · answered by missjohnnie1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set him straight that you do not like him talking about other girls like this. But i think him feeling comfortable telling you that he notices other attractive women means that he is comfortable with you and remember, he is with you, not them. The worst thing to do would become obviously jealous, tell him that it makes you feel insecure and hopefully that will be enough. Good luck
2006-11-06 07:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 09:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd confront his ***!! if my man was talking about girls, or even looking at girls, i'd be pissed!!! i would straight up tell him how i feel! dont be a coward, don't let this hang on your shoulders drop it on his!! be brave and i know u can do it!! have faith in yourself
2006-11-06 07:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by Cassandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he looks and talks about other girls, he is either ;
a)unhappy with your relationship and wanting other girls
b)trying to fulfil a gap somewhere that your realationship doesnt . talk to him, find out what he WANTS, try it and hopefully everything will be fine.
hes your boyfriend, TRUST IS ESSENTIAL, if you dont trust him or vice versa theres no point. confront him, ask him about his desires
2006-11-06 07:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should say what`s on your mind.I think he should have more respect for you.If I liked or loved someone enough to be with them I would`nt say those kind of things to them or at all.What is he trying to get you ready for?
2006-11-06 07:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by Step 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is time to leave him. That is hella rude of him to look at other girls when you are right there. What would he do if you did that to him? What an a**. Ugh.
2006-11-06 07:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have the CONVERSATION ask him "how would he like it, if it was you doing the same?"
If he thinks that little of you, you will get a SHITE excuse, so ask yourself why are you with him?
If he cares he will mend his ways, end of...
2006-11-06 07:05:04 · answer #10 · answered by JAYFIRE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋